Ivan Diederhoff wrote:Guest wrote:Ivan Diederhoff wrote:zaphod wrote:I really dont understand why guys are so wussy about this.
I consider it quite an honour to be offered sex by an unprotected lady, or asked to help by Artificial Insemination. It's the biggest compliment a man can be given.
For gods sake guys, get out there and get the job done.
Some of us can have unprotected sex without worrying about whether or not some sniveling brat shows up some day claiming you as their Dad, and the woman that wanted a child without a family environment plans didn't work out, she gets bitter and ruins your life! It takes a family to raise a stable and decent person from a child. Most men don't want damaged goods or a woman heavily laden with baggage.
That's not always true, firstly there are some mothers who are happy to have their exes out of their lives.
I'm sure, so they can repeat the process
There are also women who have much better qualifications than their exes such as a Degree or Masters. So they can go out and get better jobs because they are more skilled. Some mothers who are more talented than their exes and can do absolutely anything they wish with work wise.
Not anything....the more successful a woman is, and the higher the position she holds, the less likely they are to have children. Wanting a career is fine, but you can't put the child first then and go for the gold...it doesn't work, so it's the child that ends up paying the dues of the mother.
So there is no reason for revenge when they are more mature, grounded and talented. Thirdly, there are men who are attracted to intelligent, talented "mothers" who are never short of offers
I guess haggling over the price for the session trying to get a higher amount is looking out for the kid!
, so it's really not all that bad. Maybe for the men who missed out on being real fathers, but then nobody is thinking about them anymore, because the children come first.
I'm sure if the women had all the talent and intelligence and God's gift of wisdom in perception, they would be better at assessing potential mates. Since we know that isn't true, and the guys who have been lied to and deceived have the courts hounding their every step, the women aren't as up on things as you think. How can they assess a man as husband and father material when the female has her ankles behind her ears being his slut in the sack? Surely that is putting the child first!!!
Am trying to get across that there are a lot of intelligent mothers as opposed to this negative stereotype you have of mothers. There are clever women who can hold down decent jobs, they have degrees, masters, PHD's and support their families when the fathers couldn't keep up, left or disappeared. They support their children through hard work, talent and intelligence and all credit to them. Can't knock them for that.