groin kick

[manxkitti]

When I was very young, I watched a man that was supposed to love her, beat the s*** out of her in front on me. Then when I was 14, saw her get punched in the face (which resulted in 2 black eyes and a broken nose) for telling a man no to sex. This has had a profound effect on me as an adult. Luckily, I've never had a man hit me, but that fear is there.

So I have seen violance and have seen what the after effect are.

I can never kick a man in the balls, probably not even in self defense. How a woman can even think it's funny is beyond me. After all of I have seen, I have no ill feelings toward men because I know most men are good people and don't deserve it.

Peace

[Alysse]

When I was very young, I watched a man that was supposed to love her, beat the s*** out of her in front on me. Then when I was 14, saw her get punched in the face (which resulted in 2 black eyes and a broken nose) for telling a man no to sex. This has had a profound effect on me as an adult. Luckily, I've never had a man hit me, but that fear is there.

So I have seen violance and have seen what the after effect are.

I can never kick a man in the balls, probably not even in self defense. How a woman can even think it's funny is beyond me. After all of I have seen, I have no ill feelings toward men because I know most men are good people and don't deserve it.

Peace

Another reason you're my beautiful sis. Ain't we supposed to inherit the earth?

I can say, it would be really, really tough for me to do (kick a man thusly). I reserve my disgust for those who act superior to men. Yet there's one equal or worse, those women who twice (or more) kick a man in his groin. Can you imagine the utter hatred, the lack of humanity?? Twice. Move his unflexed hand and again hurt him? Or kick in/around his hand?

I've stopped directly talking to who I'll jokingly call the "Peacemaker" (Kellie) due to her instant replies to get the last word (a unbalanced mind there) and she simply isn't worth the lack of progress. I can face anybody, but third person is best for her because her thoughts can be collectively put with "that group" that espouses harming men, and who have such a small view of the world from within their minds, they have no idea about bountiful lives.

manxkitti has got you covered! I apologize to men for not being on here more often.

GREAT BIG POINT. Please read.
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Boys need to be taught, and men need to know, that emotional courage is courage, and that courage and empathy are the real strengths in life.

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Empathy doesn't come automatically due to being female, and it's very sad to see women lose empathy for men's most precious parts when injured, or be actually able to injure them and celebrate this later.

I liken the sadness loss of what should be natural for women (empathy) to men giving up their courage due to (overwhelming societal) odds against them being supported in a gender altercation. Seeing a weak guy takes some getting used to. I've never been 100% successful at going straight to respect when a man gives in to a bad woman.

If you listen to people discuss weaknesses it's so stupid! The very thought men are automatically weaker is the dumbest thing under the sun. The fact they carry substantial risks by having testicles and must deal with every manner of constant reminders and threats of a ruined life is...then their burden is not a subject for taunting or teasing. Were it not sexual, the whole subject wouldn't be here.

Nor would men kicking ovaries, ruining baby factories, and ending sexual pleasure of women be much fun - but this could happen in a bad society. It's all so dumb. As a women if a man or woman chooses to surprise me then I could be blinded for life, for example. What is hard about hurting someone? It's awful.

I WILL COME ON HERE ONCE MORE SOON to discuss programming of boys and life from their perspective. Until then, this is the best possible explanation I can give as a woman, explained to me from the man who tells me with strength, courage and honesty. He is ALL man and my treasure. Never have I felt so loved and treasured by this real man of 24 years. I have good parts, he has good parts. He has more if I start to add them up, for sure - but he needs me to activate them and so we can enjoy our life together. What's the point of being special (or stupidly "superior") if you can share life with someone who truly appreciates you? To live knowing you counted to someone matters the most.

Here it is unvarnished. WOMEN, PLEASE, ESPECIALLY, read what is feels like to a man to be kicked in his groin by a female (or male):

Surprise and incredible fear. Pain is coming. If he's not mad enough at the person, then he's been taken advantage of because he's heading toward helplessness. If he was enraged or he didn't trust the person, then although he might lose badly, he also has a chance to survive. Survival can occur in the first 5-10 seconds approximately. If he acts immediately he'll tear off ears, smash heads against a walls, and destroy a baby factory to equalize. He's is about to go into a state EXACTLY AS HELPLESS AS A FULL-ON RA*PE. He can't defend himself any longer. He doesn't know if he'll return to functioning. Fear, fear, fear, pain, sadness, fear. He doesn't know when the pain will end. Helplessness. After recovery of some degree, he now has to try resolve emotional issues, where many will say he deserved it. The school at large may say it's not a big deal to be forcefully raped in public with unconcerned witnesses. He has to live under the conditions of thinking he must have deserved it - since it happened. For no other reason than the physical effect happened, and everyone in today's media-greed society says he deserved it and it's funny. The rest of his life he has to (provided ONLY emotional damage occured) answer questions to himself, observe the lack of respect for his never-ending, daily feelings of helplessness. His memory of sexual torture and humilation. His physical pain. The threatening hand gesture meant "only as a joke." All that harm can happen in a thousand instances, and this one in particular I read about was a male teen who thought making fun of a Japanese female's speech was a way to connect with her.

For anyone to play peacemaker but want the above scenario...for anyone to claim superiority and not be moved to know beyond a doubt that threatening or actually harming men's privates is deeply wrong and does not lead to respect but hatred...
is not worth a damn herself.

Men:
Do yourself a kind favor and stay as light-hearted as possible when you take a woman to a movie, and she seems to get a little too carried away about a man hurt in his groin. She might be oblivious to your feelings. If you feel she's worth it, mention nicely your feelings and see if she can accomodate you. If not remember you were the strong one to use your emotional empathy and courage. You tried to make a better situation, fighting your programming (violence as armor in a world boys are taught to see as threatening) and you gave her a chance to improve. The choice to improve/find her better self is hers after that.


manxkitti, I love you! I hope you don't mind so many words to everyone (at large), while I stand next to you! You do warm my spirit and encourage me that I'm not fighting alone for peace, and for sweet (I like 'em rugged...and sweet) men everywhere.

Alysse

[Alysse]

I was working with a woman, in a small retail store. We would often work nights, various schedules together, once we were behind one of the counters and I accidentally bumped her <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'><A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'><A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'>breast</A></A></A> with my elbow. She stepped towards me, driving her knee up towards my groin. She stopped short of the target, but gave me a bit of a scare. I didn’t see her knee coming.

I was really shocked that she did this. At the very moment that I bumped her <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'><A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'><A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257' target='_blank'>breast</A></A></A>, I said excuse me. I have thought, what if she had miscalculated and her knee crashed into my groin? What if I had seen her knee coming, and blocked her or pushed her away violently. Something really stupid could’ve happened. That’s what I always thought.

I always thought that her reaction was very strange. Maybe however, she was making a statement, a firm statement that she was willing and ready to attack my balls if I did something inappropriate. I never really discussed that incident with her. At that time, I kind of ignored what she did. Maybe two or three months later, in a conversation, she made the point of telling me that men are much more sensitive between the legs than us women.

You know, here was this attractive and desirable woman, working alone with a big strong guy, and I think that maybe, it was her own way of telling me – don’t try to take advantage of me.

I can't speculate why she would like you to be scared around her. Sick woman I think, with looks having nothing to do with it. I sympathize with your akward working relationship thereafter. How much longer did you have to work with her? DId you hate her, or ever fully trust her?

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No, I don’t think I ever became afraid of the woman from the store. Her threat was just a one time thing that I never dwelt on.

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I think very few men though would admit to fearing a woman – especially to her face. We’re supposed to be the tough guys!

I don’t think I am afraid of women, but I do think it is unquestionable, that a man’s testicles are extremely vulnerable.

No one should be afraid of anyone else, or made to feel afraid. I must say you handled this differently than my husband would have.

He said he would have been very uncomfortable if he let the threat go, being reminded constant;y she cared little for him. He'd have to confront in some manner. E.g, the dumb (but only choice sometimes), "Sure, and I'll kill you" to the alternative of right away breaking her (he''s geared more this way) and telling the cops what she tried to do. In other words, as my husband put it, she would have "groped and threatened" him. She was in no danger, yet she gratuitously helped herself to him, despite not contacting his groin. For instance, take men groping females. There's often no physical pain. Those idiots think they are somehow sensual (sick). It's the emotional pain of not having sanctity over one's own body.

I had to think a little while whether my husband's reaction would be too harsh, since I was seeing this his way. After all, your female co-worker did pull up short, meaning she did not hurt you. In her mind she was just balancing things out, saying in effect I'm not a bad person but I can be. Yet she demonstrated she cares none for your feelings, and none for your balls if her breast is brushed in passing again. I never ended up siding with her in my mind.

That's the power of threats, they are so strong and awful. Danger is there for all of us. What we need to do is share a comittment with each other we'd never hurt them, usually indirectly by our response to a groin injury, since there eems to be one occurring often enough to state our position.

But to actually (for example) a man fake a punch to woman's face and say perhaps, "Then I'll r**** you" (to bring in the same aspect of a man with a groin injury) is taking too many priveleges with sexual overtones on another's body.

I commend you for keeping yourself safe, Mr. Ericson.

But please don't be afraid, ever. She had no right to do that, and it could have ended badly with a different man. I do know this for sure, and many men are not aware of this, we pretty much know what we can get away with. A woman knows which men will allow certain things. Sounds kind of cruel, but it's a survival mechanism, I believe. Where women get in trouble is stupidly pushing a man to the brink because their egos override this instinct. Some women want to win a fight so badly they trap him (in his mind) in bascially do or die situations.

Best wishes,
Alysse

[manxkitti]

Thank you Alysse. I appreciate your support. One would think with what I have seen, that I would hate men - but don't. As an adul, and logically, I know there are more good men than bad, but I do still have irrational fears. But try really hard not to let that fear control me. And I do very well in that regard.

And to Mr.Ericson, please don't let any woman threaten you in any way. There are women like Alysse and I that love and respect men.

Peace to all

[buckhead1111]

Ok considering I dont have that part Im in no position to say what it feels like to be kicked in the balls. Im sure it does not feel great but I do have a question. Why is it men seem to become so upset when hearing or seeing a fellow male get kicked in the groin by a women yet I have seen men hit other men there quite often. To make it worse more times than not the guy who kicks the other guy will laugh at doing it. It seems to me men dont like the idea of women having that power. And to the person who said kicking a girl there hurts just as much..? Do you have that part? Because you obviously are making that fact up. Women who play soccer dont cry like a baby like men do when they get kicked or when the ball hits them there.

I am glad that someone else agrees with me that guys should not be making comments about parts they do not have. I have been hit in the groin many times by a soccer ball, and a softball. Yes I did feel something but was ok in less then a minute or so. Even when hit with a bat once I fell down but was able to continue playing softball is less then three or four minutes. However a hockey stick right between the slit is another story. But that has never happen to me. After being hit with the softball my husband said to me, "Had that happened to men without wearing a cup, I would be down for the count and crawling around.

Boys will laugh when another guy gets hit in the balls, because they are often happy it did not happen to him. When two boys are play fighting, or having a towel fight, they know that a hit will cause extreme pain for five or so minutes, end the play fight, then probably the poor guy will be ok by the next day.

Nature gave us females much protection in our groin, in that our privates are very low and not really exposed. Nature did the opposite with males. However the weakness of the male groin is the great equalizer of the sexes, as males are stronger and run faster. The fact that some men fear females is a good thing in that most crimes are commited by men against women, not the other way around. And the next time you see a male rolling on the ground after being hit in the groin, you can tell your daughter what is happening, don't laugh, just tell her the power that she has and not to abuse this power over the opposite sex.

FYI most crimes are male on male, not male on female. look it up

[Mac]

When I was very young, I watched a man that was supposed to love her, beat the s*** out of her in front on me. Then when I was 14, saw her get punched in the face (which resulted in 2 black eyes and a broken nose) for telling a man no to sex. This has had a profound effect on me as an adult. Luckily, I've never had a man hit me, but that fear is there.

So I have seen violance and have seen what the after effect are.

I can never kick a man in the balls, probably not even in self defense. How a woman can even think it's funny is beyond me. After all of I have seen, I have no ill feelings toward men because I know most men are good people and don't deserve it.

Peace

You would be justified in doing it if he was trying to mollest, r@pe or otherwise hurt you, but only then.

[manxkitti]

When I was very young, I watched a man that was supposed to love her, beat the s*** out of her in front on me. Then when I was 14, saw her get punched in the face (which resulted in 2 black eyes and a broken nose) for telling a man no to sex. This has had a profound effect on me as an adult. Luckily, I've never had a man hit me, but that fear is there.

So I have seen violance and have seen what the after effect are.

I can never kick a man in the balls, probably not even in self defense. How a woman can even think it's funny is beyond me. After all of I have seen, I have no ill feelings toward men because I know most men are good people and don't deserve it.

Peace

You would be justified in doing it if he was trying to mollest, r@pe or otherwise hurt you, but only then.

And believe me, there is more to that story that I left out.

[Guest]

Wow, Karen. You're posts are so insightul. And what considerable personal experience yo have to back it all up. What a harrowing ordeal you went through on the soccer field. Good thing your ovaries weren't dangling between your legs!

[Ciaran]

I have read this topic and some similar discussions on the web.
The important missing point here is that people are not exposed to scenes where women are kicked in the groin in the media.

It is proven that female groin is sensitive to strikes and can be an effective target to be used against female attackers .I personally didn’t know this fact until two years ago when I saw some real clips of females being kicked there ; I was amazed to see that few people are aware of this sensitivity.

I believe today’s society needs men to be able to put women in their places if necessary ; I would teach my son to defend himself against female bullies especially using groin kicks.

[Roland H Ericson]

This past weekend I stopped at a rest area, and watched a high school aged boy play fighting with his sister – well I am assuming it was a family travelling together. His sister was getting the best of him in this play fight. She was keeping him so busy defending his groin that he didn’t lay a hand on her; while she was slapping him on the face repeatedly. She kept faking kicks at his balls keeping him at a distance from her and requiring him to use a hand to defend his groin.

Sure, neither of them were really trying to hurt each other, but she was showing him something I think. Although I would disagree with those who say a man’s testicles make him inferior to a woman, I think it’s clear that women can exploit our vulnerability.

[Alysse]

This past weekend I stopped at a rest area, and watched a high school aged boy play fighting with his sister – well I am assuming it was a family travelling together. His sister was getting the best of him in this play fight. She was keeping him so busy defending his groin that he didn’t lay a hand on her; while she was slapping him on the face repeatedly. She kept faking kicks at his balls keeping him at a distance from her and requiring him to use a hand to defend his groin.

Sure, neither of them were really trying to hurt each other, but she was showing him something I think. Although I would disagree with those who say a man’s testicles make him inferior to a woman, I think it’s clear that women can exploit our vulnerability.

I think it's sickening that is an acceptable option between family members. The media has made it acceptable to do the unthinkable and feel no remorse if your a common female. The problem I see is men ALWAYS play along, and NEVER make that an absolute no-no. Extreme disrepect due to a feint/fake is psychologically very real and not in a "respect the woman" kind of way. It's in a hate/love/be confused/ultimately hate self and others kind of way. The respect between them is as real as his one hand's chance to block a serious kick - it could not. And she was not faking - that's important to know. SHe hurts him from time to time to keep his hand there. She'd justify it by saying she'd never hurt him for real, and he's too mixed up from the media and no class, stupid parents, who had to be watching. He'll buy into the sexual abuse and she'll buy into it's good for scenarios with loved ones, and especially if she's mad at loved ones. The next abusive wife has been born. After all, she see victory on every show over men. Every single one of them. She sees women joking on morning talk shows when women cut off their husbands private parts. Is she not supposed to always win? If not then naturally she can be more cruel than he was to her and get the last thing she sees - sentencing that in no way equates to his suffering? Perhaps a $300 fine for kicking him 3 times in his groin as an Australian girl did to a man of a different race, elling at him about his race, but especially attacking him where she attacked him simply BECAUSE of his gender. She "cried" in court during the sentencing of $300.

Roland, you sound a little too sympathetic to the female side of these events. Did the convenience store female confuse you through long-time suppressed hurt? This stuff is wrong. It's always wrong, and not "playing around." Men and BROTHERS of sisters, lay down the law: "Fake it again or do it and you will be crippled when I return to my feet." Period. That is how stay a man and fights beside me on your behalf. Just in case some of you did not know I am a woman. I don't like be abused but I would not stoop to such terrible things and reminders or jokes to keep a man on his nervous guard. It's too demeaning and sexually disrespectful. It just so HAPPENS it's a saving grace in self-defense. It does not mean it's an attack or a retaliation for non-serious harm and ego problems. I pray for the day to see a lay passed that retaliation or attacks are sexual assault. A school tried to get a 5 years old boy I believe charged with it - a school bus incident I believe, following bullying by a male supposedly choking the boy. Imagine that. First time we hear about a groin attack being called sexual assault and not merely assault, and it's at the wrong time and guaranteed to be thrown out and justified - which it may be. I'd like to think a 5 years old can just barely keep another undeveloped fully boy off him with his only known way (I think the boy was a few years older also). Even still, all the years growing up boys learned others ways and became men. Many ass-kicking were survivable (easily) because the groin was never involved. It is wrong! That's the mantra. The usual disclaimer is a sustained attack. I don't believe men are allowed a pass on a punch or hard slap to a woman's face, but there are ways to handle it that do not ever involved a man's groin. He did not blind here or affect her ability to have babies, which are fully in his realm of possibility, so a woman should never think it's safe to sexually assault a man in response, or that she's superior because of her ability to hurt the opposite gender without caring. That makes her the same as a rapist in my opinion. Now is the sister kicking the brother a female rapist? She's certainly well on her way to being a nothing tramp. Why? If the boy used his pass (no serious attacks in response to his strength), then he kicked her in the groin or felt her up and pushed her down when she reacted angrily - he's o nis way to being a rapist I think. And if she accepted it as men do groin attacks? She's ever so fragile thereafter. No f'n groin kicks - please. Talk to movie producers (if you know any), everyone. It is wrong. Make no room for anything except "sustained attack" on her. Don't give in when she says the element of surprise will be gone. If it's that serious she can call into the police and all the evidence (rope and tape in the car) will vindicate her story. We need to change our mindset the bitches be scandalous as a friend of mine says. AS A NATION. See a groin kick and assume she's in the wrong, if nothing else hold her as you would a purse snatcher but don't get kicked. Women, join in a stop these women, please. As a group you can hold a woman and your men will never be more supportive of you. If it was a justified event in the street (sustained attack, attempts to drag her into a car, knife drawn [but not in response to a his friend groin kicked and now he's worried about himself!], but you get the idea. ladies. Knives are always scary. Men however, have to live with groin kicks and if they've ever been kicked for no legit reason, or it's magnified in jokes in their homes - it's unusually cruel to many of them. Many, many good men I listen to need support on this issue. To be silent is very wrong as well! Men absolutely need to know there are good women everywhere around them - not just one part per million and for them marriage is a pointless prison where their rights are less than when strangers could routinely remind them of their vulnerable privates. "It's just a joke..." "Xena did not really kick a man honey. It's pretend. Why are you so insecure?" His answer to his girlfriend should be, "If it's fantasy where she always wins and she is get to enjoy the status of never being victimized sexually and then losing life because of it, then I'd support her and enjoy the show. I'd really love to enjoy Xena with you. I set out to. If she'd set a good example I'd be right there. But the snarky gotchas while men scream or groan and fall down is sure to affect you to say something wrong at the wrong time. I hate to think you're having fun watching a fantasy where that is seen as right for various reasons, and desensitizing you about men being kicked in the groin." If your girlfriend persist in demeaning you for standing your ground, let her have her shows but not you. If she can't see what a good man she has then let her have a memory. She may ponder it and it could help the next guy. Accept no middle ground though guys - I'm telling you! ANy middle ground is bad ground for you on this subject. Like partial r**** - what is that? It's r**** if it's r****. Jokes about your sexual vulnerability are always uncalled for. You're not unmanly for standing up for yourself. Honestly many of these women should have their knees broken. I mean kicking a man for cheating? Yeah it hurts, but hell it's not life or death.

If I offended anyone you're bad and you know it. Please change. If we want good men we must be good to them. Good night everyone.

[manxkitti]

Roland, you sound like a good and honorable man. I really hope you find a woman who will give you the love and respect you deserve. And please, don't be afraid to stand up and defend your body. No one has the right to physically hurt you.

[Alysse]

Ok considering I dont have that part Im in no position to say what it feels like to be kicked in the balls. Im sure it does not feel great but I do have a question. Why is it men seem to become so upset when hearing or seeing a fellow male get kicked in the groin by a women yet I have seen men hit other men there quite often. To make it worse more times than not the guy who kicks the other guy will laugh at doing it. It seems to me men dont like the idea of women having that power. And to the person who said kicking a girl there hurts just as much..? Do you have that part? Because you obviously are making that fact up. Women who play soccer dont cry like a baby like men do when they get kicked or when the ball hits them there.

I am glad that someone else agrees with me that guys should not be making comments about parts they do not have. I have been hit in the groin many times by a soccer ball, and a softball. Yes I did feel something but was ok in less then a minute or so. Even when hit with a bat once I fell down but was able to continue playing softball is less then three or four minutes. However a hockey stick right between the slit is another story. But that has never happen to me. After being hit with the softball my husband said to me, "Had that happened to men without wearing a cup, I would be down for the count and crawling around.

Boys will laugh when another guy gets hit in the balls, because they are often happy it did not happen to him. When two boys are play fighting, or having a towel fight, they know that a hit will cause extreme pain for five or so minutes, end the play fight, then probably the poor guy will be ok by the next day.

Nature gave us females much protection in our groin, in that our privates are very low and not really exposed. Nature did the opposite with males. However the weakness of the male groin is the great equalizer of the sexes, as males are stronger and run faster. The fact that some men fear females is a good thing in that most crimes are commited by men against women, not the other way around. And the next time you see a male rolling on the ground after being hit in the groin, you can tell your daughter what is happening, don't laugh, just tell her the power that she has and not to abuse this power over the opposite sex.

Well, all women here are making comments about male parts they don't have. No need for more female irritation. This subject is so serious to many men and some rare women, just lay back, listen, and respect the guys unless you have something genuinely helpful to add.

[Alysse]

Ok considering I dont have that part Im in no position to say what it feels like to be kicked in the balls. Im sure it does not feel great but I do have a question. Why is it men seem to become so upset when hearing or seeing a fellow male get kicked in the groin by a women yet I have seen men hit other men there quite often. To make it worse more times than not the guy who kicks the other guy will laugh at doing it. It seems to me men dont like the idea of women having that power. And to the person who said kicking a girl there hurts just as much..? Do you have that part? Because you obviously are making that fact up. Women who play soccer dont cry like a baby like men do when they get kicked or when the ball hits them there.

I am glad that someone else agrees with me that guys should not be making comments about parts they do not have. I have been hit in the groin many times by a soccer ball, and a softball. Yes I did feel something but was ok in less then a minute or so. Even when hit with a bat once I fell down but was able to continue playing softball is less then three or four minutes. However a hockey stick right between the slit is another story. But that has never happen to me. After being hit with the softball my husband said to me, "Had that happened to men without wearing a cup, I would be down for the count and crawling around.

Boys will laugh when another guy gets hit in the balls, because they are often happy it did not happen to him. When two boys are play fighting, or having a towel fight, they know that a hit will cause extreme pain for five or so minutes, end the play fight, then probably the poor guy will be ok by the next day.

Nature gave us females much protection in our groin, in that our privates are very low and not really exposed. Nature did the opposite with males. However the weakness of the male groin is the great equalizer of the sexes, as males are stronger and run faster. The fact that some men fear females is a good thing in that most crimes are commited by men against women, not the other way around. And the next time you see a male rolling on the ground after being hit in the groin, you can tell your daughter what is happening, don't laugh, just tell her the power that she has and not to abuse this power over the opposite sex.

Well, all women here are making comments about male parts they don't have. No need for women to be irritated about something else. Hell, the guys are going through the issues about this. This subject is serious to many men and some women. I think we should just lay back, listen, and respect the guys unless you have something very helpful to add.

[Alysse]

Ok considering I dont have that part Im in no position to say what it feels like to be kicked in the balls. Im sure it does not feel great but I do have a question. Why is it men seem to become so upset when hearing or seeing a fellow male get kicked in the groin by a women yet I have seen men hit other men there quite often. To make it worse more times than not the guy who kicks the other guy will laugh at doing it. It seems to me men dont like the idea of women having that power. And to the person who said kicking a girl there hurts just as much..? Do you have that part? Because you obviously are making that fact up. Women who play soccer dont cry like a baby like men do when they get kicked or when the ball hits them there.

I am glad that someone else agrees with me that guys should not be making comments about parts they do not have. I have been hit in the groin many times by a soccer ball, and a softball. Yes I did feel something but was ok in less then a minute or so. Even when hit with a bat once I fell down but was able to continue playing softball is less then three or four minutes. However a hockey stick right between the slit is another story. But that has never happen to me. After being hit with the softball my husband said to me, "Had that happened to men without wearing a cup, I would be down for the count and crawling around.

Boys will laugh when another guy gets hit in the balls, because they are often happy it did not happen to him. When two boys are play fighting, or having a towel fight, they know that a hit will cause extreme pain for five or so minutes, end the play fight, then probably the poor guy will be ok by the next day.

Nature gave us females much protection in our groin, in that our privates are very low and not really exposed. Nature did the opposite with males. However the weakness of the male groin is the great equalizer of the sexes, as males are stronger and run faster. The fact that some men fear females is a good thing in that most crimes are commited by men against women, not the other way around. And the next time you see a male rolling on the ground after being hit in the groin, you can tell your daughter what is happening, don't laugh, just tell her the power that she has and not to abuse this power over the opposite sex.

Well, all women here are making comments about male parts they don't have. No need for women to be irritated about something else. Hell, the guys are going through the issues here. This subject is serious to many men and some women. I think we should just lay back, listen, and respect the guys unless you have something very helpful to add.