Sex with Strangers

[Liliplumzzzzz]

I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on it.Is it a good idea to meet people off the Internet (NSA sex sites) for sex? Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Are there rules? is there anything to be aware of? Is it safe? Have you ever done it? And I'd like to hear stories

Thanks

[nofali86]

I never have had a sex date over the internert before.!

[cloudnine]

HI
I'd personally be very carefull, but saying that this is something that is increasingly common in the UK. There are lots and lots of sites for people who just want to meet for fun. On the whole most people will be normal but there is always that possibility that you could meet up with someone who has different ideas. I would join a site and get to know the person and people they may know or have previously met up with. Always think safety, meet in a public place, let people know who you are meeting and remember safe sex. As much as this is boring, use your common sense.
Id join a site and get to know people and speak to people about their experiences. Also chat to the person you are meeting and lay down ground rules about what you do and dont like, will be a more pleasant experience then.
Hope I havnt sounded too much like your mum haha
Enjoy
Cloud9

[none of the above]

It's fun to meet people from the internet but I would rather poke my eyes out with rusty nails than get jiggy with 'em.

[Liliplumzzzzz]

It's fun to meet people from the internet but I would rather poke my eyes out with rusty nails than get jiggy with 'em.

Haha!

[Liliplumzzzzz]

:P HI
I'd personally be very carefull, but saying that this is something that is increasingly common in the UK. There are lots and lots of sites for people who just want to meet for fun. On the whole most people will be normal but there is always that possibility that you could meet up with someone who has different ideas. I would join a site and get to know the person and people they may know or have previously met up with. Always think safety, meet in a public place, let people know who you are meeting and remember safe sex. As much as this is boring, use your common sense.
Id join a site and get to know people and speak to people about their experiences. Also chat to the person you are meeting and lay down ground rules about what you do and dont like, will be a more pleasant experience then.
Hope I havnt sounded too much like your mum haha
Enjoy
Cloud9

Haha no you don't sound like my mom.Thank you very much for your reply.iv never done it before and I'm trying to read about it and gather as much information as I can.the site I joined..it just wam bam thank you mam! Only a couple of guys want to talk and find out what I like..Im all about safe sex A handful of men want to meet up and get to know you before you do anything..most want to wine and dine you..the rest are just animals but yes I agree with everything you said...I will defiantly lay Down the rules and get to know them first.Thanks again for your reply

[shakirah]

Yes it is very important that you know the guy your sleeping with because whatever happen to you then you will know where to find or contact the person. Always consider the safety that you will have.

[HampshireBoy]

I would follow the same "rules" as for any blind date, as Cloud says talk to them on the phone first, get to know them, and meet in a public place. If the bloke is decent he will accept meeting first with no guarantee of sex on that first meet.

I've met several women from the internet, none from "sex meet" sites, and that is bad enough with both of you worrying whether the person will be like you expect without throwing sex into the mix as well.

I would set expectation at "lets meet and get to know each other", if you get on like a house on fire and can't wait you can always change your mind. Harder if the bloke has an expectation of sex straight away and you want to slow it down.

And yes, as with all new partners, safe sex always.

[rinoa]

liliplumzz it sounds very dangerous to me

[sweatmaster]

Done it quite a few times now. Apart from the obvious safety care you must take,I have further point to make which may affect your decision. The sexual gratification was on average rather disappointing.with the odd exceptions . Most contacts are there as a last resort. Try it ,but be realistic. Enjoy.

[Dwightosi]

Few posts you ever write, but oh so explosive. You must be very experienced...very

[gwanjis54]

In a sense, camming gives one the opportunity to date virtually and see if there is a chemistry there, sexual or otherwise. so i agree with julie a bit.

for me, personally, i would prefer to actually be with someone for that first unveiling. that is so exciting. unbuttoning the blouse, unhooking the bra, slipping one's hand under a skirt and finding that first wetness. i would rather do that bit in person. sex on the cam can come (excuse the pun) later.

[Bassmanbrett]

After reading Cloudnine's response, I think I need to move to the UK!

[citygirl78]

I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on it.Is it a good idea to meet people off the Internet (NSA sex sites) for sex? Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Are there rules? is there anything to be aware of? Is it safe? Have you ever done it? And I'd like to hear stories

Thanks

Just use some common sense and be careful.

I've met loads of guys from the internet, on the whole it's no different to meeting guys in a bar. In fact, the guys I've met off the internet on the whole have been better than the guys I've met in bars.

The one thing to watch out for is that some of them are a bit mental, and it does not always show at first. My advice, wait for about 3 or 4 dates before you even think of sleeping with them.

Having said that, this one guy I met from was talking dirty to me in the royal festival hall bar on our first date and I got so 'worked up' that I went to the ladies and took my knickers off and put them in my *a**a*. When I came back I told him what I had done and he then proceeded to finger me under the table discreetly. Nobody could really tell what he was doing, but then I noticed one of the barmen had figured out what was going on when he sort of smiled at me and raised an eyebrow, and then just maintained eye contact. My date carried on fingering me but it was too much I was so freaked out, I got up and went back to the ladies again. My date followed me and waited for me outside the ladies. When I came out he quickly went into the gents toilets, came back out and pulled me in. We ended up F****** in one of the cubicles. I have never felt so dirty or like such a slut. The smell and the danger combined to make it one of the most exciting shags I've ever had.

[rescuer]

My advice to you and I am saying this from my own experience.It's best to meet up with them several time to get to know them first before jumping straight into sex with them.Simply because you don't know how things might end the first time you are with them.I tried this once and ended up in what could have been a REALLY!! bad situation if I hadn't ran out when I did.So,I am saying I won't advice anyone to meet someone on the internet for sex without getting to know them first.