I have long inner labia, and it can be quite uncomfortable at times. I often have pain after sports activities or after I moved my body a lot, for example after a walk, it becomes like blisters. The inner labia sometimes places themselves in an uncomfortable way in the panties and in the pants. If I can so, I try to avoid my bike, because I often get a lot of pain while biking. But in some situations, I have to ride my bike, and I hate it!
Sex can be a pain. I have not had so much sex. I've only had sex with my last three boyfriends. But it was difficult to have intercourse. For my inner labia was too long and got stuck in the guy's dicks, and my inner labia are usually supposed to be on the outside my vagina. But when they got stuck, they followed the dicks into the vagina and then my inner labia got squeezed between the dick and my vaginal walls (during the usual "in/out, in/out, in/out" of the intercourse). Painful like you can't imagine!
With both my ex boyfriends, I solved the intercourse problem in the same way. During the whole intercourse, I used my fingers on both hands to hold my inner labia and spread it wide apart. With that trick, intercourse was at least acceptable. Sometimes I did not have to spread my inner labia apart on my own. At those time it was the guy that helped me and used his fingers to spread my inner labia apart during the whole intercourse. But I found intercourse a bit complicated with my vagina, so I prefer petting and oral sex.
I think it looks great with pants and jeans, but it is not so comfortable for my inner labia in that type of clothing, so these pants I wear only if I'm in school, in town, at parties and such. But when I'm home with my family, I change pants and then I wearing wide and soft pants. And recently, I have started wear them without panties when I am at home. It feels pretty good.
But it feels most comfortable from evenings to mornings. Because that time I'm dressed in my nightie and no bra and no panties. it's a long nightie (below my knees), which is why I do not wear panties. So it's been comfortable from evening to morning. It feels great to wear my nightie without underwear, because my inner labia hangs freely then. That means no pain, and the blisters get a chance to heal then.
But when I'm not at home, I'm often wear pants. Because I think it looks great, but pants is often uncomfortable and painful to my inner labia. If my pants were open at the crotch, it would be the most comfortable solution. Then my inner labia could hang free, haha
. But let's be realistic and serious. Is there anything I can do to ease the pain when I wear pants?Any other girl who has the same problem as me? How do you take care of your long inner labia? Do you have any tips or tricks to share? It would be nice if I could wear jeans without having the pain. All tips that can help my everyday life is good. All tips are welcome, except the bad tips, lol.
Another thing I am wondering. I am a white girl (northern europe). Is it normal that my inner labia is dark? My nipples and areolas are also dark. My hair on the head is dark brown and my pubic hair are black, can that be the reason why my nipples and my inner labia is dark? I thought only asian, african, arabic, latin american and south european girls supposed to have dark nipples and dark inner labia.
The inner labia sometimes places themselves in an uncomfortable way in the <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'>panties</A> and in the pants. If I can so, I try to avoid my bike,{Not `ok` w/ME as I Ride I ride a buncch!} because I often get a lot of pain{bummer} while biking. But in some situations, I have to ride my bike, and I hate it! 
