andymate wrote:Just need to accept what's going to happen I guess !

MaxtheGaul wrote:Of course she will! You just have to decide whether you enjoy that prospect.
MaxtheGaul wrote:When is the holiday?
So she's going to go and enjoy the sun and relax, and when she has dinner on her own, there isn't going to be a fit young doctor/banker/engineer who comes to her rescue and offers her a bit of company, and he's not going to fancy her, and she's not going to respond to his advances.
Face it if she's going on her own she's going expecting to have a bit of fun. What matters is not what she gets up to but what happens when she gets back.
For me I'd rather she was honest about having a few ONSs than that she lied about a single fairly chaste kiss - because once the lying starts....
If you want her to be honest then you need to accept what is likely to happen and tell her you want to be kept in the picture so that when she cally you (I assume she will) then she can tell you about the doctor she quite fancies, and whether or not she's going to have a ONS with him and not feel she's destroying you in the process.
MaxtheGaul wrote:that sounds like a good idea and gives you pleanty of time.
Mail me if you want to discuss further.
andymate wrote:MaxtheGaul wrote:that sounds like a good idea and gives you pleanty of time.
Mail me if you want to discuss further.
Yeh, might do that.
Did you mean mail you direct?, as I don't have your e-mail
Also I'm new to this forum and not allowed to send private messages
Forgive me if I sound naive, but i have very little experience in forums generally
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