Mom should I sunbath topless

[Guest]

I am 34 yr old mom with a 7 and 5 yr old boy.On our summer vacations i have always sunbathed topless. While talking with a friend the other day she thought this was wrong infront of my sons. I really dont see the problem with it, there going to see plenty of bare boobs on the beach anyway so seeing there moms is not going to be a problem.

[McAndrew]

They won't even notice.

The only problem comes when they start drawing 'what we did on our holidays' pictures at school.

[British guest]

My son is now 19 and I sunbathed topless in front of him (and his sisters), in the garden and on holiday, from him being small to the last time he came on holiday with us when he was 16. Perhaps because he grew up with it, he was never bothered by it. In my view children are seldom bothered by topless sunbathing (by their Mums or by anyone else) and will regard it as quite natural and normal if their parents do. As boys grow into teenage years it might be different but I think they separate what they see their mothers doing on a beach from girls their own age. So don't give up on it! The feel of the sun on your breasts and the even tan that results is too precious to give up for silly reasons. The more that go topless on our beaches, the better. I'm British, 52 and still going topless.

[fiona_babe]

Why should showing the natural human body to anyone be wrong? We've all got it, its just society f*cked up rules saying we shouldn't do it. But for what reason?

My mum bathed topless and nude in front of me.

I have bathed topless and nude on frout of my mum, dad, brother, uncle, aunt, cousins, friends, strangers.

There's nothing wrong with it.

[nomadic]

Have you breast fed your boys? If so, 1. They have already seen you topless. 2. They've already done more than see them.

[elaine555]

My daughter (20) and I have sunbathed and swam nude in our family pool in front of my son (14) and my husband. The boys are usually in the pool, and we girls lie around in the sun. We are all used to it. The boys even put lotion on us.

[fatboyslim777]

My daughter (20) and I have sunbathed and swam nude in our family pool in front of my son (14) and my husband. The boys are usually in the pool, and we girls lie around in the sun. We are all used to it. The boys even put lotion on us.

my mother never did, nor my sister, i wouldnt of been bothered at all
christ i would of loved to of been a part of your family
x

[I love being nude]

Don't see the problem as they will see plenty of other boobs on the beach any way ??

[LUCKY HUSBAND]

i sunbathed topless in front of my kids at that age you carry on,if your comfortable with it thats all that matters,why do people try to impose there prudish attitude on others.

[H. Franklin Layne]

i sunbathed topless in front of my kids at that age you carry on,if your comfortable with it thats all that matters,why do people try to impose there prudish attitude on others.

Don't ask me, I have no idea. Why do they tell people with weight problems to cover up? Why do they tell people that aren't going to be appearing in high fashion publications they are less than human?

Oh yeah, because they're F****** trolls!

[sammyg82]

[EastWest]

I'm all for it....boys should be taught that the body is completely natural thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Maybe there would be less violence against women if boys are taught at an early age that the body is completely natural.

[northlondoner]

Maybe there would be less violence against women if they didn't act and behave like common streetwalkers, and emulate and glorify prostitution in their wardrobe and makeup choices.

For possibly the first time I agree with Ivan, though violence against women is unacceptable.

Whether or not a woman sunbathes topless on a beach or in her garden is a different question altogether, and should be her own choice.

[FamilyGuy40]

If you are comfortable with being topless than keep doing it. Don't let other peoples idea of what is right change your mind. I grew up with a two sisters and a brother. We grew up swimming nude in our families pool. To this day when we have family barbecues at our parents we swim in the nude. All of us kids our now married with kids of our own. My Mom doesn't go swimming any more and my brothers wife doesn't like to be nude but the rest of us Me, my brother, two sisters, my wife, my sisters husband's, my father, and all ten children all swim in the nude. This is normal for us. There is nothing sexually about it. People need to separate nudity from sex. Pe

[mourning jew]

My wife sunbathed topless when we went on holiday and our son took his 16 year old friend. Once he had a good stare the first day afterwards he hardly seemed to notice preferring to look at the younger models on view. I enjoyed the experience more than him.