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Techniques: Handjobs

Postby mostirreverent on Fri Dec 24, 2004 6:40 am

In lieu of a Techniques forum, I’ll post this as a sticky since it is asked so often. please add your own.

Wet or dry, it is nice to finish with lotion. If you are going for a long experience, take your time and use lotion (see below). For a quickie on the couch or in the car, fast dry strokes are fine, usually fast stroking.

Check for testicle sensitivity as I’ve heard it varies. I like it anyway, pulled, padded, and squeezing. I say this as you can hold his C*** in a lubed had, and make it move in your hand by pulling his sac. You can also grind his balls with a nice slick hand. For me, slow deliberate stokes are key.

Do different things during the act, like a twisting motion over his head, or running your fingertips over the ridges of his glans or down the shaft


Some more ideas which are positions rather than strictly grip technique:
1. Have him do it himself for a bit and watch. Then, stand behind him naked, pressing your bare breast against him. With one arm wrapped around his chest, reach around with your good hand (yeah, as if there were a bad hand for this) and do what he did. Play with his balls as well. This can also be done while sitting behind him with your legs spread and stretched out on the bed, floor, or a big chair.
2. With him naked on his hands and knees, kneel behind him. Reach through between his legs and grab his C*** like your are holding a compass (or iPod). Move your hand back and forth. You can grab his balls at the same time too.
3. Kneel and sit back on your heals. Have him rest his but on your thighs, with his legs around your waist. Grab and stroke. Take his balls (do you see a theme here?) as in #2 as well.
4. If you are in #3, then sit up so his legs are bend over him, with his knees pointing toward his shoulders. Milk him like a cow.
5. With him on his back, kneel over his face. Have him bend his legs back as in #4, and tuck them under your arms. Reach under him and again milk him like a man cow until he unloads on his chest. You can also have him lick you. His hands will also be available to play with your tits.
6. With most of these, you can just pull his balls back and forth and make his C*** slap against his body too.
7. Ask him to tell you when he is near coming. At this point, take his balls and lightly (or as hard as he likes it) squeeze. Tell him you are going to squeeze the come right out of him.
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