newly@frontiernet.net wrote:I am 58 years old and cannot remember, since I first noticed girls, ever
being attracted to someone that was not very thin. I hear more men are
with bigger women but that is because almost all women are over weight.
Not much to pick from if you are only interested in thin (skinny) girls or women.
I took a friend of mind to a store to buy clothes and she is a size 2 and
everything they had in stock started at a size 10. I looked around at the people in the store and could see why.
Where are the skinny women?
While it is true that there are a lot of overweight women, I have a feeling you may be saying some women are overweight, when infact according to medical standards they are perfectly within a healthy range of weight. Just because a woman wears a size 9/10 does not mean she is overweight. I'm 5'7, weigh 130 (dropped 4 lbs recently from being ill) and wear a size 10. I am completely within the range of healthy weight and actually closer to the underweight range. I don't know where you have been, but everyday I see skinny women. And some of them are just that way naturally and couldn't gain a pound even if they wanted to, but just as there are those skinny females (and have always been) there are women who have curvy bodies (round butts and wider hips). And they have ALWAYS been around. I definitly wouldn't consider myself fat. I may have a big butt, wide hips and thighs, but I have a tiny waist, flat stomach and my ribs stick out just a little. That's genetics buddy. If I were to try to lose 15 lbs, my butt, hips, and thighs would still be big and I still probably wouldn't be able to fit in a pants size smaller than an 8. I know many thin (size 4 and under)...they are still around. All healthy women are sexy. Even if they are considered underweight, but it's just natural, they are sexy. If they are curvier and tone that curve and make it more solid, they are sexy. Trust me, you can definitly tell an anorexic or bulimic girl from a healthy skinny one and you can tell a curvy female who tones and firms her natural curves from a fat one.
wow I can not believe someone else feels like me, let me tell you, my soonto be ex loves BIG BUTTS I mean loves em, I drove myself nuts, for 2 years a drank something called wieght gainer 2200 gold from GNC I went from 100lbs to 128 lbs. sounds good huh? for a little while it did, til I shedded the pounds off, I dont think we should go to these measures anymore.