by Shena on Sun Mar 08, 2009 1:14 pm
Hi all.
I hope I am allowed to post on here. I am a teenager still at school. My problem started a year ago I started wetting firstly at night then started having accidents durring the day as well at first Mum was good about it. I wore good nites for a while but they leaked so Mum put in disposable nappies at night with plastic pants. that was fine for night time but after a while a had couple of day time accidents which made my Mum mad at me. So she made me wear pullups to school under my uniform. After about 6 months Mum really lost it with me and it was time to start doing something about it, if I could stop wetting and control myself then she was going to have find a another way to deal with since the doctor had said there was nothing medically wrong with me. So from now on at home I would wear terry's nappy and plastic pants and to anywhere else except school. At school only I was to wear pull ups. Mum and Mum only was going to change my nappy while at home my day was to start with Mum coming in my room and checking my bed to see it was still dry then change my nappy. Then while at home my nappy was to be checked every 2 hours and before each meal. Other times would be if Mum thought I was wet or dirty. Or if I went to her and asked her to change me.
She had decided to treat me like a baby was the only way. At each nappy changing session Mum I spanked for being wet or dirty, Mum always asks if I am wet or dirty and if I lie a double spanking. then re nappied.If we are out down town Mum will suddenly say in the middle of the supermarket or shop are you still clean young lady then take me to the nearest baby changing area and change me. We were once in a clothes shop and about to try a pair of trousers on me just to see if they fitted. Mum noticed my wet nappy and in the changing room of clothes shop removed my palstic pants and wet nappy put clean ones on me then tried the trousers on me. When came out the changing room she said to shop assistant sorry we took so long I change the little girls nappy as she was wet, I lost and told my mum I hated her so she grabbed me lifted up my skirt and smacked my legs hard plus everyone around saw my nappy. When we got back to car I asked her if we could my nappy and wetting a s private. She no you embarass me and i will humilate you. The second time she really humilated me was at a sleepover a few weekends after the clothes shop. tow friends come over one friday night after school. We walked through the front door and Mum was in the kitchen I called Hi and went to go upstairs. Mum called me back I went in to kitchen and Mum said you know you come to me as soon as you get in. I ned to change you out of those pullups and into a proper nappy. I said but I have friends here, But she changed me into a terry nappy anyway. At this point my firends were upstairs and didnt see. But when Mum called us for dinner, we came down and sat at the table, but didnt change her routine. in front of friends she asked if my nappy was wet or dirty I said no it was clean hoping she wouldnt check in front of friends but she did and I wet so I got a spanking and re nappied. My firends jsut looked at each other and said nothing. Mum explained that I was wettign my self day and night and this was how it was dealt with at home. and to school I wore pullups under my undlerclothes. I was still changed every two hours and before bed that night. And just like always when Mum went to bed she would wake me up take me into the bathroom remove my nappy sit on the toilet until wee'd then re nappy me, and send me back to bed . In the morning Mum would come and wake about 6.50am are dry and clean this morning she would say, then tell me to get up so she could check the bed. Then I would have to lay on the changing mat and Mum would remove the wet nappy and plastic pants, then I would go and shower and Mum re nappies me and put on plastic pants. On school day I have pullsups instead of nappies plus 4 for spare ones in my bag for changing if I wet at school. When I get home Mum counts how many I have left out the four and changes me back in to a terry nappy. If I am to stop all this I have remain dry and clean day and night for 4 weeks. Evenings and weekends I am allowed out but only for 2 hours at a time. So I have to come home have my nappy checked and go out again. I am not allowed to go to sleepovers until completely dry and clean for month. This last week we were out and I wet I refused to go with my mum to changing room so she smacked in the shop,infront of everyone. When got home she took my nappy off and smacked me again and told next time I wet while out she change me in public. And in future I will only be allowed to wear skirts not trousers to make nappy changing easier.Mum rarely refers to me by name anymore I am called the baby or baby girl. Most of those that were my friends hardly talk to me now. I cant help wetting and want to stop can anyone advise me what to do. Mum has seen this post and thinks someone else having the same problem might be able to help.Mum says she is doing this out of love and does want to help me but doesnt know how else to help.