trainer wrote:I think that the cane should be brought back to schools for sure!
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If boys broke the rules,that was the punishment,and they all knew it. Believe me,my brothers,and all the boys,dreaded a caning. My little brother told me that after his six,he couldn't sit comfortably for well over a week. I guess people might say that girls got off lightly,and they are probably right in some respects. But doing a week or so of detention and lines and usually a spanking as well was no picnic. I sometimes thought I'd rather be caned,as it was quick,but seeing it's effects on the boys,I don't know.
I'd love to see some of these little smartarse bastards on the train hauled up and given a caning. They know they can misbehave now days and nobody can do anything to them. And their parents always stick up for them if the schools try to discipline them.Idiots! The girls could do with some lessons too,because some of them are as bad,or worse,than the boys. Some long detentions and a bloody good slippering would sort them out. It was a stupid liberal C***-up to take CP out of schools.
If the cane is to be brought back it must be used fairly. That means it must be used to discipline girls as well as boys. If a group of children are jointly and equally involved in misbehaviour, caning some and giving the others detention is clearly unfair. As you are aware though, it's not clear which group it's unfair to. Also, if one sex is exempt, clearly the school doesn't believe the cane is a necessary, or reasonable, method of maintaining discipline. In that case, it's use on the other sex is unjustifiable brutality. As you say, girls are as bad or worse than the boys (as was ever thus) so there is no reason to try to be lenient - that approach will only make them worse.
In general, nowadays, I find boys are much better behaved and more polite than girls. At a local school I often see girls lighting cigarettes, in full view of the teachers, as they leave the building. I've seen fewer boys smoking and never near the school. When I commented on this to a couple of sixth formers, I was told that boys get detention if they're caught but nothing is ever said to the girls.
I was treated very fairly at school, there was no sexism at all. I had the same opportunities as the boys and, if I misbehaved, I got the slipper or cane as appropriate. I thought that far preferable to long, drawn out punishments which, ultimately, discourage a child from doing ordinary school work. This was a large part of the reason girls tended not to do as well as boys at school. Lines and detentions were rare at my school but, on the few occasions I got either, I simply didn't do them and had the slipper the next day instead.