Scorpio Man & Capricorn Woman

[diablo82]

I´m not really that into astrology, but this topic made me think of my best friend who is a Scorpio, born in the beginning of november. He kind of has all the Scorpio attributes - he looks good I guess, he´s got that "gaze" you know...But he´s a very strange guy - kind of insane. Anyway, he seems to be popular with the ladies. He´s the typical player - he gets them where he wants them and then eats them like bonbons, a lot of them pieces and cancer girls. But there was this one Capricorn chic, born at the end of december - that really got to him. They were together for two years (witch for him is a long time) but eventually she left him cuz he cheated. I think he was mad for her even though he never admitted it. Infact he used to mock her, specially infront of us. She was very smart but really weird too, for example she could sit in a corner all night without saying a word, but man when she got angry! One time she threw all his stuff out the window and screamed if he ever came up to her house again he would be next flying out (btw he´s a strong guy and she´s kind of small...) In other words she wasn´t all that peaches either, but there was something innocent about her. And she had the sweetest smile.
When she left he couldn´t get out of bed for days. He lost half his weight. Even to this day we never talk about her, it´s a forbidden subject. He´s had ALOT of girls after her, but he still keeps her picture in his wallet.
Anyway - here´s what I think based on their reltionship:
IF YOU WANT A SCORPIO MAN TO LOVE YOU and not just for a night (witch is known to happen) you have to be smarter and stronger (mentally) than him or at least be on his level. By mentally strong I mean you have to be cold. And yet you have to be hot(I know - Mission impossible...)You have to be prepared to have a non-usual and very passionate relationship. Oh, and you don´t have to be very sane, in fact - being crazy helps... Sun Glasses

[Capricorn guest]

Understanding evrything and knowing all about scorpio.
Still we love them....there's a wierd kind of connection or attachment that you cant have for other signs
its difficult to forget scorpio, ones you are touched by them .......

What makes scorpio so different and hard to forget?
cant forget this guy..it hurts

[cap woman]

Wow loads of abuse flying round here, and i dont quite get why!

Im a capricorn woman, and my fiancee is a scorpio male, and i can totally get why every sign would slate these two, both signs are similar in so many ways in there behaviour, and both signs have a magnetic pull with people, and they also hurt deeply those who have betrayed them in some way, but i really cant understand why they would slate each other.

This pairing are the only two who totally get each other on a deeper level and understand each other, i can read scorpio like an open book, i know every expression and gaze and what is going on behind the eyes, and capricorns are armed to deal with every emotion and deliver without needed a 5 hour discussion.

Scorpio is the only guy who truly understands what is going on with me beneath the surface, he is the only one who can see through the coldness i show the world and actually create passion, but as he knows only he can do this the jealousy is controllable, it still rears his head, and i remind him how much effort it took him to get to where he is now with me, which always subsides the green eyed monster.

We've had a connection for 16 years now, and have been together and split up numerous times, but regardless of whether we were together or not, we always felt and had a connection to each other, which over powers everything else in our lives.

So why are you throwing abuse at each other, when you are so similar it is unreal, your insulting half of yourself as well, we just display things differently, but deep down were experiencing the same.

[Bovine]

I need some input from Scorpmale.
I am a Taurus (with a scorpio moon) and am in love with a Scorpio. We were great in the beginning and I began to believe he was my soulmate. I just needed some time to feel a little more secure in the relationship as he wanted us to move in together. He perceived my hesitancy as I didn't want to moreso just cautious due to he had been married previously twice and important information such as how many kids he had (he initially told me two and then he sat me down and told me three) and that he wanted another child with me (which he later divulged he had surgery eight years ago and is unable to have kids without having it reversed). Then I found out he cheated on me with his ex (his reason was revenge which makes no sense to me). This rocked my core. He said it was a mistake and he won't do it again and although we have been trying to press forward despite the trust issues on both sides (he doesn't trust me because I found out about his affair by his email and phone which I swear to God I have never pried like that before but my intuition lead me there). His jealousy is ridiculous (and mine has flared as well due to the infidelity) as he has no reason and questions whatever I do. We have explosive arguments because we are both stubborn with strong personalities but now we don't argue at all. He is distant because he says I am not stable and will leave him. I am six years his junior, financially capable, ambitious and very independent. I have never been married and haven't any children so my lifestyle is conducive that. I don't have a reason to be stable, as he defines to stay put. As I explained to him, I won't stay put unless I have a reason to such as a job (NEVER a man although I have considered it for him despite I don't like the city I live in) but I can't do it unless I trust the person and am secure in the relationship. His previous relationships were different. From what I've picked up from our conversations and what his friends/family have relayed, the women he previously dealt with were quite dependant upon him - financially and emotionally and weren't as attractive. Most of his relationships even with friends are needy yet it seems he thrives on this. I am not a needy person; well not financially. I may ask for assistance from you but if you don't help me, that's fine. I won't ask again. I am needy person in the sense of attention and devotion. I desire respect, honesty, support, loyalty, open communication and a passionately intimate relationship beyond physical almost spiritual. I see the potential for us to be an extremely powerful and awesome couple but how do we get there when we are hopelessly here hanging on by a thread. Neither one of us wants to let go but I don't want us to end up hating eachother and that's what I foresee.