I'm struggling with a long distanced relationship, were always fighting like children.
Were moving in together soon, which is nice.
But the thing is lately, i've seen a side to him which i've never seen before.. you see.
I thought he was different to other men, he 'cares,loves,reassures' he's built my confidence,
and had really been so lovely.. its unmistakable.. but..
He keeps asking me for.. 'photos' and he said to me ,if i earn 'points' can i get a certain photo,
so i said 'ok' to relieve the arguing so i woke up to loads of sweet texts, him saying things
he'd usually say to me, as to which he loves me and he'd write little poems for me, but adding
in 'how many points have i got now' the thing is if i try talking to him about anything, it'll
turn into an argument and sometimes its me who says sorry.
I love him, but he's reminding me of these more immature guys i used to date the type:
''your fit lets have a dirty picture'' And its getting to me, he keeps asking and hinting
for a photo and i dont know how to respond. I've sent him photos before or me but he
always wants more.. i feel like a piece of meet to him.
When we've argued in the past we'd argue for days until i couldnt bare it anymore, i'd break it off.
Suddenly he'd be appologetic and really sweet towards me and he'd pull me in again, then when some
time passed he'd start faulting me '' im disapointed with you '' if i say im doing something, he doesnt
believe me, he doesnt trust me he has no faith in me what so ever, i cant have male friends.
He deletes numbers off my phone.. if i dont text him back after five minutes he asks me what im upto,
and wont leave me alone until i say.
I really dont want to leave him because he can make me happy, but its getting far too worse and i dont know what to do, and all of the above is just scratching the service, you could probably imagine the other controlling things.
What should i do?