Skinny Girls

[Guest]

"but seriously i think your promoting a potentialy dangerous image for young girls"

In essence i shouldn't say things like that....that person was respectful. My response to that person was respectful, no bashing what so ever. You on the other hand....

[Guest]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

[Guest]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

[Guest]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

By the way I'm glad you don't bash skinny women, one of the reasons i posted is i was sick of how how nastily people were bashing thin women, I mean like it was cool or something. I also have nothing against women who are of different body types. I just have a strong desire for thin women it's not something arrived through calaculation its just a feeling.

[Guest]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

By the way I'm glad you don't bash skinny women, one of the reasons i posted is i was sick of how how nastily people were bashing thin women, I mean like it was cool or something. I also have nothing against women who are of different body types. I just have a strong desire for thin women it's not something arrived through calaculation its just a feeling.

you say you like thin women fine but what do you cansider thin and atractive exp a body like Hollie Berry or MK Olson both thin but to diffrent extreams

[lerch33]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

By the way I'm glad you don't bash skinny women, one of the reasons i posted is i was sick of how how nastily people were bashing thin women, I mean like it was cool or something. I also have nothing against women who are of different body types. I just have a strong desire for thin women it's not something arrived through calaculation its just a feeling.

you say you like thin women fine but what do you cansider thin and atractive exp a body like Hollie Berry or MK Olson both thin but to diffrent extreams

Hallie Berry and the Olsen twins are good looking women. My tastes tend toward reed thin fragile looking fashion model types for example Collete Pecheckhonova or Audrey Hepburn. However this is not absolute, it is not uncommon for me to be atracted to heavier girls sometimes even a bit overweight what exactly triggers my atraction is not something i really understand. But of course a womans personality an inteligence plays a role.

[Guest]

I have been thin my whole life and I have heard the countless number of times that people make snippy comments about my weight. I have been called "chicken legs", "bag of bones", "anorexic" and so forth. I have never had an eating disorder, I have never dieted. I eat three meals a day and sometimes more. Also, I eat junk as much as I want to. However, insecure people comment that I must be doing something to maintain my weight. That my being thin is "unnatural" and "unattractive".

You would think that comments like these would be said by highschool girls. But, you would be surprised by the number of guys who have said,
"oh she's cute but she's toooooo skinny and looks like a boy" . I have had teachers, yes female teachers say " you are so thin" as if I didn't already know this. I have had family members who visit say you are so bony. I for one am sick of this. I have tried so hard to like my body to be comfortable in my own skin and not care what people think but IT IS SOOOOOOO HARD.

I just want advice from fellow thin people on how they ignore people's comments and love their body just as it is. I don't want to hide my body anymore. I just want to be accepted.

Well, I don't know if I'm as thin as you are but I'm definitely thin (5'7'', 115lbs, 13% body fat). I've been called skinny as well, particularly by my family but there are also many people (mostly men) who think I'm hot. The truth is I don't think I'm skinny even though I'm perfectly aware of the fact that I'm thin. Because I don't agree with those who call me skinny I'm not affected by their remarks in the least, the only thing that bothers me is that those who call me skinny do so on a regular basis and it just gets plain annoying. I wish I could kick them in the ass!!
Your problem, in my opinion, is that deep down you agree with those people who say you're skinny because if you didn't there wouldn't be a problem, would there? And men, they'll like you no matter what because they like all sorts of body shapes so even if you were fatter there'd be men who wouldn't like your body and men who would. Before anybody acceptes you, you need to accept youself. And like someone said if you're not happy with your body you should workout and change that. I've been training with weights since I was 17 (I'm 22) and I can tell you it's the best way to attain a great body. That's probably way men think I'm hot, because I have an athletic figure (having big breasts also helps) despite being thin. Just do me one favour, if you do go to a gym, don't fear the dumbells and barbells nor work with puny weights like so many women do. Women can't get bulky (I'm not and I've been training for 5 years), we simply don't have the required hormones and the women who do get bulky do so by taking pills which help them achieve that look. Don't fear heavy weights.

[Guest]

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.
Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.
I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

And so now a person can't express his own opinion! So the guy likes skinny women. What's the problem with that? Is it the fact that it's an unrealistic type of beauty? Is it because it promotes an unhealthy lifestyle? Well, no matter how uncommon skinny women might be they are real and to many people they are beautiful so it is in no way an unrealistic type of beauty. And do you think wanting to be thin is unhealthy? Those men who like 'curvy' women are promoting an even more dangerous lifestyle because nowadays it seems curvy=fat and indeed those who like curvy women hardly ever accept that a woman can be thin and curvy. The epidemic of the 20th century is obesity not anorexia. No matter how bad anorexia is, obesity and excessive weight are the main responsibles for most industrialized countries' health problems and deaths. So if a man who likes skinny women is promoting an unhealthy lifestyle one who says he likes women with meat on is promoting an even more dangerous lifestyle.
People can like whatever they want, it's their right.
Oh, and girls can be thin (or skinny) without looking like Barbies, Calista Flockhart certainly doesn't look like one.

[Guest]

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.
Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.
I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

And so now a person can't express his own opinion! So the guy likes skinny women. What's the problem with that? Is it the fact that it's an unrealistic type of beauty? Is it because it promotes an unhealthy lifestyle? Well, no matter how uncommon skinny women might be they are real and to many people they are beautiful so it is in no way an unrealistic type of beauty. And do you think wanting to be thin is unhealthy? Those men who like 'curvy' women are promoting an even more dangerous lifestyle because nowadays it seems curvy=fat and indeed those who like curvy women hardly ever accept that a woman can be thin and curvy. The epidemic of the 20th century is obesity not anorexia. No matter how bad anorexia is, obesity and excessive weight are the main responsibles for most industrialized countries' health problems and deaths. So if a man who likes skinny women is promoting an unhealthy lifestyle one who says he likes women with meat on is promoting an even more dangerous lifestyle.
People can like whatever they want, it's their right.
Oh, and girls can be thin (or skinny) without looking like Barbies, Calista Flockhart certainly doesn't look like one.

She looks anorexic.

[Guest]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

By the way I'm glad you don't bash skinny women, one of the reasons i posted is i was sick of how how nastily people were bashing thin women, I mean like it was cool or something. I also have nothing against women who are of different body types. I just have a strong desire for thin women it's not something arrived through calaculation its just a feeling.

you say you like thin women fine but what do you cansider thin and atractive exp a body like Hollie Berry or MK Olson both thin but to diffrent extreams

Hallie Berry and the Olsen twins are good looking women. My tastes tend toward reed thin fragile looking fashion model types for example Collete Pecheckhonova or Audrey Hepburn. However this is not absolute, it is not uncommon for me to be atracted to heavier girls sometimes even a bit overweight what exactly triggers my atraction is not something i really understand. But of course a womans personality an inteligence plays a role.

so what if you started dating a fragile model type and found out she had an eating disorder to stay that thin would you want her to keep it up so she has the look you like. I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets. and would you realy want to have children with that person if that is the type of modeling they are going to give them. fact children of people with eating disorders are far more likely to have them. Audrey Hepburn had a very well known eating disorder weighing as little as 95 lb at one point

[Guest]

I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets.

And there are far more than you'd think.

[Guest]

I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets.

And there are far more than you'd think.

Those who have an unhealthy weight just love to believe the ones who are thin are so by starving themselves. Not saying that there aren't women who do that just saying that there are many who don't.

[Guest]

I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets.

And there are far more than you'd think.

Those who have an unhealthy weight just love to believe the ones who are thin are so by starving themselves. Not saying that there aren't women who do that just saying that there are many who don't.

I do believe that their are alot of thin women with healthy diets I am one of them I am 5'9 and a size 8. but I am not 30 lb uderweight. Im sorry but I do believe that most of the women who are so thin every bone in their body shows have eating disorders even if they dont know it. I knew a girl who weighed 90 lb and only ate 900-1000 cals a day she thought what she was doing was healthy but she had a eating disorder.

[lerch33]

Ok I know a long time ago guys used to love really skinny girls.....but now prefer curvy ones....REALLY curvy ones. Now everywhere I look guys are talking about thick girls. I am VERY skinny and I was wondering if there are any guys that still like skinny girls....I am very insecure about it but every time I try to find help in magazine, it just talks about helping CURVY women.....no one thinks that maybe skinny girls have insecurities too. So anyone like skinny girls?

I absolutley do! I love girls who are very thin, they're just so delicate and pretty. I love a woman with a thin reedy body and small breasts. I especially love when i can see her ribs.....so sexy! I know I'll probably take crap for being "shallow" ....or whatever. The fact is I never made a conscious decision on what i find beautiful, its a feeling thats just there. Just like guys who love bigger girls never made a decision to do so....They just do. To each his own....live and let live, all that.....stuff

I think every woman has a sexiness about her, but seriously I think you're potentially promoting a dangerous image for young girls who sometimes diet heavily to get that think "rib" look.

Some might remember that show Ally McBeal. There was this scene of her riding a guy that was supposedly very well endowed. It was something of a shocking epidose to do back in the 90's, when there was still some shame on TV left.

I never knew much about the actress but the episode was heavily promoted and talked because it (like this message board) had a lot debating the "does size matter" question.

The scene was slow motion and showed the side of her body, including the sides of her breasts. She was dripping from sweat in what was a ridiculous conveying that she was being put though a vigorous exercising routine by a big penis.

As the camera panned down, you say this emaciated rib cage, where you could quite literally count every rib and follow their contour around her body!

It was ghastly! It looked like a skeleton was having sex! A very very unsexy look for me.

Also I can tell you that as a larger than average guy, I have found very skinny women nowhere as easy to penetrate during sex.

Well, yes, you are shallow since you never mention anything but physical characteristics over and over again and only think that skinny women are pretty. Such narrowed views is shallow by definition.

Also I would agree with WK that your extreme view of sexual beauty is so unrealistic that it does help promote a lifestyle for yougn girls that hear this crap all the time and think and left to feel that they are only worthy if they look like a Barbie doll.

I don't think that any skinny woman should feel bad about herself, but nor should those who aren't the rail think "reedy" looki girl that you want.

I've known guys like you. They are almost always and virtually without question intimidated by an athletic woman and one that can perhaps pumple a guy if they want. They find it very intimidating in a woman. I dated a guy like you once and when I was taking Tae Kwon Do classes and got some extra muscle on me was like "Oh no, you're gaining too much mass."

What a looser kind of thinking.

The question was about physical apearance. If i had said I was atracted to athletic girls would i still be shallow?

By the way I'm glad you don't bash skinny women, one of the reasons i posted is i was sick of how how nastily people were bashing thin women, I mean like it was cool or something. I also have nothing against women who are of different body types. I just have a strong desire for thin women it's not something arrived through calaculation its just a feeling.

you say you like thin women fine but what do you cansider thin and atractive exp a body like Hollie Berry or MK Olson both thin but to diffrent extreams

Hallie Berry and the Olsen twins are good looking women. My tastes tend toward reed thin fragile looking fashion model types for example Collete Pecheckhonova or Audrey Hepburn. However this is not absolute, it is not uncommon for me to be atracted to heavier girls sometimes even a bit overweight what exactly triggers my atraction is not something i really understand. But of course a womans personality an inteligence plays a role.

so what if you started dating a fragile model type and found out she had an eating disorder to stay that thin would you want her to keep it up so she has the look you like. I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets. and would you realy want to have children with that person if that is the type of modeling they are going to give them. fact children of people with eating disorders are far more likely to have them. Audrey Hepburn had a very well known eating disorder weighing as little as 95 lb at one point

A fair question. If i knew a womans dieting was becoming a serious threat to her health, or becoming such an obsesion it was preventing her from being able to experience happiness then no I wouldn't encourage her to continue with it. I think at this point it becomes a mental illness called anorexia nervosa. I'm no expert on eating disorders but i think in the case of anorexia there is ussually some deeper issues that compel it's suffers than a simple ideal of beauty. But of course you would have to ask an anorexic to know for sure.

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I hate to break it to you their are very few women that thin past their teens that have healthy diets.

And there are far more than you'd think.

Those who have an unhealthy weight just love to believe the ones who are thin are so by starving themselves. Not saying that there aren't women who do that just saying that there are many who don't.

I do believe that their are alot of thin women with healthy diets I am one of them I am 5'9 and a size 8. but I am not 30 lb uderweight. Im sorry but I do believe that most of the women who are so thin every bone in their body shows have eating disorders even if they dont know it. I knew a girl who weighed 90 lb and only ate 900-1000 cals a day she thought what she was doing was healthy but she had a eating disorder.

If I had a large bone structure I'd have every single bone of my body showing yet because I have a narrow bone structure my bones show only a little. It's not just about eating too little, it's also about bone structure.