The Webs I Weave

[TalostheGreat]

I've been fooling around with a friend of mine's girlfriend. I've known this man since gradeschool. He's been with the girl for about six years now. We've made out quite a few times. Though, we are usually drunk. Last time it happened was Saturday. He was having friends over. I went to use the restroom, and she easy coming out. We both went in and locked the door. I enjoyed every minute of it. Part of me is thinking that she is getting back at him for his previous infidelities. That... and I show her a lot of appreciation and affection, something he doesnt. I have feelings for her and she has expressed those feelings back too. I am in way over my head..

[LightRibena]

You need to decide if this girl is worth losing a friend over.

If she is, then you need to find out if she is interested in more with you or whether you're nothing more than a bit of fun on the side. If you both want more, then she needs to end her current relationship.

If this is just a fling for you two, then it's time to break it off. I normally suggest honesty, but in this case I think it might just cause more pain than is needed.

[martin57]

agree with lightribena

[H. Franklin Layne]

I've been fooling around with a friend of mine's girlfriend. I've known this man since gradeschool. He's been with the girl for about six years now. We've made out quite a few times. Though, we are usually drunk. Last time it happened was Saturday. He was having friends over. I went to use the restroom, and she easy coming out. We both went in and locked the door. I enjoyed every minute of it. Part of me is thinking that she is getting back at him for his previous infidelities. That... and I show her a lot of appreciation and affection, something he doesnt. I have feelings for her and she has expressed those feelings back too. I am in way over my head..

With friends like you, he doesn't need any enemies!!!

[none of the above]

Aww Talos, I hope you and your cheaty woman have a happy future and your ex friend finds himself both a new honest friend and a more loyal woman.