Help me, I'm 16 and I'm pregnant!

by **Guest** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 11:23 am

I know that nowadays it doesn't sound too bad, but im pregnant and im only 16. I don't know wot to do. I am 10 weeks pregnant, and im already starting to show! I want to keep my baby, but i dont want my family to be disappointed in me (I am the 'good girl' in the family, who was good at school, home, and everything else) and I know they won't talk to me for a long time, i really dont know what to do, they still think im a virgin and i got pregnant from a one night stand, where i was drunk, but i was on the pill and forgot to take them. please help.

by **lisa 21** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 7:29 pm

its not something u can keep quiet for long ur goin to hav to tell ur parents u never know they might actualy suport u through it even if they do seem disapointed at first i dont think that they will want to ignore there grandchild its totaly up to u what u do and if u want to keep it make sure u tell them that as some parents can force u in to doing something u dont want to do. dont get too stressed out as its not good for u or the baby good luck let us know what ur parents say xx

by **livehouse** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 9:16 pm

. wrote:I know that nowadays it doesn't sound too bad, but im pregnant and im only 16. I don't know wot to do. I am 10 weeks pregnant, and im already starting to show! I want to keep my baby, but i dont want my family to be disappointed in me (I am the 'good girl' in the family, who was good at school, home, and everything else) and I know they won't talk to me for a long time, i really dont know what to do, they still think im a virgin and i got pregnant from a one night stand, where i was drunk, but i was on the pill and forgot to take them. please help.

You are going to sponge of welfare! people like you make me sick.

by **livehouse** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 9:18 pm

. wrote:I know that nowadays it doesn't sound too bad, but im pregnant and im only 16. I don't know wot to do. I am 10 weeks pregnant, and im already starting to show! I want to keep my baby, but i dont want my family to be disappointed in me (I am the 'good girl' in the family, who was good at school, home, and everything else) and I know they won't talk to me for a long time, i really dont know what to do, they still think im a virgin and i got pregnant from a one night stand, where i was drunk, but i was on the pill and forgot to take them. please help.

If you cant handle your drink dont get drunk you silly bint.

But dont worry there's women as old as 30 who still think going out getting pissed, and shagging everything in sight...is Cool! Just prooves how much low self esteem you have as you probably dont have much of a personality..hence the drinking/drunkness.

by **Guest** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 9:39 pm

actually i dont go shagging everyone i see, I know the guy and he was my ex, but it was a one off thing, so is basicly a one night stand. And secondly, I have a job, thankyou very much, and im not going to sponge off welfare. Thanks for the help lisa, and livehouse, you are a very sad person if you think that degrading anybody who is in need of help, let alone someone my age, is fun, thats just plain bitchy.

by **thebigone** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 9:43 pm

Have an abortion and don't tell anyone, they don't have to know, you are of consent age for a doctor if you demonstrate that you are mentally competent. Get rid, forget and get on with your life.

by **livehouse** » Mon Oct 17, 2005 10:54 pm

. wrote:actually i dont go shagging everyone i see, I know the guy and he was my ex, but it was a one off thing, so is basicly a one night stand. And secondly, I have a job, thankyou very much, and im not going to sponge off welfare. Thanks for the help lisa, and livehouse, you are a very sad person if you think that degrading anybody who is in need of help, let alone someone my age, is fun, thats just plain bitchy.

You will end up with welfare! being supported by the government. I doubt very much your job will be enough to manage yourself and a baby. What kinda job do you have at 16 that can do that? you're not even old enough to drive.

I'm not berating people your age! I know girls your age and younger who are a lot more mature than you thats for sure, and are more mature than most 20 something women.

The only person i'm degrading is you because time and time again i hear about girls your age getting drunk and getting pregnant. It's like your modus operandi. And more often than not you're kind are usually north of watford.

by **xXx.Lesley.xXx** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 1:55 am

livehouse what is your problem? How about not looking at these forums if you gonna have an attitude with every poster?

And as for you thebigone, do you think that it's gonna be as simple as going gettin rid and forgetting? No!!!

Guest, I know it will be hard for you but no matter what they are your parents and will love you regardles. The longer you leave it the harder it will be. You are carrying their grandchild, I can't see them deserting you.

I was pregnant with my 1st child when I was 16. I am now 21 and he is brilliant! I am 39 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. It is hard work, I'm not denying that, but it is worth it.

by **thebigone** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 11:07 am

xXx.Lesley.xXx wrote:And as for you thebigone, do you think that it's gonna be as simple as going gettin rid and forgetting? No!!!

She's only 10 weeks, it's a simple vaccuum suction and takes about 10 minutes. She is too young to have a child, she should finish school, get a proper job, get some security behind her, get married THEN think about having a child. Livehouse is right, kids having kids and expecting hard working tax payers like me to support them are spongers. Expecting her parents to support her just because she is their daughter is a bit rich, she got herself into this mess she should get herself out.

by **xjoannex** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 12:10 pm

I think you shouldn't have abortion tell your parents they will be mad at first but they will surport you dont listen to the other two, lesley's right theres people out there who carnt have kids and theres people out there who kill there baby's dont do the same your baby is growing inside you dont kill it bring it up you'll be a great mummy it doesnt matter what age you are you'll be a good mum just like people who are 30 who have kids if you need to talk send me a private message but please dont kill your baby!

by **TipsyDipsy** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 2:57 pm

livehouse wrote:
. wrote:I know that nowadays it doesn't sound too bad, but im pregnant and im only 16. I don't know wot to do. I am 10 weeks pregnant, and im already starting to show! I want to keep my baby, but i dont want my family to be disappointed in me (I am the 'good girl' in the family, who was good at school, home, and everything else) and I know they won't talk to me for a long time, i really dont know what to do, they still think im a virgin and i got pregnant from a one night stand, where i was drunk, but i was on the pill and forgot to take them. please help.

You are going to sponge of welfare! people like you make me sick.

People like you make me feel sick. I've just come out of a topic where you were talking about sleeping with 14 yr old girls. So who the hell are you to talk about morals and being irrisponsible. :twisted:

by **The-Prophet** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 2:58 pm

hey tipsy i didn't notice that was the same person, that is a little strange really isn't it.

by **TipsyDipsy** » Tue Oct 18, 2005 2:58 pm

TipsyDipsy wrote:
livehouse wrote:
. wrote:I know that nowadays it doesn't sound too bad, but im pregnant and im only 16. I don't know wot to do. I am 10 weeks pregnant, and im already starting to show! I want to keep my baby, but i dont want my family to be disappointed in me (I am the 'good girl' in the family, who was good at school, home, and everything else) and I know they won't talk to me for a long time, i really dont know what to do, they still think im a virgin and i got pregnant from a one night stand, where i was drunk, but i was on the pill and forgot to take them. please help.

You are going to sponge of welfare! people like you make me sick.

People like you make me feel sick. I've just come out of a topic where you were talking about sleeping with 14 yr old girls. So who the hell are you to preach about the mistakes of young girls and being irresponsible.

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