Hi to all,
I'm 37, commercial secretary and happy mother of a young man (he is 18). I've a problem with him and I need a suggestion from you, if you are patient I tell you briefly my story to let you understand better. At the age of 19 I got pregnant, I married with the father of my son but some few years we separated and divorced so I brought up my son alone since the age of 4, all turned out well and now he is a good young man and very devoted to me. The problem came out some months ago, an evening I was doing the wash and I found in the laundry basket one of my lacy thongs puckered and stiffly dry, then I found also one of my stay-up stockings with the lacy top in the same condition. The look was just the one left by sperm when it dries up on a garment, I smelled and I had no more doubt. I've always loved nice lingerie and stockings, I usually wear them and often also during the sex but at present I have no relationship so I could not explain what happened, the only man in the home is my son and a worrisome doubt came to me. A couple of days after I had a business dinner and got back home late, my son was sleeping I had a shower and was going to bed but my worrisome doubts were always strong in me, I went to laundry room to search the basket and this time I found a thong still sticky-wet with sperm. Now no more doubt was there, my son probably masturbated with my lingerie and stockings and to be sure I set a trap for him. The next night I pretended to have a dinner again and went out, when I saw all the lights off and on only the one in his room on I came in carefully, I went up the stair and neared noiselessly his room. The door was ajar, I peeped into the room and saw my son on the bad giving himself a handjob before a thong of mine and a stay-up stocking, I was disconcerted but confirmed about all my doubts. Then I realized he was coming onto my thongs and I had to go away quickly not to be caught by him, I went carefully down the stair and out again to a bar and an hour after I came home like nothing happened. Now all that is going on and I often kept finding my underwear splashed with sperm, and I don't know what doing, at present I pretend not to notice anything I'm a modern woman and can perfectly understand his strong sex-drive and the excitation he can feel in seeing nice lingerie (like most men) but I'm his mother and this troubles me! Have I to talk with him or have I to act as if nothing is happening? In talking I fear to embarrass him (and a little I too) and don't know really what the best thing is. Please help me with your suggestions, I wait then especially from other mothers or anyone with a similar experience.
Thank so much for your advices
A worried mom

