abfman wrote:sugarplum wrote:Hi There,
I am looking for a sperm donor, but not having much luck finding anyone who genuinely wants to help. I am in a stable relationship with my girlfriend and we desperatley want to have a baby together. Any advice/help will be greatly appreciated. We live in the London area.
It is disappointing that there is so much bigotry here against this girl.
What does it matter where the sperm comes from - it is the end result that matters. I would certainly help a person like this having childen of my own and knowing what a joy they are.
It sometimes is a good dea to look beyond the prejudices of society.
Trouble is, and not just with this couple, but when you offer help, alot dont even have the decency to reply, even if its a thanks but no thanks.
I have offered quite a few ladies, both married, and same sex couples help, and many dont reply, those are the times when you think, why bother, but then when you do help someone, and they get back to you overjoyed with a positive result, it then makes it so much worth while.
All I have ever asked those I have helped, is regular picture updates, as their bellies grow, and I dont want to ever see the baby, or know anything about it. And all those I have helped, know they can and some have, have my help again when they want a second child.