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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby JennyBr » Sat Jul 16, 2011 12:49 am

Chris56 wrote:ksaThere was the unofficial punishment at School - like a "bat" (I believe Americans call it a "paddle") -
used for Sports Class "crimes" - such as forgetting Sports Kit. Boys of 11 years (and some girls - i assume) - Do forget Sports kit! I still had to bend over in the Changing room. Personally - I have no memory of any of this being put in a punishment book.


Hi Chris,

A lot of us girls "forgot" sports kit, especially in Winter. The usual punishment was two or three whacks with the slipper (plimsoll) a having to spend the lesson waiting in a nice warm changing room :wink: The "punishment" for remembering sports kit was having to spend the lesson running cross-country or standing around on a hockey pitch freezing our tits off. As you may guess, some days there was quite a queue for the slipper. :wink:
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby amy31 » Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:50 pm

think corporal punishment should be bought back kids no respect these days when i was at school we were scared of punishment so much in fact that myself and another girl wet our pants
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Rickie » Mon Nov 21, 2011 11:54 am

Amy

I quite agree with you. Teenage "students" hang around outside the School gates near here in School hours, smoking and dropping litter. They have no respect for other people or their property. They do not seem to receive any discipline these days.
Did you receive any corporate punishment or was the mere threat enough to make you behave?

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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Rebecca4 » Mon May 07, 2012 4:24 pm

I received the slipper twice at School in about 1982.

The first time I was caught chatting after being told to be quiet. I had to go out in front of the class, bend over and touch my toes. I felt the draught as my skirt was lifted and received three whacks with a gym shoe. The english mistress was young and athletic and gave me some hard whacks which stung for about an hour.

The second time was more symbolic than a serious punishment. A student teacher was in charge and discipline was not her strongest point. Most of us girls acted up and the din was heard by our head of year. We all had to line up and form a queue and bend over for one whack each. It didn't really hurt like my first slippering but one or two girls who had never been slippered before were upset - more at the embarrassment at having to bend over than anything else.
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby bozboy » Mon May 14, 2012 2:30 am

Trudi62 wrote:Following on from the other thread regarding corporal punishment and orgasms, I thought I'd ask, how many others here did actually receive corporal punishment at school, and do you think it did you any harm/good?
I myself was caned on two occasions, for smoking and truancy, I would be fascinated to here of others experiences of the cane at school.

was dished very liberally and I'm not sure it was even legal then.
Seeing the first two lads being made an example of at our new school age nine made me vow I'd never get it.I did and the 'slipper' and huge sole of a plimsol.
Nothing erotic about it from our side,we're talking border line assault, I've seen blood drawn.
Nothing wrong with a rap on the knuckles but to be honest it didn't make us behave it just made us more ruthless people.
Some teacher would even hit you or throw stuff. How the F*** they got away with it I'll never know,this was mid 80's.
Funny story though,I remember my mate swore on the rugby pitch and the ref took his boot off,made him touch his toes,walloped him with it then sent him off!
Would love to see that happen in the prem :)
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby JennyBr » Thu Jun 28, 2012 2:44 pm

I got the slipper at school several times and the cane eight times. None of my punishments could be called brutal - they just stung for a while.

If it could be guaranteed that it would only be used fairly, for both boys and girls, as it was at my school, I wouldn't have any objection to its being brought back.
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Proffessional reminiscenses

Postby Disciplinarian » Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:59 pm

For those that may be interested I was a headmistress,now retired,at a co-ed school from 1965 until early retirement in 1980

During that period corporal punishment was widely used in all schools where on occasion I had to administer it myself.It was never a pleasant duty but at the time an essential one - it was expected by parents,accepted socially and providing that it was applied reasonably,with consideration and was properly administered in accordance with the rules laid out in the goverment approved school CP policies,then corporal punishment had its place.

I used it sparingly but used it well when I had too.For this a caning had to be made a nasty experience if it was to work at all - one or two mildly stinging taps I considered as pointless if it meant that a few weeks later a proper caning was in order all because a pupil had got the wrong impression in the first place.

However,I am willing to discuss ny experiences with anyone but please keep your questions sensible.

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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Grimupnorth » Wed Jan 23, 2013 4:36 pm

After being smacked a lot growing up, I don't smack my own children, nor would I like to think of this happening to them at school. Like most, who went to school in the 70s, I was slippered on a number of occasions. I went to an all girls school and just about everyone had a dose of it at one time or another. Forgetting P.E. Kit, running in the corridor, being cheeky to teachers; all led to the slipper. Being slippered wasn't really painful, just left you with a hot tingling bottom for a while; which, in a strange kind of way, sometimes felt quite nice. A cane was reserved for really serious offences like smoking, swearing and skipping school. I got it across my nickers on four occasions - once in the fourth year, as it was then, and three times in the 5th year - at the age of 15, 16 it was as embarrassing as it was extremely painful ..you would always be sitting gingerly for a couple of days after - not to mention if you got whacked again at home.
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Citybabe » Thu Jan 24, 2013 1:54 pm

I think you raise a number of interetsing points grimupnorth. Firstly I tihnk the embarassment factor is as much of a deterent as the pain itself when it comes to corporal punishment, particualrly where it's carried out in front of the class.
The other point is the enjoyment factor, however I was mainly thinking from the teachers point of view. In our school it was a constant contest as to how short you could make your skirt, I'm not trying to generalise but I'm sure there are male teachers out there who would enjoy a short skirted 16 year old bending over in front of him for a spanking! It would worry me as to whether or not it would be done for the correct reasons! Not to mention the potential enjoyment for the girl of receiving a spanking, but that's another topic! lol :oops:
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Guest » Tue Feb 05, 2013 2:28 pm

Headmistress i have a few questions-1)Were you ever aware that although it is quite humiliating to receive a caning it is doubly humiliating for, say, a 16 year old boy to be told to bend over and have his bottom thrashed with a cane by a woman teacher(and I am speaking from painful personal experience!) 2)were the canings at your school carried out in private or did they take place in class or school assembly where they could be witnessed by other pupils? 3)Did all teachers at your school have access to and use of the cane(s)? 4)Would you be in favour of reintroducing caning into schools today?
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby Guest » Tue Feb 05, 2013 2:36 pm

Citybabe-re my point above do you think that maybe a few female teachers faced with a 16 year old boy's bottom and a cane(not just a slipper for girls)might have taken advantage of the situation presented to them?
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby disciplinarian » Tue May 07, 2013 5:58 pm

Guest wrote:Headmistress i have a few questions-1)Were you ever aware that although it is quite humiliating to receive a caning it is doubly humiliating for, say, a 16 year old boy to be told to bend over and have his bottom thrashed with a cane by a woman teacher(and I am speaking from painful personal experience!) 2)were the canings at your school carried out in private or did they take place in class or school assembly where they could be witnessed by other pupils? 3)Did all teachers at your school have access to and use of the cane(s)? 4)Would you be in favour of reintroducing caning into schools today?


I do appologise sincerely for the late response but I have been away attending family buisiness concerns - very complicated, very depressing !

Yes I can fully understand how humiliated a 16 year old boy might might well be when directed to bend over ( a chair in my case) for a caning and it was very rarely that I caned a 16 yre old boy, or girl - at that age I would have considered a caning as ineffective and would therefore seek to deal with the issue in a more assuming adult manner - whilst a sound caning would normaly have left the desired impression on 12 to 14 year olds in particular, and in doing so changed their behaviour patterns considerably, I felt that it was in both their interest and mine to make a caning really count, it needed to hurt,and really hurt, if it was to serve any meaningfull purpose at all.

To the second part of your question, yes, I only ever caned in private but did on occasion have either a parent or school matron present ( this would be because there may have been uncertainty as to whether a particular pupil could whithstand a hard caning and where he/she would need to be monitored at the end of each stroke ) - I considered a caning, and especially six strokes, as more than enough punishment for any pupil without having to put them under more duress by caning them in front of the entire school, although there was nothing in the school's CP policy stating that I couldn't.

Only myself was authorised to cane but form teachers were permitted to use the slipper for mid level infractions - anything beyond that and they were sent to me.

There's a vast difference now between childrens attitudes and advancements today than when I was at school and therefore not only would they rebel at even the prospect of being caned, they would regard it as rather archaic and well out of tune with modern day child upbringing and schooling - in short, the cane today just would not work.

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Postby fempower » Fri May 10, 2013 1:41 am

Yes I can fully understand how humiliated a 16 year old boy might might well be when directed to bend over whilst a sound caning would normaly have left the desired impression on 12 to 14 year olds in particular, and in doing so changed their behaviour patterns considerably, I felt that it was in both their interest and mine to make a caning really count, it needed to hurt,and really hurt, if it was to serve any meaningfull purpose at all.
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Thank you,its a privilege to hear from the 'other side',so to speak,as a recipient of something similar in my time,(in front of a mixed class,the humiliation was the worst part and the fact that the teacher was a young female made it even more embarrassing and memorable.

Even though it was a common deterrant, i'm wondering if you got some feeling of power, having the authority to use the 'nuclear' option of restoring proper behaviour,with your cane and what may I ask were the reactions of the boys both before and after you had corrected them,(ps, I assume fully clothed during the discipline?
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Re: corporal punishment at school

Postby disciplinarian » Fri May 10, 2013 10:30 am

Fempower asked:

"Even though it was a common deterrant, i'm wondering if you got some feeling of power, having the authority to use the 'nuclear' option of restoring proper behaviour,with your cane and what may I ask were the reactions of the boys both before and after you had corrected them,(ps, I assume fully clothed during the discipline?"

Well certainly a feeling of superiority I suppose, but not the kind where you would stomp about in jack booots and wear a big hat, all I ever aimed to do was to correct intollerable behaviour with a measure of controlled and acute pain and no more than that.

There is of course always a certain ammount of satisfaction derived from any job well done and, in it's own way I would suppose, this would apply to a caning - administered effectively and safely and having left the right impression, so not so much a feeling of power, more a feeling of job satisfaction - a properly executed caning, a properly punished pupil.

The reactions to a caning is as you would expect, jerking up after a stroke, yelping, crying, but not always where some of the tougher boys in particular could take six of the best with the minum of movement and apart fron sudden intakes of breath, in total silence - but they couldn't always hide the hint of a few blossoming tears - a caning hurts and even a senior boy will feel it.

With regards to clothing it was made abundantly clear in the school's CP policies that we could only punish both boys and girls "Over a clothed seat" which made sense - a proper caning was painfull enough as it was, so why add to the ordeal by humiliating the recipient ? - and apart from which, and inspite of having punished my own children on the bare bottom occasionally, I don't think that I could have ever punished a senior pupil in the same way without having felt totaly embarassed myself - there were bounderies that I just was not prepared to cross - but having said that, was there ever any need ? - if you cane hard enough it will be felt through the thickest of trousers and skirts anyway, so that is what I set out to do, nothing brutal, just hard enough to correct.

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