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Abortion/abnormal baby??

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Abortion/abnormal baby??

Postby Just Dropping By » Wed Mar 04, 2009 9:10 pm

:cry: Ok i have no idea what to do here. I was about 2 mnths pregnant when i found out that my fiance had been cheating on me. He knew that i was pregnant and that didnt stop him. He said that he was confused and stressed that i was pregnant because we both have daughters by other people and were not ready for another baby. well anyways, we broke up and during the break up i had what i "thought" was a misscarriage, i had a period and it was very painfull, i assumed it was a misscarriage and resumed my normal activities such as tanning, excersising, which included some boxing so i have taken some blows to sensitive areas for a pregnant girl such as lower abdomen shots, riding fourwheelers, and swimming and getting in the hot tub. well i was late on my period again and took a test and it turns out i did not have a misscarriage. I already told my fiance that i had the misscarriage and we have been doing great without the stress of a baby. I have not yet told him that it was a "false alarm" i am now very worried that i have caused damage to the baby because of my activities. I would like to have an abortion and have thought it through completely. I do not want to tell him to avoid the un needed stress and fears the baby would not be normal. im also having a hard time getting a friend to take me for the procedure because you have to have a driver....what should i do!!
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Re: Abortion/abnormal baby??

Postby st_ignatius110 » Thu Mar 05, 2009 6:34 am

Whew!! Sounds like you have gone through a heck of a lot! How far along are you right now? I am assuming around 3 months? If so, very shortly you should be able to have a sonogram to see if the baby is ok. Babies do add a lot of stress and can be difficult to take care of. I would seriously encourage you to get some counseling from a pregnancy center or I can even reccommend something _. You need to be aware of all of your options before you make a life changing decision. Feel free to IM me if you want to talk.
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