Scorpio man in love with an Aries woman

[gbridges]

Hi.

I am a Scorpio man and I have been involved with a very special Aries woman for well over a year now. We have a very intimate bond and I think that we could really offer each other a lot of good things both emotionally and physically. Love and sex, in other words.

The thing is, that both of us have very strong personalities and we are both very opinionated. This is causing the most unpleasant arguments and causing us to be in real trouble and in danger of breaking up for good.

I really don’t want to loose this lady. Does anyone here have any insight about Scorpio man/ Aries woman relationships? I really need help here. I would just call her myself and try to talk things out but I’m afraid of saying something else that will just make her more disappointed with me.

I have certainly been saying all the wrong things to her lately. I have really made her upset and I thought that I was just being honest. What can I do to reassure her that I still care for her and want her?

[Rachy]

Well i think that she could have the feeling that you are picking on her. And many people don't like that. It happens that they don't want a relationship anymore. and maybe if this happens you need to let her know in some way that you still want her and feel for her. But you need to have a strategy to do this. I know some Scorpio male has some secrets for own safety or something. but keep that part out its important that you need to win her back. that you make contact with her forget everything you said to her ( like a date) and give her a book or a nice movie at your place if you know her good if not, ask her to go at her place. and let her see a movie about the situation you are in right now. like a romanic love story movie. and like a in that kind of way but don't let her know that you meant this you let her know what you are doing right now. its like in the way or spirtuality and high level understandings and with good talking and happy feelings with a bottle of wine and some candles light and nice music on. well leave the sex cause i think its better to make things in the right way before going a step futher. But this is just a example of this things what you can do. but its important to give her in a honest and good spirtual way that you really want her and this is just a period and maybe its also good to give her some trust like helping her and cooking giving her some advice for daily things when she understands it.


Peace, Rachy

[Tiara456]

Okay, first thing's first. The best way to deal with an aries and scorpio relationship is --- be honest with yourselves! That has to be the biggest 'secret'. Ask yourself why you are fighting with each other, take a little time out, relax on your own, and she'll be ready for you again. You both need space. Okay. Take some time out! Every couple fights.

Aries is not going to take any crap, so don't bother lieing! They'll see through it and that has to be the biggest, BIGGEST mistake you could make...(unless you're pampering her ego - having said that though, i have met a few ariens who are more self aware to see through that too...).

On the other hand, scorpio (while a great actor), loves to hold secrets. If you want to love your aries, you're going to have to give a bit of yourself - secrets wise- or they will love you and leave you. They don't dig secrets.

Take time out to consider your fighting, is it worth the pain? Are you both determined enough to go through with it? As you two are both strong signs, you can definitely either fight your way out of this relationship or fight your way to get through it. That is your choice. You both have to compromise and learn to live with each others traits, and it can be a great lesson to learn from, you can both learn to live with each other or you can just hit the fan.

Good luck

[gbridges]

Thanks Tiara456. That was actually very informative. You know a lot about these two signs apparently.

[Rachy]

think it will okay... so far.

[Guest]

Take time out to consider your fighting, is it worth the pain?

why do u fight or take the pain?
fighting for what?

[arlamb]

Hello! I am an Aries female, and I am dating a Scorpio male. We've been together for 2 years and we are going through the exact problem! Neither of us want to change, because neither of us feel we are in the wrong.

Coming from an Aries point of view, we are usually pretty quick to forgive and forget, so I'm not sure exactly what you said to her, but whatever it was, probably hurt her feelings pretty badly if she's still not talking to you. As mean as we can be, we are very easily hurt.

So here's my suggestion: If you want a quick fix, remember, Aries women live in a fantasy world. We love knights in shining armor and romantic scenes that end in sappy music. If you hurt her, sweep her off her feet, don't get mushy, and make sure you mean it, but do something with style that will make us blush and forget all about the problem. I tell my boyfriend constantly, if I'm upset, and I'm just pouting, you'll be able to solve the situation with a hug and a kiss and some baby talk rather than arguing or getting pissed yourself.

If you want to fix the problem in the long haul, I suggest sitting down, (once everyone has calmed down) and talking things out. Get down to the core of the problems. Usually, with Aries women, the core of the problems come down to respect. Which might seem simple to some, but respect comes in all sorts of forms to an Aries. We feel "disrespected" if you embarrass us in public, forget to call us when you're out, and even when you don't pay a bill on time. Anytime you mess up, we feel it's a personal attack on us, not because we're selfish, but because love is equal sharing to us, and we're trying our hardest to please you, so you should do the same for us.

I hope this helped, I'm sorry us Aries are crazy, but just show her you love her. Don't "give her space," because we'll take it the wrong way. As soon as yall are in a fight, fix it then, and she'll forget it about it by the next morning after the make up sex. I love you Scorpio men, never a dull moment!

[Guest]

Hello! I am an Aries female, and I am dating a Scorpio male. We've been together for 2 years and we are going through the exact problem! Neither of us want to change, because neither of us feel we are in the wrong.

Coming from an Aries point of view, we are usually pretty quick to forgive and forget, so I'm not sure exactly what you said to her, but whatever it was, probably hurt her feelings pretty badly if she's still not talking to you. As mean as we can be, we are very easily hurt.

So here's my suggestion: If you want a quick fix, remember, Aries women live in a fantasy world. We love knights in shining armor and romantic scenes that end in sappy music. If you hurt her, sweep her off her feet, don't get mushy, and make sure you mean it, but do something with style that will make us blush and forget all about the problem. I tell my boyfriend constantly, if I'm upset, and I'm just pouting, you'll be able to solve the situation with a hug and a kiss and some baby talk rather than arguing or getting pissed yourself.

If you want to fix the problem in the long haul, I suggest sitting down, (once everyone has calmed down) and talking things out. Get down to the core of the problems. Usually, with Aries women, the core of the problems come down to respect. Which might seem simple to some, but respect comes in all sorts of forms to an Aries. We feel "disrespected" if you embarrass us in public, forget to call us when you're out, and even when you don't pay a bill on time. Anytime you mess up, we feel it's a personal attack on us, not because we're selfish, but because love is equal sharing to us, and we're trying our hardest to please you, so you should do the same for us.

I hope this helped, I'm sorry us Aries are crazy, but just show her you love her. Don't "give her space," because we'll take it the wrong way. As soon as yall are in a fight, fix it then, and she'll forget it about it by the next morning after the make up sex. I love you Scorpio men, never a dull moment!

Great Post and so True! I'm an Aries female in love with a Scorpio man...did a volcano just erupt? Ha ha

[gbridges]

arlamb,

Thanks for that. I'll keep it all in mind.

Good luck with your Scorpio guy .

[ZiaAries]

Hello! I am an Aries female, and I am dating a Scorpio male. We've been together for 2 years and we are going through the exact problem! Neither of us want to change, because neither of us feel we are in the wrong.

Coming from an Aries point of view, we are usually pretty quick to forgive and forget, so I'm not sure exactly what you said to her, but whatever it was, probably hurt her feelings pretty badly if she's still not talking to you. As mean as we can be, we are very easily hurt.

So here's my suggestion: If you want a quick fix, remember, Aries women live in a fantasy world. We love knights in shining armor and romantic scenes that end in sappy music. If you hurt her, sweep her off her feet, don't get mushy, and make sure you mean it, but do something with style that will make us blush and forget all about the problem. I tell my boyfriend constantly, if I'm upset, and I'm just pouting, you'll be able to solve the situation with a hug and a kiss and some baby talk rather than arguing or getting pissed yourself.

If you want to fix the problem in the long haul, I suggest sitting down, (once everyone has calmed down) and talking things out. Get down to the core of the problems. Usually, with Aries women, the core of the problems come down to respect. Which might seem simple to some, but respect comes in all sorts of forms to an Aries. We feel "disrespected" if you embarrass us in public, forget to call us when you're out, and even when you don't pay a bill on time. Anytime you mess up, we feel it's a personal attack on us, not because we're selfish, but because love is equal sharing to us, and we're trying our hardest to please you, so you should do the same for us.

I hope this helped, I'm sorry us Aries are crazy, but just show her you love her. Don't "give her space," because we'll take it the wrong way. As soon as yall are in a fight, fix it then, and she'll forget it about it by the next morning after the make up sex. I love you Scorpio men, never a dull moment!

I've never read a more accurate post as to the way I see things. NO, I didn't write it either but I wish I knew who did.

[Guest13212]

Take it from someone who knows... The Scorpio / Aries combo was never intended to be relationship material. You dont put an eagle in a cage. It's all about the most intense animalistic $ex that two humans can possibly experience. Enjoy it & move on.

If you want a harmonious relationship find a pisces (well worth it I can assure you).

The Aries is the warrior. Once the conquest has been made, they like to look for the next battle. It's in their nature they cant help it. Scorpio is exactly the opposite. Once the prize has been one we want to posess it.


It'll never work out !

[ZiaAries]

Take it from someone who knows... The Scorpio / Aries combo was never intended to be relationship material. You dont put an eagle in a cage. It's all about the most intense animalistic $ex that two humans can possibly experience. Enjoy it & move on.

If you want a harmonious relationship find a pisces (well worth it I can assure you).

The Aries is the warrior. Once the conquest has been made, they like to look for the next battle. It's in their nature they cant help it. Scorpio is exactly the opposite. Once the prize has been one we want to posess it.

It'll never work out !

I will not dispute your post BUT. . . In the words of the 'Church Lady' of TV's "Saturday Night Live"........."Well, Aint that Convenient" and "Isn't that Special?"

[Guest]

Well, Aint that Convenient"

Of course it is. How do you get free sex after all. You ain’t gonna have sex with stupid cap woman, are you? While beautiful Aries woman have better understanding on sex + their body is much greater than cap woman…

and "Isn't that Special?"
Ooo you mean Aries. Yes they are sexy , clever , and very beautiful.

[moon in aries]

well...the problem with scorpio man is he starts out a relationship full blooded, with an unbeatable confidence...n the best part being he goes with the flow...but...the intensity that he feels with an aries woman confuses him, questions him and even scares him...mebe he thinks HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN TO ME...and then he tries to go against the natural flow..,hey u scorpio man..jus dont defy nature...u and aries female is meant to be..she is so damn sure..if she is arguing with u..its a positive sign..cuz she just moves away if she doesnt like someone..she argues only with those ppl who matter to her a lot..u gota decide jus one thing..its love or not..and once u decide..nothing else matters..good luck

[nadiaAries]

Guys! I am an Aries woman and in love with the Scrpio man for last 2 years,the same thing and i am facing the same situation .Just 3 days back we took up this stupid argument ;we were watching a movie and he sleapt thru it ;i got upset becuse i wanted him to watch this mvie with me . In the fury I swictched off the tv and wnt into the bedroom fuming ,we had a silly argument ,but still he got up and switched on the TV and watched the whole movie without talking to me and since then he did not call me ,I tried call and he responded but then same Aries ego"Why should I call" and its the 4th day today neither he has called and nor am i calling but I am dying to talk to him and hug him and nearly 20 times in day i check my phone ,I am just thinking "What must be his state of mind ,Is he also missing me or is it just ok with him " He loves me a lot and I know that but we both are very egoistic . Can any body help!