Jin wrote:To the guest who started this thread, first let me say that I am sorry about the dilemma you find yourself in. It's a very hard choice to make and unfortunatly you can't make that choice by asking others on a public forum what they think you should do as different people have completely different views on this matter. The only person who can decide what is best for you is you. You're the one who will have to live with the consequences of your choice in years to come. My advise to you would be to sit down and weigh up the pros and cons of having a baby in your life right now. Then seek advise from a doctor or councillor. Also if you can, talk to your family and friends for support in which ever choice you decide to make. Please don't go through this alone.
I'm sorry I can't tell you what to do, I wish I could but I hope I've helped a little, and I'm sure that whatever you decide to do will be the best thing for you in the long run.
Good luck and take care. x
Jin is correct. "guest who started this thread" As a guy I probably hold no sway in this arguement, but I'll lay my 2cents down anyway. As Jin stated "I am truly sorry as well your BF was a dink and left you in such a tenuous position.
I am a firm believer that pro-choice is the way to go. You will "know" what is the right decision for YOU. When you decide to talk about it with whomever (family, trusted friend or a councillor) you will take their advice, filter out what works for you and dispense with the rest.
But whatever you do, PLEASE do N O T let this forum be the arbiter of a decision that has such important consequences.
"Guest that started this thread", you DO have choices. You DO have options, and you alone can make them.
I wish you the love and support you neeed to get through this.