Trust Your Gut : How to Know When He’s The On

[WATTLEBLOOM]

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i REALY DO NOT KNOW HOW ONE PERSON CAN HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS. AS FOR ME WELL I HAVE A GUT FEELING ABOUT THE WAY WE WOMEN CONDUCT OURSELVS IN MATTERS OF SEX I BELIEVE IT IS ALL GOING TO BLOW UP IN OUR FACES.

[Angela]

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Everyone is different and will experince different things. I feel it is not just going with your gut, but what you're feeling in your heart as well. I say definately take the time to get to know him. You need to know what is it that he wants and needs, and making sure he understands this about you as well. Before I married my husband we became the best of friends and finaly got married after 4 years of getting to know each other. Don't feel so rushed, and try not to worry about the pressure that goes with getting married. I think that is why there are so many failing relationships. people are feeling to rushed and pressured these days. Take your time is is well worth it in the end.

[jinjin]

If all else is equal between two or more possible candidates then trusting yur gut may be the way to go. Prior to that, I think you need to establish a check-list then test and rank his qualities continuously. Being swept off your feet does not guarantee that he is Mr. Right. If you do not do the research, you may regret it when you discover his dark secrets much later in the relationship.

[Eva]

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I'm not sure the man I'm dating is the right one either. I'm so terrified of getting hurt that I look for problems constantly. So is it my gutt or self preservation?

[theblackpanther]

SURE YOUR NOT ALL SCARED OF


COMMITMENT ----

[SimonStef]

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I'm not sure the man I'm dating is the right one either. I'm so terrified of getting hurt that I look for problems constantly. So is it my gutt or self preservation?

The fact you look for problems sort of shows that you're not totally comfortable in your relationship. If there are no problems then it's a GOOD thing! Just embrace that and be happy. If you're looking for problems and they are there then sort them out. It might be a defense mechanism so you spot problems before they can catch you unaware...maybe cheated on in the past? I've been cheated on and I know it's totally different now with my current partner. He's lovely and I know he wouldn't ever cheat on me. Just make sure you're open with your boyfriend and when you say you're being truthful with him make sure you are! I know people who say they're 100% honest but actually hide a whole bunch of stuff.

[chloe ryan]

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i dont care what anyone else says, but im completely sure of my true of my love, and i can say that confidently. i know people have their doubts about couples as young as we are, but im not ashamed to admit im only 15. young love proves to be the best though! =] [sure, we've had our ups and downs just like everybody else] but we couldn't be happier with the way things are... true love exists EVERYWHERE, and i've definately found it.

[chloe]

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PLEASE READ MY COMMENT RIGHT THERE. i want everyone to know. ...thanx = )

[chloe]

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if 'angela' is still _, i would like to say i liked what you had to say. =]
- it was very inspiring - and quite true by the way.
thank you.

[Seriously_Confused]

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I've just read the article and I have to say I feel know better off. I've been with my fiance for two and a half years, my longest relationship for two years 2 weeks! I haven't had the best of luck with men! But now it seems that i'm tearing our relationship apart and I don't know why. Maybe it's because I really love him and I'm scared of the future or maybe its because I don't really love him. I don't think that its the latter. Just writing about him, I know I love him, and I want to be with him. Maybe its because I don't feel his commitment! -You can see why I feel so confused and why I was reading this article. Anyways, I'm sure its helped some people, but not me. Why is it always the hard questions that lack answers?

[74jax]

Maybe its because I don't feel his commitment! -You can see why I feel so confused?

Totally agree, when you feel so connected and committed to someone, but they don't show this back, you doubt yourself and the relationship. Commitment works best, and grows, when it's both ways and you know the relationship is going where you want it to.