I want other men to screw my wife...how common is

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Postby Guest on Wed Dec 13, 2006 10:01 pm

noodles wrote:dont have a problem with anything in principal, just parts of his post i found dodgy (as stated above).


I agree, but it could very well be that his partner wants it just as much as he does. He did write she enjoys it.

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Postby Guest on Sun Dec 17, 2006 1:33 pm

I share the same interest optiman, but can't persuade my gf to give it to other guys worst luck. It's a redhot fantasy though!

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Postby Guest on Sun Dec 17, 2006 2:02 pm

Ever been to a horse race? :wink:

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Postby Guest on Sun Dec 17, 2006 2:20 pm

. wrote:I share the same interest optiman, but can't persuade my gf to give it to other guys worst luck. It's a redhot fantasy though!

if your 'red hot fantasy' ever becomes a reality, you are in for a major letdown that will never go away

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Postby Guest on Tue Dec 19, 2006 2:04 am

Its VERY common from what I see on other sites

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Postby Guest on Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:33 am

Very!

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Postby conniejones73@yahoo.com on Thu Dec 28, 2006 11:02 am

Its more common than you would think. We have ben doing this for almost one year after many years of fantasy and dirty talk

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Postby yes on Sat Dec 30, 2006 8:47 am

just a test

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Postby Hubby of HotWife on Sat Dec 30, 2006 8:58 am

Well, my wife is a HotWife and she's frequently going on dates with other men and always ends up at their place. She loves kissing and carressing and always tells me about her dates in details when she gets home. I love her more than anything in the whole world and I know she feels the same way about me. That's why I don't get jealous when I hear about her encounters. There's no limits and she enjoys that a lot. She's kissing and touching her lovers, sucking their cocks and loves to feel them inside her as she moans their names.

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Postby just us on Fri Jan 05, 2007 12:39 am

in relative terms we are on this planet for such a small time, so enjoy life to the full and as long as your not hurting anyone or breaking any laws go with your emotions. swinging is a lifestyle choice not just quick sex. try one of the free sites like http://www.swingswing.co.uk :lol:

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Postby Guest on Fri Jan 05, 2007 1:07 am

I hope none of you maniacs have children.

angeleyes77
 

Maniacs?

Postby angeleyes77 on Fri Jan 05, 2007 11:45 pm

. wrote:I hope none of you maniacs have children.



Can you support that?

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Postby Guest on Sat Jan 06, 2007 2:25 am

. wrote:
. wrote:Men :roll: If they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!

This is not my fantasy or fetish, but over the years I have met several guys who have this fantasy and discussed their motivations.

You're correct that some men who are turned on by their wife/partner having sex with another man apparently approach the fantasy from a dominant perspective. The turn-on for them is in having such control over their wife/partner that they can turn her into a "slut" willing to sex another man on demand.

But other men with the same fantasy/fetish apparently approach it from a submissive perspective. These men are turned on by being cuckolded by their wife/partner because they are sexually inadequate to satisfy her so that she feels free to have sex with better-endowed or otherwise more sexually virile men but demands that her husband/partner remain monogamous and in some instances even denies her husband/partner intercourse altogether. Some men within this group get off on hearing details about their wife/partner's superior sexual satisfaction with "real men" and even being ordered to clean her orally after she has had sex with a "real man."

To each his own. :D



that was a good post. i think most men will fall into the first group mentioned. the second group of men in that post - cuckolded men - are far fewer men.

the first group see it as fantasy. i think many of them are in for a rude awakening if they go through with it, for evetually some stud will put a working on her and have her responding in more intense ways than he has never gotten from her. since he is not a cuckold, what do you think happens to their own sex life?

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Postby Guest on Sat Jan 06, 2007 3:39 am

I believe it is most common among people that don't take their wedding vows seriously. I would never, ever want my wife to be with another man, obvious health risks aside, we vowed ourselves to each other forsaking all others. That isn't to be dismissed flippantly, I believe! Then what if the other guy knocks the wife up? You would have quite a price to pay for the obsession as you put it.

Let it go. Renew your vows and get on with your life. Eventually, matches like this burn ya!~

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Watching wife with other men

Postby bedj1009 on Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:33 pm

My wife and I have been married 6 years and have a great sex life, I am 58 and she is 48 with an incredible body.

We have fantasized about everything in our bedroom, especially sex with others, it is a huge turn on for both of us.

We've never gone beyond fantasizing but I play music at local spots and she helps me, one night there were two guys sitting at the bar and when they saw my wife they got up and came into the lounge where we were playing and sat down.

They were obviously attracted to my wife, after I'd had a few beers I dared her to ask one of them to slow dance, she took the dare and I then dared her to ask the other one to dance and she did.

It was a turn on for me watching them talk to her, she told me word for word when we got in bed and we had great sex. That was two years ago and we haven't ventured that far since but we did fantasize about it for a long time.

So, I could see where the original poster could go through with it but I couldn't.

Good Luck

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