this issue is causing me some great distress, desperate for some advice!!!!
Im about to go to court to try and get a contact order to see me 2 year old boy, I live about 200miles from where my ex and son currently live and my gf has only met him the once. My current gf supports me completely in it, but i really really really need her with me when im in court, i cant do it without her....but she wont come. She doesnt like my ex because of what she has put me through over the last year and she doesnt want to see her.....this is according to her the only reason.
The last thing i want to do is upset my gf as i really do love her with all my heart, this whole situation has completely broken me and i really need her, i cant help but feel abandoned and i know i shouldnt cos i cant even begin to understand what she's going through (the fact i have a son with someone else)
I dont know what to do, i know she'll be their for me at home but i need her with me too. I know this has got to be hard for her too but i cant help but feeling like a selfish prick in thinking " why cant she see just how bad this is getting to me and forget about my ex and just be there for me "
please please please please help me!!!..........im only 22 and this whole thing has even caused me to hav heart problems, im just scared if i gain my son i lose my gf.....and i love them both so much!!