Sucking big dicks [help]

[MandyMandy]

Hello Everyone,

this is my first time posting, and it is since I haven't found I previous topic that answers my question.

Okay, I'm 17 years old and have recently started giving my boyfriend head. It was really nervous thinking about it at first, since I didn't have a clue how to do it. Then I read alot on the internet, getting pointers etc. But then when I tried to do most of the techniques, his dick seemed way too big, or my mouth is too small, for them to actually work with any precision.

So, I followed other advice I got which was trying out different things and being attentive to his responses and so finding out what he likes. Nope, don't work since he don't give me any hints what so ever. He's just not the moaning kind of guy. I have also asked him some times but he doesn't really know either and I think we both feel it would be too awkward to have a trial-and-error session, if you know what I mean.

So what usually happens is the head bobbing up and down thing, which I think is really uncomfortable and I think it's not that great for him either since he always wants to go down my throat (he doesn't force it or anything, but I notice).

And thus, I'm clueless about what my next move should be. Any Ideas? I really apprciate any help, I really want to do something for him to give him the same kind of pleasure he gives me.

Thanks/ Amanda

[teog]

try deep thoart very slowly

[Tina TV]

Don't try to run before you can crawl.

Start slow and work up to things like deep throat. You can have lots of fun in the meantime

The following link contains what sounds like serious well thought out advice although I've not tried is personally.

http://dva.gbrit.com/~dougadams/blowjob_training.php

[Tabitha005]

Go at it very slowly and gradually build up what you can take in your mouth - if you rush it, you'll gag and although that may make your boyfriend somewhat proud at first - a lapful of vomit will soon turn him off!

[arcahicknight]

Do you know how to give a hand job. Blowjobs are like handjobs with your mouth. The problem women really have is you have to enjoy giving head beore they can give good head. You usually give good hand jobs because you enjoy feeling and exploring a C*** in your hands. You almost never check to see how your man is reacting or if he enjoy's it ... then "blam" , he shots those lines and you know it was good for him and you enjoy it yourself .

Why do you forget this when it comes to giving head. Enjoy it yourself ! Endulge yourself in the experience, and desires, and explore it the same way and you will do fine.

Most girls I know were hung up over getting cum in thier mouth. As soon as they took thier first oral load they were able to take to the art of fellatio like a deer running a sprint. If you are to nervous to blow him tell he cums, then try this: Tell him before hand that you want to taste his load. Then have sex with him til he is ready to cum having instructed him to put it in your mouth when he does. Then exhale ( so you wont gag ) and when he cums swallow. Don't hold it or spit becasue you will only tatse it more than you want to. Swallow like you are drinking water. After that you will get past whatever it is you are nervous about. Or decide you don't like it and don't want to do it again.

[Guest]

try deep thoart very slowly

[A_Guy]

What's to help? Just stick it in your mouth and go to town on it!

[KevSom]

Just suck it hard like a hoover but don't ever bite it unless he wants you too!

[Hortensia W]

I'm 17 years old and have recently started giving my boyfriend head. Any Ideas? I really apprciate any help, I really want to do something for him to give him the same kind of pleasure he gives me.

Don't get too hung up on blow-jobs. They're really just a quickie method for avoiding HIV and pregnancy. The blow-job is a hooker's short-cut to $50. There's nothing really exciting about a blow-job. Your man is thrilled just to cum in your puss. He's even more thrilled if he can excite you to ecstasy, too. Then you go to sleep in each other's arms, and everything's right with the world. You never get tired of it, but you can sure get tired of blow-jobs after more than a few (especially if he's smelly down there!)

[1337 opeth]

I'm 17 years old and have recently started giving my boyfriend head. Any Ideas? I really apprciate any help, I really want to do something for him to give him the same kind of pleasure he gives me.

Don't get too hung up on blow-jobs. They're really just a quickie method for avoiding HIV and pregnancy. The blow-job is a hooker's short-cut to $50. There's nothing really exciting about a blow-job. Your man is thrilled just to cum in your puss. He's even more thrilled if he can excite you to ecstasy, too. Then you go to sleep in each other's arms, and everything's right with the world. You never get tired of it, but you can sure get tired of blow-jobs after more than a few (especially if he's smelly down there!)

Male here, You know licking down there is pretty F****** boring too? . But doesnt it exite you in anyway? It does for me while im muff diving

[red foley]

I have a larger than average penis, and what turns me on most is when a woman attempts to deep throat and gags on it. When she gags, she produces extra saliva which I like to see when she withdraws my C*** from her mouth. I then rub my lubed up penis all over her face, and like to slap her face with my C***.

[MattB]

I wouldn't worry about it - as long as you can show you're "into" his C*** and are willing to listen to any suggestions he has, he'll be happy!

My penis is too thick for most girls to even attempt giving a blowjob to more than the head, but theey can play around with it and lick the shaft and generally give it attention and that does the trick!