I am glad that i find that forum!
I have trought before that i am very rare person because i have very strong need to feel my limits in real... Real limits like unbreakable steel restraints, cuffs, shackles can do.
To me wearing steel restraints is same like keep ring in finger some another, "normal" person. That how i show my loving to person who locked me in.
I live over 3 years in relationship where i am every moment restrained/chained somehow, we have own rules in life: he tread and handling me like maximum security prisoner, with respect but same time he is my tender lover who take care all my needs.
When we started our relationship we make very clear rules: If i am not somekind restrained or secured that relation is over.
We living "normal" life... we worked together in our homeoffice, we going outdoors and shopping together... we have social life too with "normal" peoples, some of they understant our lifestyle very good... some dont...
In normally i wear long skirts all time, summer and winter, those skirts hide well my legirons and waist/crotchchain (crotchchain keeps hobblechain up to ground), we dont have any reason to shock peoples.
To neighbours i was "that strange woman in long skirts"
Our rules says also that my hands need to be restrained when i am not secured in chains or behind locks, so i have nice coats and jackets who sidepocket can go handcuff chain in my waistchain trought to pocket inside, that way i can keep my cuffed hand in pockets and anyone cant notice that. We have many variations restraint me.
I sleeping in the chains, take shower in chained... in every moments and i love it!
I have another things too how i show my loving, i wear tighlacing corset who can only he take off and steel collar (SM-Factory) , that how i feel her love in every breathe and swallows...
heh... i write allmost novel (in my bad english), but i am very happy that i find peoples (i hope some women too) who understand me even least...
Niceinmate , Captive Girl