The New Marriage: female polygamy

[mostirreverent]

it depends on the car she drives. she is not going to upset being able to drive a volvo just for a little extra sperm. onece she has kids, fuckig is the last thing on her mind, unless there is no sex. in that case, she needs it to feel wanted. most married women would require too much wooing as a little love on the part of hubby will keep them happy.

I've only had one man's wife, and he for some reason did not give it to her at all. she was for ever asking if i wanted her just for the sex, or her huge tits. since i was willing to F*** her, I figured a little white lie to make her feel better was not out of character at that point.

[Lester]

I think there is evolutional basis for what she says regarding women, BUT I think she conveniently sidesteps the evolutionary basis for men cheating.

Whereas women are constantly looking for quality (male survival qualities), men are evolutionary driven to inject their sperm into as many women as possible (quantity).

The evolutionary reproductive drive for both sexes is to pass their genes to future generations - to produce offspring.

Womens' strategy is to first find a male who would be a good provider/father for her offspring and once she achieves this her strategy changes to finding the best genes to father her children (which may or may not be her husband's). What constitutes the "best" genes? The likelihood that the the offspring produced by said genes will survive and procreate to further pass down her genes to future generations. So she looks for males who are aggressive (testosterone filled). She wants to cheat with tall, big, and dominating males. She also knows that this type will probably produce offspring that will be promiscuous and therefore father future offspring.

However, the male strategy is far less complex. His strategy (in passing his genes) is to F*** as many attractive women as is possible. Because women are those who "allow" sex to happen, they are in charge of mate selection. So a male, often not being permitted to F*** the hottest women, will take what he can get. The wives of wealthy married women often appear VERY attractive to males, because if he can quietly seduce her and get her to cheat on her husband he can pass his genes without the financial burden that would normally be expected of a father. So he can, thus, spread his genes (father children) further than his resources would normally permit.

So the point is the auther is correct about the "female strategy", but she conveniently sweeps the "male strategy" under the rug for her own political purposes (feminist in nature).

[mostirreverent]

another author (the sperm wars, I think) says females will cheat even after sex and let the sperm do battle (as he describes different morphological subsets of sperm within each ejaculate where some will attack another man's sperm while the swimmers go for the egg). Of course in our society, most women that have decided to have a child are the least likely to cheat Though the author sites fathers raising other men's children, I think that is the exception as this is probably the most loving points in there relationships.

[Guest]

another author (the sperm wars, I think) says females will cheat even after sex and let the sperm do battle (as he describes different morphological subsets of sperm within each ejaculate where some will attack another man's sperm while the swimmers go for the egg). Of course in our society, most women that have decided to have a child are the least likely to cheat Though the author sites fathers raising other men's children, I think that is the exception as this is probably the most loving points in there relationships.

I read that book and loved it. One fascinating point from that book is that less than 1% of a man's sperm is capable of fertilizing anything. Over 99% of the sperm are "Blocker sperm" or "Killer sperm". Their entire purpose is to wage war against other mens' sperm which indicates that mother nature intended for women to be receiving sperm from more than one male prior to fertilization.

Apparently 10% of children are not fathered by their "fathers". That was also one of his findings.

[Hafifa]

Are you gay by any chance?

[Guest]

Are you gay by any chance?

No, why do you ask?

[Guest]

I'll have to go ahead and disagree.

[mostirreverent]

another author (the sperm wars, I think) says females will cheat even after sex and let the sperm do battle (as he describes different morphological subsets of sperm within each ejaculate where some will attack another man's sperm while the swimmers go for the egg). Of course in our society, most women that have decided to have a child are the least likely to cheat Though the author sites fathers raising other men's children, I think that is the exception as this is probably the most loving points in there relationships.

I read that book and loved it. One fascinating point from that book is that less than 1% of a man's sperm is capable of fertilizing anything. Over 99% of the sperm are "Blocker sperm" or "Killer sperm". Their entire purpose is to wage war against other mens' sperm which indicates that mother nature intended for women to be receiving sperm from more than one male prior to fertilization.

Apparently 10% of children are not fathered by their "fathers". That was also one of his findings.

he did a good job of backing up his thoughts, but didn't expand on where or how he put some things together. like that 10%, what type of arrangements were there, and from what societies/groups. but yes, it was a fun read. Most of the used books were kind of pricey just to have it. I only buy hardcover too of the books I have liked.

[~twisted~]

My Wife has had over 200 parters in our 12 years. I enjoy her comming home after a night out. I've never been with another

Yes, I knew a man who accepted his wife ahing other lovers. But every now and then he got to fool around, too, but only when she gave the go head. I don't know why he accepted it. But he claimed it was a real turn on.

[Hafifa]

The article in the OP is unrealistic. I can't see a man agreeing to a cuckold marriage unless he has a cuckold fetish.

[Guest]

never say never

[Guest]

The article in the OP is unrealistic. I can't see a man agreeing to a cuckold marriage unless he has a cuckold fetish.

This brings up an interesting question:

Can men be steered to be Cuckolds by their wives/girlfriends?

I don't think any man is born with a cuckold fetish. I think it's like he's a product of his circumstances. My theory is he either has a small penis, thinks he has a small penis, or is a premature ejaculator. He probably gets humiliated early on (around puberty years) by a woman or women he dates. Maybe a girl will dump him due to his small size. Maybe she'll tell others - it gets back to him, etc...

The guy then gets down about himself and feels inadequate. He stops having sex with girls due to the feeling of being inadequate and feeling anxiety ridden about getting rejected/humiliated. Maybe he eventually meets a girl that he falls for, but assumes he won't be able to please her. This gets him anxiety ridden that he'll lose her. He'd almost rather watch porn then to suffer more humiliation by being intimate. He eventually gets intimate with her, feels he didn't perform well, maybe she doesn't cum, etc..

With these types of scenarios or maybe similar ones he'll eventually stumble upon a more dominant woman, or maybe even just a regular woman. If she's dominant she may push the idea of them swinging (since she's not likely enjoying her sex life with him). He agrees (to keep her happy), but his small penis/premature ejaculating problems keeps him from pleasing other women while she gets f*cked by some of the biggest dicks he's ever seen and she responds in ways he's never ever witnessed a woman respond. Now he ends up learning to cope with and even enjoying the fact that his wife needs big cocks that he just doesn't possess. The only way he can cope is to learn to enjoy the humiliation. Before long he finds it's less stressful just to watch her get f*cked (and he learns to enjoy it the way he does porn).

Maybe he meets a regular woman instead of the dominant one, and seems to understand from the onset that he won't be able to give her what she's likely to need. But he doesn't want to lose her so he suggests that she fucks other men and tell him in details about it, or better yet let him watch.

The point is I think a guy who's deemed himself to be inadequate in bed is a prime candidate to be cuckolded. Either a sexually deprived wife or girlfriend will eventually suggest swinging (which due to his "inadequate" mindset will ultimately lead to cuckolding) or he'll give up and suggest it to her.

[Guest]

Wouldn't a man rather be single than live that kind of life?

[Guest]

Wouldn't a man rather be single than live that kind of life?

I think most men really love to have a relationship with a woman. All polls indicate he's happier and lives longer when in a long term relationship.

[superstud101a]

I can see where the author's coming from. I'm a guy in his early 20's, still having fun with one night stand sex, and at least half the the girls I go with are married in their 30's.

They say that women reach their sexual peak in their mid 30's, whereas guys of my age are at it. Certainly, the sex can be great

Also the women often say their husbands are boring and want to be made love to properly with plenty of foreplay. Only too happy to provide

However expecting husbands to behave at the same time is a bit rich, married guys want a bit of fun as well