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manner wrote:Would the women please answer this: Do you find a guy attractive if he's really tall,thin and got NOT a bald head,but a receding hairline-basically only got some hair at the back of his head? Oh,and has a brain too,is in his mid 30's![]()
cos,I'm sick to death of listening to women moan on about how they prefer a guy with a brain and not how he looks!!!!
And no I don't suffer from low self esteem,I just got to chat to women and make them laugh,but its annoying having women pass me by just cos they think I'm an ugly git!
Bz wrote:For whatever it is worth, I agree. Skinny is very sexy. I much prefer a skinny woman with ribs showing and small breasts. I have much more respect for a woman that is thin and fit with very little curves, than one that is curvy with excess fat.427v8 wrote:Poor girls,
First off I LOVE skinny girls, I LIKE to see your ribcage, really!
There are guys like me out there so try to ignore the jealosy and chubby chasers.
I don't understand why it's OK to tease someone about being skinny, but not about anything else, grrrr
bbritt wrote:its funny how i always go on these web pages and her all these girls saying the r soooooo skinny and stuff but i never see any. like most of these girls probaly arn't even that skinny , eg: some girls will say i am 15, 5'4, and 100 pounds, now if you think about that ,it is not that skinny skinny would be 5'4 and 85 pounds. like i no this girl who is acually skinny she is 5'6 and 95 pounds. like hieght has a lot to do with it. like what is with all these girls these days being 5'4 and 130 like that is sick , my friend weighs that much. i am 5'6 and weigh 115 and any one would think that is not that skinny i consider myself normal but everyone else says i am too skinny, jelous bitches eh, but i really dont look like i weigh 115 , when i tell everone that they are like omg ya right what r u like 90 pounds. and my friend that is 5'4, and 130 thinks she is skinny compared to everyone else , i am like omg u retard ur FAT, well i don't say that to her face but i wish i could.
Midge wrote:Personally i like skinny girls, but not bony ones. However, just as girls come in all shapes and sizes, so you will find that men are just as variable when it comes to the body shapes they like. Don't feel too insecure, there are bound to be plenty of men out there for you who find your skinnyness a turn-on.
. wrote:I think the reason so meany people find it ok to say things like you are so skinny is becouse alot of people dont understand that a person can be under weight and still have a healthy diet. alot of people have to watch every thing they put in there mouths just to stay in the healthy range I know I am 5'7 and weigh 155 I have to count every calorie and go to the gym 4 times a week or else I blow up like a baloon. so when people like me see girls who are underweight we think they must starv themselves and by saying something we think some how they are going to be shocked into eating. the fact it their are a few people who cant help but be thin and their are a few people who cant help but be fat but for the most part people are to thin or to fat becouse they eat to little or to much. but I agree saying something to people about their weight just hurts feeling people know if they are thin or fat they do not need to be told.
. wrote:. wrote:I think the reason so meany people find it ok to say things like you are so skinny is becouse alot of people dont understand that a person can be under weight and still have a healthy diet. alot of people have to watch every thing they put in there mouths just to stay in the healthy range I know I am 5'7 and weigh 155 I have to count every calorie and go to the gym 4 times a week or else I blow up like a baloon. so when people like me see girls who are underweight we think they must starv themselves and by saying something we think some how they are going to be shocked into eating. the fact it their are a few people who cant help but be thin and their are a few people who cant help but be fat but for the most part people are to thin or to fat becouse they eat to little or to much. but I agree saying something to people about their weight just hurts feeling people know if they are thin or fat they do not need to be told.
There's more naturally skinny people than you think.
snowflakes821 wrote:I have been thin my whole life and I have heard the countless number of times that people make snippy comments about my weight. I have been called "chicken legs", "bag of bones", "anorexic" and so forth. I have never had an eating disorder, I have never dieted. I eat three meals a day and sometimes more. Also, I eat junk as much as I want to. However, insecure people comment that I must be doing something to maintain my weight. That my being thin is "unnatural" and "unattractive".
You would think that comments like these would be said by highschool girls. But, you would be surprised by the number of guys who have said,
"oh she's cute but she's toooooo skinny and looks like a boy" . I have had teachers, yes female teachers say " you are so thin" as if I didn't already know this. I have had family members who visit say you are so bony. I for one am sick of this. I have tried so hard to like my body to be comfortable in my own skin and not care what people think but IT IS SOOOOOOO HARD.
I just want advice from fellow thin people on how they ignore people's comments and love their body just as it is. I don't want to hide my body anymore. I just want to be accepted.
sweetiepie wrote:Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?
. wrote:sweetiepie wrote:Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?
I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff
WK wrote:. wrote:sweetiepie wrote:Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?
I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff
I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.
Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.
I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.
The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.
As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!
It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.
Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.
. wrote:WK wrote:. wrote:sweetiepie wrote:Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?
I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff
I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.
Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.
I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.
The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.
As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!
It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.
Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.
Not promoting anything here... What it comes down to is you cant sell what no one wants to buy. If a woman finds being very thin atractive she may try to atain it or she may be naturaly thin, and hate it. It seems no one is ever satified either way. Lets not mistake thinness for anorexia, which i think you were hinting at. I didn't see the episode you were talking about, but if i had, i bet i would have found her sexy. It's an odd sort of social censorship when one can be shamed for simply saying what they honestly feel. What if I told you you'd better not coment on your love of big breasts because it might concievably encourage a woman to get potentialy dangerous <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257">breast</A> implants?
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