I've been with my husband 4 years, married 9 months. I'm 19 and he's 24 and our relationship hasn't had the easiest of starts. He was my parents lodger when I met him, I was only 15 and he was 20, we got together within a couple of weeks with my parents blessing, but then within a year he fell out with my parents over money issues and because of this we seperated. We got back together within a few weeks but decided to keep the relationship secret from my parents, as we knew they wouldn't agree with it, this went on for about 6 months before they found out. I then moved in with him and his parents and for the next 2 years I was moving between my parents and his. Then last year, when I was 17, we moved into our own flat, he then had an argument with my parents and they decided then no longer wanted anything to do with me and I haven't heard form them since. We then lost the flat and have lived with his parents ever since. We are now arguing as I believe as a married couple we should get our own place but he thinks we can't afford it, but we can as we both work full time jobs. I would also like a place as I would like to start a family in the next year or so.
My question is; is it unrealistic for me to want our own place and to start a family with the man I love or is he wrong for wanting to stay at home where his mum does everything for him?