. wrote:. wrote:come on board...dont die on me
i need you for mental support. we all do
on a side note, why did my skin doctor tell me that derma rollers and chemical peels are useless? i want to trust his opinion because he IS a doctor (a very well known and succesful one as well), but at the same time i feel that we might actually have a better understanding than someone like him does. after all, we are the ones with the sm's and the opinions and thoughts of all of us combined might be better than any doctors - no matter how good he is...
i say this because i was thinking of buying a derma roller but i remmeber the doc saying its useless... what do i do

what i have found is that doctors often dont have a clue when it comes to alot of things. because there are so many different illnesses/problems they cant possibly know everything about everything. my doctor for example knows very little about any problem i have ever seemed to have. for sure i have known far more than him about the subject matter. sms i believe are a lost cause in doctors eyes and they dont know a great deal about it in my opinion.
sadly you are probably right....makes me not even want to go to my skin doctor appointment in a couple of hours

...i just dont see how someone who DOESNT have stretch marks (especially horrible ones) can have a greater understanding of it than someone who does...he might have a "phd" but guess what, ive had these marks for over 7 years now and theyve altered my life, so i doubt any doctor has a better understanding of it than i do and is as determined to rid them as me...
im wasting all this money on v-beams and havent seen a tiny improvement yet! its almost been a year now! my doctor claims he cant do fraxel yet because my marks are still red and they have to be white in order for fraxel to work...so he is "prepping" them with the v-beam...the last time i went back, he noticed that NOTHING has changed. it sort of sounded like he was making **** up on the spot! he was saying things like "ohhh well, its actually GOOD that they are this color, it means that its working! come back in a few months and they should be better!"
well its been a few mmonths and they havent improved at all. i wonder what his reaction will be this time...im begining to think doctors cant possibly have a better understanding of sm's than we do...if tommorow doesnt go well, then im going to put my trust in you guys. i will follow your routines and suggestions instead...