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Postby Donnalea on Tue Apr 11, 2006 7:54 pm

Ive always believed im dead straight and would never have even thought about being with a woman!

But after getting drunk at a wedding while with my boyfriend I kissed a bisexual girl....A LOT!

I cant stop thinking about it, I love men, straight sex is brill and i know exactly what i want in bed....But im having these outrageous fantasies about a threesome or a one on one with another girl. Its such a bloody turn on. I cant decide weather i should keep this as a fantasy or go for it!

What are peoples experiences?

How can I find someone?

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Postby Lisa-L on Wed Apr 12, 2006 9:00 am

dont start with a 3sum, it will only confuse you more, find this girl and tell her how you feel and if she is ok with it then get it on, I dont think you will have any regretts, if your comfortable with another girl then go for a 3sum in due course.

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Postby Donnalea on Wed Apr 12, 2006 12:49 pm

Lisa-L wrote:dont start with a 3sum, it will only confuse you more, find this girl and tell her how you feel and if she is ok with it then get it on, I dont think you will have any regretts, if your comfortable with another girl then go for a 3sum in due course.



Only problem with that is shes in Germany....My fella is a soldier and shes based on his camp, its gonna be at least 6 months before im back over there! :(
Its just the idea in general i think!

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Postby dancer24 on Wed Apr 12, 2006 10:39 pm

Sounds like your more bi curious than bi sexual. Like a lot of women you have a fantasy about what it would be like to be with another woman as its something totally different to being with a guy. women know what women like and the whole experience is softer and very sensual. The reason i know this is from having a threesome with my guy and another girl. I think a threesome is a great way to explore and try something different but you need to seriously discuss it with your guy and first and completely prepare yourself mentally. work out what you are comfortable with and what you aren't and make sure you and your partner always put each other first. You could be bi sexual, but ask yourself whether you actually fancy other women, or look at other girls and think i'd love to be with them. Or even be in a relationship with one? Thats why i class myself as bi curious as i dont fancy other girls but loved my experience with a woman and cant wait to try again soon.

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 1:08 pm

dancer24 wrote:Sounds like your more bi curious than bi sexual. Like a lot of women you have a fantasy about what it would be like to be with another woman as its something totally different to being with a guy. women know what women like and the whole experience is softer and very sensual. The reason i know this is from having a threesome with my guy and another girl. I think a threesome is a great way to explore and try something different but you need to seriously discuss it with your guy and first and completely prepare yourself mentally. work out what you are comfortable with and what you aren't and make sure you and your partner always put each other first. You could be bi sexual, but ask yourself whether you actually fancy other women, or look at other girls and think i'd love to be with them. Or even be in a relationship with one? Thats why i class myself as bi curious as i dont fancy other girls but loved my experience with a woman and cant wait to try again soon.



From what you say i dont think im Bi-Sexual.....I dont fancy other women. Im just turned on by the idea altho i would like a one on one experience. We have disussed threesomes, we talk quite openly about fantasies. I would have to make some rules i think if i did go ahead. Im actually thinking about trying this with another couple rather than with him. Unsure yet, these are quite new feelings i have!
Gotta wait 6 months for him yet....Hes bogging off to Iraq tomorrow :(

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Postby Lily86 on Thu Apr 13, 2006 2:55 pm

God, believe me, I'd so love to experience it too... just so you can say you did... Good luck for your man, it sounds dangerous!

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 3:00 pm

Lily86 wrote:God, believe me, I'd so love to experience it too... just so you can say you did... Good luck for your man, it sounds dangerous!


Aww thanx hunny.......Im more nervous than him, this will be his 3rd time out there....Might tell him whats in store for when he comes home, will give him sommat to look forward to! lol

Its defo on my to-do list, i want a MMF and a MFF asap! lol

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Postby Lily86 on Thu Apr 13, 2006 3:01 pm

Donnalea wrote:Aww thanx hunny.......Im more nervous than him, this will be his 3rd time out there....Might tell him whats in store for when he comes home, will give him sommat to look forward to! lol

Its defo on my to-do list, i want a MMF and a MFF asap! lol


It definitely does, when he knows it's worth coming home to his lady... if it's his 3rd time then he will know how to be careful. Give his C*** a kiss from me! ;)

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 3:11 pm

Lily86 wrote:
Donnalea wrote:Aww thanx hunny.......Im more nervous than him, this will be his 3rd time out there....Might tell him whats in store for when he comes home, will give him sommat to look forward to! lol

Its defo on my to-do list, i want a MMF and a MFF asap! lol


It definitely does, when he knows it's worth coming home to his lady... if it's his 3rd time then he will know how to be careful. Give his C*** a kiss from me! ;)


Yeah, hes been in the army 17 yrs now....hes got loadsa medals....I still worry tho!
He knows im gonna look after his every need when he comes home to me but he'll prolly have a bloody hernia if i snogged his c*ck and said that from my bud lily! lol

Is that your real name? I wanted to call my little girl lily, its lovely!

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Postby Lily86 on Thu Apr 13, 2006 4:49 pm

Donnalea wrote:Is that your real name? I wanted to call my little girl lily, its lovely!


Awww, you're more than welcome to call me that... Big Sis... you feel like my Big Sis... I'll tell you my real name by PM soon, how is that?

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 4:58 pm

Lily86 wrote:
Donnalea wrote:Is that your real name? I wanted to call my little girl lily, its lovely!


Awww, you're more than welcome to call me that... Big Sis... you feel like my Big Sis... I'll tell you my real name by PM soon, how is that?


Awwww....Ive never had a lil sis! lol.....Im the youngest of 3!

Ok chicken! x

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Postby Lily86 on Thu Apr 13, 2006 5:11 pm

Donnalea wrote:Awwww....Ive never had a lil sis! lol.....Im the youngest of 3!

Ok chicken! x


Naw, not chicken *LOL* Else what am I going to call you? I meant "little girl", I wasn't looking properly, SPANK ME!

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 6:37 pm

Lily86 wrote:
Donnalea wrote:Awwww....Ive never had a lil sis! lol.....Im the youngest of 3!

Ok chicken! x


Naw, not chicken *LOL* Else what am I going to call you? I meant "little girl", I wasn't looking properly, SPANK ME!


Right....Now im confused! lol eh? x

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Postby Lily86 on Thu Apr 13, 2006 6:39 pm

My mistake, Baby... thought YOU were asking if you could call ME "little girl"... *LOL* I wasn't reading properly! Sorry to confuse you!

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Postby Donnalea on Thu Apr 13, 2006 6:42 pm

Lily86 wrote:My mistake, Baby... thought YOU were asking if you could call ME "little girl"... *LOL* I wasn't reading properly! Sorry to confuse you!


LOL oh yeah, with you now!.....No, Ive got 2 kids......Girl and a boy, my lil uns!

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