Gemini female and Scorpio male - I AM CONFUSED!!!!

[123987]

Us Scorpio males ain't that bad

[geminigemini]

but you Spcorpio males play with our feelings. You are aware we are waiting and don't care we suffer..that is cruel.
see.. we were left without an answer... yes or no, it is that simple. Instead they don't answer

[123987]

Eer~I've never not given a straight answer to a straight question~u must be talkin to a different sorta guy than this Scorp

[geminigemini]

you are right, I am sorry
some are not like that
but is a fact that many are playing games and just too misterious, and we will never know what they really think of us, what they really wanted....
thanks!

[gemininurse85]

Scorpios are sooooooooooooo confusing!! Im a gemini too and i can get very confused and `flap` if someone is nt direct with me. I met my scorpio guy on new year, everyone got us together as we couldnt stop eyeing each other up across the room and everyone mustve noticed!!! So we got together, had a fab night and we text every single day!! Dont think hes very experienced in relationships and is a typical lad. I dont mind that but I started to get a bi bored texting all the time and not being asked to meet up or anything.... Especially when it goes on for a good few weeks!!! Anyways we eventually met up when i went to my friends at the local bar and I felt a bit under pressure and a bit shy cos think everyone knew about us liking each other, and everyone wanted us to get together again. Anyways, he invited me to go out with him and his mates to a club. I wasnt sure at first (before this night he told me he was going abroad to kuwait for 3 months so this wouldve been our last night together really)I said to him `I dont know` and he looked shocked like he really wanted me to come out. So i asked him if he wanted me to come and he said yes he did. So i thought stuff it i ll go!!! So I went. Had a really really good time and met his brother too who i got on with really well. He said I d really like his parents and that we d go shopping before he goes away. So in my head i was thinking that this guy likes me and wants something to happen. Anyways....I got abit drunk... and i could kick myself cos things got a bit heated when we got back to his and we went all the way I so so regret it cos I feel that it definately went a bit quieter regarding communication between us both after that. He knows I regret it and I did go back to his but think he was expecting something but I told him I felt S*** after last time and that I wanted to gain some respect back for myself and not have sex...strange i know but i didnt care what he thought i had to do it for myself!!! So felt really glad after that. Only thing is I never really heard from him in the week before he went away...I ve asked him directly `whats happening now then?` but he freaks out and just says `dont know` or just clams up. Like it scares him!!! They are definately the slow movers in love....taureans are supposed to be the slow movers...i think not, not in comparison to scorpios!!! Anyways since hes been over there we ve spoken once on facebook chat, he asked me if i was missing him and i said yes and i asked him and he said at some point he will just like he will for his family and friends....is he covering up his feelings there or something?? hes so confusing!!! He says Im confusing but boy oh boy is he!!! His friend who i spoke to at the weekend said he likes me and always mentions me, so seeing tho i aint heard from him for a few weeks, i plucked up the courage to text him and i said that i wished he was here. Then he said `any reason?` and I said well I was in your part of town and was thinkin of ya, and i miss you a bit! And his response was...`drunk then?` grrrrrrrr he makes me mad sometimes. Anyways I saidf that i had had a bit to drink but that it didnt change how I felt, and that he knows that i like him cos i ve told him!! I told him that i would be quiet now cos i felt like i was putting my foot in it and felt stupid. He asked why, so i told him because i said all these things how i feel and i dont get anything back and it makes me feel stupid!!! Then he told me to calm down. I said to him that i must mean something if hes texting me from kuwait which he said he wouldnt do initially...then he said yea but dont be insulted if i dont get another text again while hes over there. So i said i wont. Then randomly he said me a email on facebook saying that im weird and I confuse him!!! I replied saying that (sarcastically) `thats nice of you, I dont get you either!!!` aint heard anything back yet...This is my first encounter with a scorpio male and I dont get them. I think i messed up sleeping with him so soon. Something may happen when he gets back but I just dont know what he thinks. What do you guys think???xxx

[femgem79]

oh wow... i can't believe that happened to you too... the guy i was talking about in my previous posts was like that too.. sending me mixed signals... texting me frequently at first, and then we slept together... then he became cold towards me, but would still message me out of nowhere, offer to help train me at the gym, told me he wanted to get to know me... but still, mixed signals...i finally couldn't take it anymore so i asked him, what's going on? if you're not interested then just say so... what did i get outta that? not a straighter answer of course not... instead he told me that i was thinking too much ... that was the end of that... i stopped msging him and he stopped msging me ... my advise? just run the other way... don't get involved with this guy any further ... it takes A LOT of patience to be involved with a scorpio man.... i'm a gemini but i have great patience... even that wasn't enough though....

[gemininurse85]

well iam just going to see what happens. he did reply to that email, and said that he wasnt bein mean, that he said it because i was having a conversation with myself and ramdomly apologized and that he was totally lost by that point and didnt have a clue what i was goin on about!! So i just said back that maybe i do go on a bit and if i was having a conversation with myself by text then could see why he got a bit lost ha ha! I said that i didnt think text messaging was the best way at tryin to explain yourself. Im not goin to put all my eggs in one basket with him, if i meet someone else then i meet someone else but if he comes bk and actually puts some effort in with me then i may keep an interest in him, but if he doesnt then im just not going to bother. My mum is married to a scorpio (shes a taurus) and said that she wasnt sure with him after about a month of being together but then she sorted it out (shes very upfront no messing sort of woman my mum, and more direct and easy to understand unlike me)so maybe her way is the right way, think you ve either got that or not. But like i say, i m just goin to see what happens. There is something about him that makes me want to be patient for him tho its strange, but i ll just have to see if he is really worth it!! thanks for your help.x

[gemininurse85]

well iam just going to see what happens. he did reply to that email, and said that he wasnt bein mean, that he said it because i was having a conversation with myself and ramdomly apologized and that he was totally lost by that point and didnt have a clue what i was goin on about!! So i just said back that maybe i do go on a bit and if i was having a conversation with myself by text then could see why he got a bit lost ha ha! I said that i didnt think text messaging was the best way at tryin to explain yourself. Im not goin to put all my eggs in one basket with him, if i meet someone else then i meet someone else but if he comes bk and actually puts some effort in with me then i may keep an interest in him, but if he doesnt then im just not going to bother. My mum is married to a scorpio (shes a taurus) and said that she wasnt sure with him after about a month of being together but then she sorted it out (shes very upfront no messing sort of woman my mum, and more direct and easy to understand unlike me)so maybe her way is the right way, think you ve either got that or not. But like i say, i m just goin to see what happens. There is something about him that makes me want to be patient for him tho its strange, but i ll just have to see if he is really worth it!! thanks for your help.x

[gemininurse85]

well iam just going to see what happens. he did reply to that email, and said that he wasnt bein mean, that he said it because i was having a conversation with myself and ramdomly apologized and that he was totally lost by that point and didnt have a clue what i was goin on about!! So i just said back that maybe i do go on a bit and if i was having a conversation with myself by text then could see why he got a bit lost ha ha! I said that i didnt think text messaging was the best way at tryin to explain yourself. Im not goin to put all my eggs in one basket with him, if i meet someone else then i meet someone else but if he comes bk and actually puts some effort in with me then i may keep an interest in him, but if he doesnt then im just not going to bother. My mum is married to a scorpio (shes a taurus) and said that she wasnt sure with him after about a month of being together but then she sorted it out (shes very upfront no messing sort of woman my mum, and more direct and easy to understand unlike me)so maybe her way is the right way, think you ve either got that or not. But like i say, i m just goin to see what happens. There is something about him that makes me want to be patient for him tho its strange, but i ll just have to see if he is really worth it!! thanks for your help.x

[cred]

I am a Gemini woman and was in a relationship with a scorpion man for 6 yrs. We even had a child together. I am sorry, but I DO NOT trust scorpion men. That secretivity is there for a reason. He lied, cheated and continues to hold to his stories even NOW after we are no longer together. If any sign needs their space, it's US! Very controlling, almost like having a second father uggggh! Very JEALOUS and violently jealous at times. Well, being the Gem that I am......I suffer from boredom and really don't like the fact that Scorpions are the MOST romantic people in the world. Their "love" may lie a bit deeper than we can even take the time to fathom understanding. I just simply wanted to do more, you know-hang out, picnics, walks, fishing......anything to do with the outdoors and the water-just me and him (romantic to me). He would go fishing and hunting with his family but never me....he would hang out with other women and deny it.....he always had an excuse. He was very quick to tell me I am going to do what I want to do, when I want to.....as if I could EVER be okay with that. OMG, who in the sam H-E double L, does he think I am some other sign.....we like to have our fun and hang out (gems). I actually loved this guy and wanted a family. I wanted to be with JUST him, no other guys. I did my share of flirting, but never took it to the extreme to be intimate with another man. Anywho, after numerous women, and me tuffin' it out because we had a child together.....this fewl accuses me of lying and cheating....AS IF!!!!!!!!!!!!! It makes no sense, it's like what's good for the goose is no longer good for the gander-and I haven't even been with neone else. WOWZERS......what a looser, I feel bad for my lil' champ. I don't like explaining myself....see when I say spend time with me, I mean it. When you don't, I will find other things to do. But don't accuse me of cheating when that's all you've been doing to justify your wrongs.......Selfish Scorp! If he only knew, I could be with ANYONE I wanted to be with and still chose JUST him....and from what I hear and read, we aren't even the settle down type. What did I miss........only because I have a wonderful son, would I do it again.

[cherrylipsaries]

I was introduced to a scorpio man on July 19th through a cell phone by one of my boyfriends who seem to think that i am lonely and need someone to settle down with. This guy was so charming on the phone telling me how much i have a sexy voice which was a turn off for me(i think that was too personal) but his charm and manners i forgave him and was drawn into his spell that same night. We spoke for 3 hrs 49 min..i tried to be accomodating because i wanted to be nice and ofcourse i enjoyed the various topics we spoke on...from his ex-wife to his kids to his favourite food to music to his favourite position in bed. By the next morning he would call nonstop on his way to work, from leaving home straight to work, at breaks and during work time when he gets a chance..i said to myself OMG! this guy really likes me. A date was set for the 21st to meet at public restaurant. He is a great singer and sang to me on the phone and as he saw me that night he started singing a Brian Mcknight. There was absolutely no sparks as i was expecting mr.handsome although he isnt bad looking. He was somewhat stuttering alot and afraid to look me in the eye..we ate, drank, he was a perfect gentleman and took me home, said goodbyes. He called the same night saying he couldnt believe how i looked so calm, sexy and proper and he definately would love to see me again. We chat and chat and chat, that same night, we were trying to find out personal stuffs about each other..Anyway for the next couple days it was all chat, we went out together again to the mall and we walked and hugged, enjoyed ourselves and thats that.
exactly 2 weeks after meeting this guy we went on a date and he kissed me so passionately i thought i was going to pass out, i was never kissed like that before, boy did i feel it! He sang to me and rocked my world before you know it i started feeling this great attraction, wanting to hear his voice, to see him again, we had a connection, a chemistry, it was beautiful.
About 5 days after that we decided to meet at his house, hmmm! I dont have to tell you how that went down..it was the best romance i have ever had, we couldnt have enough of each other..He took me home, he called that night to reminiscence about the day and how it was wonderful etc...We made a date again the following 6 days at his home and this time was better than before...took me home again called we spoke that night but not too long, he called in the morning to say how i was doing and that his shift changes...That's it people, i have to be texting and calling him leaving messages and he has not return any for 3 days after that...He then call to ask if everything ok, i asked him why is he ignoring me, he says he would never do that but he has certain things working out and have a lot to think about. Nothing again until 4 or 5 days again he called to talk about casual stuffs after he left me wondering and he knows it too, I even see him in yahoo messenger _ but when i try to talk he answers but vaguely and if i dont say something he doesnt.. Now i wish i didnt go so far with him. i am feeling used and disgusted with myself. I need my self esteem back. I am in love with him and care about him so much, I feel complete with him i cannot and will not make love again to anyone else unless in marriage. I want to move on but dont know if i should wait, seen as reading these posts about scorpio men paints another picture. If only I knew what he is thinking...I believe we could be happy together if given a chance. I dont know about an Aries/Scorpio relationship. Someone please give me some answers..Thanks

[sweetdee1706]

Lol..after reading all the post now that i know that i am not the only woman that is confused with scorpio man. My story starts when i changed my job and met a dark,tall and handsome guy in the same office.i admit of liking him.but it just like to him.nothing more.then,after few month,we start getting closer with each other.and we did fall in love.i mean constantly said i love u every day.for me to hear he says i love u to me like a jackpot!he makes me feel complete as a woman.everyday i could not stop thinking bout him and feel as if i would like to spend the rest of my life to this man.all i ever wanted is just to be with him.we had not makes any physical relationship aka sex but the emotional attachment that we had are soo strong.we even agreed of getting married except that his mom doesnt approve it,his children not happy at all and plus,his ex wants to get back to him.he knows that both of us fit with each other but he said that he cant move on because of his kids.aged 9 and 11.and he said that because of his kids he would like to get back together with his ex wife that had cheated on him for another man.oh yes,the ex wife slept with another rich guy.and did i mention that this scorpio guy is a divorcee of 7 years? Just because of his kids he would like to go back to his ex wife.he just left me without any proper explaination.to be in the same office is crazy!!sorry for the long post,it just i feel like i need to pour it out..do we all the gemini women feel like we are sooo in love with scorpio guy soo much?i admit,i never feel this way before..he did leave a scar in my heart,thou and its hurt..

P/s: yes,i am a gemini-17/06 and my scorpio man 8/11

[none of the above]

I was introduced to a scorpio man on July 19th through a cell phone by one of my boyfriends who seem to think that i am lonely and need someone to settle down with. This guy was so charming on the phone telling me how much i have a sexy voice which was a turn off for me(i think that was too personal) but his charm and manners i forgave him and was drawn into his spell that same night. We spoke for 3 hrs 49 min..i tried to be accomodating because i wanted to be nice and ofcourse i enjoyed the various topics we spoke on...from his ex-wife to his kids to his favourite food to music to his favourite position in bed. By the next morning he would call nonstop on his way to work, from leaving home straight to work, at breaks and during work time when he gets a chance..i said to myself OMG! this guy really likes me. A date was set for the 21st to meet at public restaurant. He is a great singer and sang to me on the phone and as he saw me that night he started singing a Brian Mcknight. There was absolutely no sparks as i was expecting mr.handsome although he isnt bad looking. He was somewhat stuttering alot and afraid to look me in the eye..we ate, drank, he was a perfect gentleman and took me home, said goodbyes. He called the same night saying he couldnt believe how i looked so calm, sexy and proper and he definately would love to see me again. We chat and chat and chat, that same night, we were trying to find out personal stuffs about each other..Anyway for the next couple days it was all chat, we went out together again to the mall and we walked and hugged, enjoyed ourselves and thats that.
exactly 2 weeks after meeting this guy we went on a date and he kissed me so passionately i thought i was going to pass out, i was never kissed like that before, boy did i feel it! He sang to me and rocked my world before you know it i started feeling this great attraction, wanting to hear his voice, to see him again, we had a connection, a chemistry, it was beautiful.
About 5 days after that we decided to meet at his house, hmmm! I dont have to tell you how that went down..it was the best romance i have ever had, we couldnt have enough of each other..He took me home, he called that night to reminiscence about the day and how it was wonderful etc...We made a date again the following 6 days at his home and this time was better than before...took me home again called we spoke that night but not too long, he called in the morning to say how i was doing and that his shift changes...That's it people, i have to be texting and calling him leaving messages and he has not return any for 3 days after that...He then call to ask if everything ok, i asked him why is he ignoring me, he says he would never do that but he has certain things working out and have a lot to think about. Nothing again until 4 or 5 days again he called to talk about casual stuffs after he left me wondering and he knows it too, I even see him in yahoo messenger _ but when i try to talk he answers but vaguely and if i dont say something he doesnt.. Now i wish i didnt go so far with him. i am feeling used and disgusted with myself. I need my self esteem back. I am in love with him and care about him so much, I feel complete with him i cannot and will not make love again to anyone else unless in marriage. I want to move on but dont know if i should wait, seen as reading these posts about scorpio men paints another picture. If only I knew what he is thinking...I believe we could be happy together if given a chance. I dont know about an Aries/Scorpio relationship. Someone please give me some answers..Thanks

He just got his willy wet and now he's gone off, nothing to do with astrology...