i'm pregnant??

[samxx]

im only 16 but ive missed 2 periods and i had sex wiv my bf wivout protection. ive told him this and he said he'll suport me woteva decision i make. i no im pregnant, i can just tell. i dont want 2 have an abortion but im worried about giving birth. i no its early days but i need 2 no wot 2 do! i havent told my mum yet and im not gonna tell her til i no 4 certain. wot do u think i should do?

[jamieson]

did he cum inside you?

[nightfly]

first thing is to do a pregnancy test to confirm that you are pregnant. There are many options to consider. keep the baby, abortion or adoption.
Hopefully your bf will stand by you and there is lots of support out there.
Ive just found out im 10 weeks pregnant. my bf, soon to be ex, doesn't want anything to do with me or the baby if i keep it. I don't think i can have a abortion. Although im 23, im just as confused as you.

[samxx]

i just wont b able 2 go through wiv an abortion. the thought of killing an innocent baby just upsets me like mad. i wont b able 2 have the baby adopted either. i've always wanted 2 b a mum, but not wen im this young. in a way, im mega-excited and in a way im mega-nervous. i'm dreading the stretch marks lol and not being able 2 fit in2 my clothes 4 a few months!

[samxx]

did he cum inside you?

yeah he did

[jaded idealist]

i am dismayed that you seem almost more concerned about stretchmarks and not fitting into clothes than how, at 16, you are ever going to be able to raise and support a child when you are still one yourself. whether your boyfriend stays or not (you give no indication of his age or level of maturity), you yourself must somehow become an adult. life as you've known it is about to drastically and forever change. you will need more help and support than imaginable. one way to encourage people to want to help is by having them take you seriously. my first suggestion would be to learn to spell and construct intelligible sentences. good luck.

[Guest]

samxx, do you ever consider the consequences of your actions??

Here's what I think you should do:

GO TO YOUR DOCTOR!

If you are pregnant I would recommend having an abortion as you are clearly not responsible or wise enough to raise a child.

Otherwise, prepare for the end of your life as you know it. Forget ever being able to do something spontaneous or just for you until you are in your 30's. Stretch marks and clothes will be the very least of your worries.

[Guest]

samxx, do you ever consider the consequences of your actions??

Here's what I think you should do:

GO TO YOUR DOCTOR!

If you are pregnant I would recommend having an abortion as you are clearly not responsible or wise enough to raise a child.

Otherwise, prepare for the end of your life as you know it. Forget ever being able to do something spontaneous or just for you until you are in your 30's. Stretch marks and clothes will be the very least of your worries.

The doctor bit i agree with the rest i don't....

If you dont believe in an abortion dont do it you have to make the decisions but go seek professional advice their are plenty of people out there that can help you make an educated calculated decision.

If you decide to keep the baby they can provide you with details of support groups with other young mums

But having children is a life changing experience it has its ups and downs but it is what you make it!

I hope you make a decision you are comfortable with and i hope that it doesnt haunt you for the rest of your life!

goodluck

[Guest]

im only 16 but ive missed 2 periods and i had sex wiv my bf wivout protection. ive told him this and he said he'll suport me woteva decision i make. i no im pregnant, i can just tell. i dont want 2 have an abortion but im worried about giving birth. i no its early days but i need 2 no wot 2 do! i havent told my mum yet and im not gonna tell her til i no 4 certain. wot do u think i should do?

[Guest]

im only 16 but ive missed 2 periods and i had sex wiv my bf wivout protection. ive told him this and he said he'll suport me woteva decision i make. i no im pregnant, i can just tell. i dont want 2 have an abortion but im worried about giving birth. i no its early days but i need 2 no wot 2 do! i havent told my mum yet and im not gonna tell her til i no 4 certain. wot do u think i should do?

[orchid]

GIVE THE GIRL A BREAK !
I was 16 sixteen when i had my first baby then 17 when i had my second.
My advice is to tell your mum. Let her help you. You are going to need lots of advice and support. We re all sometimes irresponsible and make mistakes that doesnt mean we cant put them right. Dont try and do this alone, confide in someone. If you want to keep your baby dont let anyone put you off. Its your desicion. Dont take this lightly, this is a lifetimes desicion. Goodluck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

P.S. My eldest daughter has just passed 4 A Levels and my younger 10 GCSE S. Not all young people make bad parents !!!!!

[orchid]

GIVE THE GIRL A BREAK !
I was 16 sixteen when i had my first baby then 17 when i had my second.
My advice is to tell your mum. Let her help you. You are going to need lots of advice and support. We re all sometimes irresponsible and make mistakes that doesnt mean we cant put them right. Dont try and do this alone, confide in someone. If you want to keep your baby dont let anyone put you off. Its your desicion. Dont take this lightly, this is a lifetimes desicion. Goodluck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

P.S. My eldest daughter has just passed 4 A Levels and my younger 10 GCSE S. Not all young people make bad parents !!!!!

[MNB]

Give the girl a break bless her. She is only 16.

Sam - do what you want to do but I would tell your mum darling.

Mirella