Skirtlifting

[kangaroo2]

dianblue,

Wear your skirts! To allow this one incident guide your fashion taste/wants is a bit OTT. Most likley it won't happen again and it sounds like you want to wear skirts. Start out modestly and gradually regain your confidence.

By letting him get you to stop wearing skirts is to let him win. I know it sucks that he did that, but in some sense if this is what he does, I sort of feel sorry for him. But hey, I know your pain. Rise above it and put it behind you as best you can.

You Go Girl!!!!

Amy

[kangaroo2]

katlin765,

Tnanx for sharing. I'm sure all interested ppl sympathize with you.
It sounds as if your friend boy is one of those who impulsively did what he did but realised that oopsie, not good.
Some jerks just stand there and laugh away. How cruel.
It matters not what undies we have on, at least you had nice ones!

And you are still friends. Good on both of you!
Stay in touch,

Amy

[sandradee]

Dianeblue,

I know exactly how you feel. As mentioned in my previous posts, I had a similar thing happen to me. And, yes, I was a little reluctant to wear skirts after that, but I am so glad I still wear skirts. They are part of my fashion being and I still wear them often. I don't think my skirt will ever be lifted again. I really don't. Kangaroo2 hit it right on the head, start slowly when choosing skirts and gradually work your way to where you want to be. You'll be fine in no time.

[aaron32]

Yep my skirt was lifted up too. It happened after I was divorced and I started dating again. Not easy, when you are my age. We had been having quite a good time that night. It was our second date and he took me to a movie and to dinner. He seemed like a pretty nice guy. He wanted to go out for a drink afterwards and so we stopped at some bar and grill. We were standing at the door when all off a sudden, he lifted my skirt up. He completely lifted up my skirt!!!!!OMG! I totally freaked. It sucked so bad! I slapped him and got right out of there. I don't know if he was drunk or on drugs or what. At that point I just wanted to get away. He actually had the audacity to leave a message on my machine asking why I hadn't returned his calls. Can you believe this guy?? I hate to admit this, but I have pretty much stopped wearing skirts. I just don't feel right when I wear one now.

[dianeblue]

Thanks for the responses. I know you guys understand and can relate to my situation. Several of you have put this in the past and got on with your lives, which is great! I just don't think I'm there yet.

[bear70]

Skirt Lifting. What a rotten thing to do.

A girl in high school lifted my skirt as I was talking to my BF and his friends. Obviously, I was quite embarrassed. This girl was one of those people that always talked negatively about others and seemed to enjoy gossiping about other people's problems. I never got along with her. Years later, I saw her at a movie theater. She was talking to some guy and she was wearing a skirt. I stood behind her and I actually debated if I should pull up her skirt like she had done to me. I decided not to do that. Revenge would have been nice, but I think it would have been bittersweet. My husband said I should have done it, but I feel I made the right decision.

[kangaroo2]

bear70

I'm sure your husband wanted you to lift her skirt. And perhaps for a fleeting moment it would be sweet revenge. But you did make the right decision and not lift.

Geez a fellow girl lifting your skirt.

Amy

[janetan]

Bear70,

You showed great restraint not lifting her skirt up. Good for you and her.

If I saw my skirtlifter in a skirt as you described, I would be tempted to lift her skirt. I hadn't really thought about revenge, but I sure could see that it would be easy to do. Part of me says it would be great to see her suffer the same humiliation as I did and part of me says that I would be stooping to her level. I don't know. I might have pulled up her skirt. It would be a tough call.

I do believe that you made a wise choice in your case.

[danielleg]

I've never had my skirt lifted.

But, if some girl did that to me and I had the chance, I would pull her skirt up big time! She would deserve it if she had lifted my skirt. I guess "an eye for an eye" applies here. I would absolutely, positively pull her skirt up in the most embarrassing way possible. I'm not proud of it, but that is what I would do!

[Vengeance Demon]

You just tell me where to find these girls, I'll lift their skirts for you!

[bellakendra]

I disagree with the previous post that "an eye for an eye" or "a skirt for a skirt" is the way to go. I just don't think I could pull another woman's skirt up, even if she had done the same to me. Does "turn the other cheek" apply here?

Don't get me wrong, I know I would be radically pissed if someone lifted my skirt. In fact, I would be quite traumatized by it. And I agree that a payback would be satisfying, but I still wouldn't do something that mean to a woman.

No, I would not have pulled her skirt up. I would have walked right on by.

[katya58]

I'm surprised that so many women have been through this. My skirtlifting occurred years ago when I worked for a department store. My supervisor at the time was a monster. He asked me out several times and I told him I don't date men that I work with. I just don't. Well, he really didn't like the rejection and he started making my life hell. He told some of the other managers that I was seeing him, he called me a very demeaning name in front of my coworkers, and he purposely scheduled his work time with mine.
At this point, I was thinking about quiting. One morning, I was helping several customers and that is when he lifted up my skirt. He made some smart comment about me when he did it. That was the final straw, I kneed him, and walked right out of there. I threatened to sue the company and not one of the customers agreed to describe what they had seen. It was my word versus his. Damn! I quit and got another job, but I have never forgotten what happened.

[Karen5k]

If you wore a skirt in elementary school, you probably had it done. I remember some times on the playground when a boy would run up behind me and do a quick lift of the back of my skirt. It would get me mad and I'd run after them or throw sand at them or something. Now that I'm older it doesn't happen any more, of course not being a skirt wearer might have a lot to do with it.

[nickybar]

WOW, I didn't think that there would be so many heart felt responses nor how prevelant skirtlifting is/was/has become!
I don't want to paint a pic that it is an everyday occurance but it seems as if it is one of those things that happens that isn't talked about.

My expereinces like a lot of other gilrs happened in high school. I guess guys are overly curious and not very versed in manners. I guess for some guys seeing us in minis or micro-minis is too much to handle. In between classes seemed the best time as a crowded hall and a passing hand at times were too much. By the time you realise your skirt has been lifted, the person who did it pretty much disappeared into the crowd. It was most embarrassing with sheer panties one, or a tiny Thong.
In the caf was the worst. There with the open spaces it was for all to see.
It happened a few times. Thank goodness I wasn't commando!

Lots of good discussions here: the wind, guys with calloused feelings, guys with sympathetic feelings, assult and some girls who are mortified and others shrug it off.

Amy

Hi Amy.

Thanx for the PM I got it when I checked out an old Email address I don't look at very much now. I tried to PM direct to you but I see I need to put in 75 postings to qualify I know I've been using FF for sometime now but had to reregester about a year ago so lost my no. of postings I've a way to go to get round this one, any suggestions on a quick way round would be great!!
I'll put one in next.with a suitable reply on your PM.



Nikky

[nickybar]

Hey All,

I have had my skirt lifted a few times and it seems increasingly so lately. A few of my g/fs have had this happen to. It's like guys are getting increasingly bolder of late. Has this happened to any of you? Or maybe it is the 'in' thing to do in this club.

Hi Amy this is my reply to your PM(I hope others don't find it boring hearing only i side of the conversation .)

I do feel like thing may be more on displayin a 12" full min with multilayer petti proping it up inderneath, I feel just as you when out, you do gets looks and the breeze does add a additional risk element to things.Recently I was about with a some friends from a social group I belong to and a couple of the girls are real trouser types(never seen in skirts at all)and going round this ancient castle my skirt/petti combi was needing some holding down So I was getting the odd comment about my skirt, next thing I knew we were looking out over the walls(me holding onto my skirt, when they grabbed my hans/arms and lifted them up and you can probably guess, my skirt/petti outfit shot skywards in a froth of lace/pettis/panties all very embaressing

Still as someome here said miniskirts4ever.

I have just bought a new GEOURGOUS very full tiered mini to add to my sizeable wqrdrobe of this style from ASDA here in the UK it is wonderfully girly/feminine in a multicoloured pattern(can't wait to go ot wearing it) so can probably be worn with most plain coloured tops and cries out to be proped up by a multilayer petti.Part of Walmart in the US only £10 here in the UK( so go out and buy it evryone (such a great change to the usual boring cropped trousers/shorts etc:)

So as you can see I will not be put off any skrts by the actions of others even fellow girls assisting in the lifting albeit indirectly SHHHHEEEEZZZZ>

Also when you sit dowm evrything tends t fluff up/ou particularly if the chairs is lowist and has arms and the petti fluffs out from under the skirt in a flurry of lace(as you say cute/sexy

I'll try to add to my postings so I can PM you,Amy



Love
Nikky