The Colonel wrote:Polgara69 wrote:Obviously they would still be alive. But not every stepfather is going to kill their stepchildren. That is the point I am trying to make. I have answered your question, now you answer mine. Is EVERY step parent going to kill or abuse their stepchildren?
The answer to that question is irrelevant. As you admit -- those children would all still be alive if it wasn't for their selfish mothers. They placed their OWN needs above THEIR CHILD. They DID NOT CARE about the child. Had they done so they would have NOT moved someone in. I wouldn't give a damn if the mother was murdered by the stepfather. It would serve her right. No-one else to blame! But unfortunately, as with every stepfamily, the child pays the price.
Just because your stepchildren/children might be still breathing . . . isn't actually an opportunity to say "Hey! This is working!"
Let's face it:
The man you moved in could easily have belted your child, attacked him, psychologically or physically abused him, or killed him. It's fortunate that didn't occur -- but it could have -- right? You'd have no way of predicting -- would you? Then who would have been to blame? Yup. You got it. YOU!
YOU DO NOT BRING ANOTHER PERSON INTO A CHILD'S HOME!!!
YOU PLACE THEM IN DANGER!
YOU CAUSE THEM DISTRESS, ABUSE AND ANGUISH!
YOU UNDERMINE THEIR FUTURE!
It's all proven fact!!!
U still dont get it. It is not an irrelevent question. My stepson is perfectly happy with me and I havent killed him yet so I think I can safely say...yes this step family does work. How can you not see that?