Topless sunbathing - who decides?

[Miamiman]

My wife and I were on vacation in Cancun recently and she went topless for teh first time. There were several other women at the resort who were without their tops so after a few drinks she asked if I wanted her to take hers off too. I told her it was ok by me and was actually very excited to see her do this. I got a little stiff and she got wet. After an hour or so we went back to our room and had some fun! Can't wait for her to do it again.

[andrea45]

I've never done it. It's never something I think I'll do.

[Nameless]

And swimming and sunbathing should be natural to be done topless. though during your normal day both men and women should have there tops covered.

Maybe it is natural, but wouldn't it be equally natural to do it bottomless too?

[Cambridge]

No.

Topless? You can do what ever you want. What a concept.

Then I had cancer and she stayed by my side. What a dream.

[daveon]

My wife normally bathes topless on holiday, to be honest I couldn't care less and I don't think anyone really cares though it does mean I get to see her beautiful boobs a bit more which is always a good thing

[ems1981]

I had a boyfriend a few years ago who absolutely hated the idea of me going topless on holiday; he was convinced that every bloke on the beach would be slobbering over me, which I thought was a bit ego-centric tbh. We had a massive row when he found out that I had gone topless all the time on a girls holiday. When we did go away together I had to keep my top on, despite the fact that virtually every other woman on the beach had theirs off, which was a bit of a strange experience for someone who had grown up with toplessness.

[Sandra C]

Like a lot of women I go topless when abroad but wouldn't do so on a beach here-probably afraid someone you know will see you. I do go topless in the garden (it's secluded) and my bf doesn't mind.Why would he?

[splinkygb]

Don't be soft Ladies and go topless. us guys love it!

[ukmav]

amazing really if every woman on a beach went topless no one would even bother having a second look, on the continent most women do and hardly anyone bothers about it one way or another of course we would all take that first look but it would be so natural that would be it. Having been to many clothing optional beaches both abroad and in the UK after the first 45 seconds the novelty kinda wears off, unless someone is doing something to specifically get noticed, it simply becomers a trip to the beach to swim sunbathe etc etc. My wife commented the first time she joined me on one, I started going years before I met her, how she had actually felt uncomfortable being one of very few people with any clothing on, ending the day like me completely nude she had initially only agreed to come grudgingly to shut me up and told me not to expect her to take off her clothes. since then we both wear or don't wear what we feel like of course with respect to others around us.

[Luv2BSmooth]

I wish my wife would, but she is really prudish on this subject, and frowns when I sunbath in the nude.

[LUCKY HUSBAND]

i go top-less on holiday in the back garden he loves men or women looking at my 42"tits and i love showing them.

[Guesty]

I don't think a partner should have any say if you want to do it. I'm another of those who keeps covered up in the UK, though I did sunbathe in my bra today in a park - there were a few half dressed people about so it felt ok!

[seany1234]

i defo think its wrong that u girls shud feel pressured by ur bfs to go topless or keep ur top on as the case maybe its nothing to be ashamed of whatever you want to do.

my ex was very shy and she felt she had smaller boobs and stuff and i told her i would of like to see her topless but she was too shy about eeverything, you ladies just need to have the confidence and understand that alot more guys than you think will appreciate how you look

[ukmav]

it is obviously the choice of the person whose body it is however I would suggest that like all things in a loving relationship their is room for compromise. Personally I think all girls should be topless all the time cerainly make the journey to work more fun!

[Moira Mac]

I haven't gone topless in ages, only once this year at a beach along the coast. My dearly beloved doesn't have a problem. in fact he encourages me to do it, even though I take itr as second nature to be naked, if that makes sense. The beach allows naturism, so when in Rome and all that jazz....