I want other men to screw my wife...how common is

[plz no name]

a few weeks a go mike & my wife had lots of sex.i just could not stop thinking of them 2 f***** that whole nite.the other nite he stopped by and we were both so happy to see him again.i was hard just thinking and hoping he would f*** her some more. i told him i was about to go but he could stay if he wanted.she gave me a kiss and away i went on a make believe truck repair.after i left i came around the back and they were like kids right where i left them they were all over each other.she f***** him on the floor,sofa and ended up on the table.all the windows open i can see and hear great.they went at it for hours,stopped and was at it again.they are like wild animals all over each other in all ways.this is somehow such a turn on for me.maybe 4/5 hours went by and i called to say i was about to come home so my wife would have time to dress and act like nothing happen.then i watch as they try to dress but wanted more of each other. i came in and both were watching tv like nothing happen.he said it was good to seat down and relax.
i want to tell him to stop by with that everlasting hard on and f*** my wife anytime she wants to have him,but not sure if thats what i want for sure.it makes me so hot and horny. i think i have to talk to my wife this week about it.we both like how this is,she is still talking about the first nite with him,but if we do it more will it hurt us and will it hurt our friendship with mike.

[mot456]

Actually my wife and i did this for about a decade.
I have no idea why i desired this. Maybe the submissive
thing mentioned above. Anyway we quit about 12 years ago.
We have been married 32 years and things seem great.
My only advise is if i had it to do over i would not.
It tends to make you feel bad about yourself as time goes
on.

good luck

[rocket man]

My wife took the lead in this and it is hot. She really got turned on like an animal when she saw me and the well hung black man sucking each others cocks. To my surprise she already knew that I am bisexual.

[Steveboca]

25 years ago - it was 2 girls and a guy for the ultimate turn-on. Now, its a new trend , to have your wife date other men.
I never had the guts to share this fantasy with my wife- but when I was seperated for almost a year, my live in GF- told me and old friend was in town- and asked if I would be upset if she dated him.
Well, this made things easy- I told her it's not only fine with me, but a turn-on.
This made our relationship, so sexually charged- we had sex almost every night. Gentleman- nothing is more exciting, than watching your 45 year old wife dressing for a date. When see returns home, you are raging with lust for
her.
This is the ultimate win-win-win situation.
I think its a "game" for more mature couples.
Interestingly - I had no interest in dating other woman- she did bring home her bosses wife for me- she hates him, and It was a turn on for her to see me with her.
At 50+ you don't need viagra if your wife dates.

[Guest]

...she's yours, she belongs 2 u not another man or men. i dont understand u men. like ur possessed or somethin, this can never be me and my wife

Rubbish.
Unless you bought your wife on a slave market SHE IS NOT YOURS. Her body happens to be HERS and hers alone, and it's for her to decide what she'll do with it.
The world would be a better place and there would be far less marriages broken up if people like you would finally understand this simple truth.

[seeking very sexual lady]

I too often find it very sexual for my significant other wife, to have sex with other men, however I am now single and want to be up front about this, but when you even mention it to a girl you are trying to be serious with, they get turned off, and leave. My question is where are all the women who would love to have her man, let her have sex with whomever she wanted

Seeking an extremely premisicous women in NY

[mr bob]

well guy funny you ask that. i was just sitting here thinking of screwing your wife,i think of screwing her alot.now you feel better?

[Rhodie]

Actually my wife and i did this for about a decade.
I have no idea why i desired this. Maybe the submissive
thing mentioned above. Anyway we quit about 12 years ago.
We have been married 32 years and things seem great.
My only advise is if i had it to do over i would not.
It tends to make you feel bad about yourself as time goes
on.

good luck

I am very interested in a couple of things... Was the decision to stop mutual? Was she happy to stop? How often did you guys do it? Did she feel bad about herself?

[jmauver]

Like many here, I also have the fantasy of my wife having sex with another man while I watch/participate. In the other hand I am an extremely jealous husband, even a flirt could spark a week of row between us. The thing is I love to see her having sexual pleasure, that the more pleasure she feels the more I feel too. She is quite shy but I am sure that she would go with me in this fantasy as she hinted me that she would like to see another woman having sex with us at the same time. She knows that I enjoy listening her sexual life with her ex-boyfriends from her past. On my mind there are some thoughts like what if she get more than sex with the other guy, what if she starts dating him without my knowledge, what if our marriage complicity ends...
These are my fears, that's why I think if I would go for it, it would be with someone completely strange, that you will never see again. I believe that many, many men have this fantasy, although a large proportion would not admit it. Also I believe many share the same fears I have but If they were given assurance that it would not affect their marriage/relationship, they would not hesitate to at least try it.
Sorry for my bad english!

[Dale]

My wife has been having sex with other guys ever since we got married and I love it, I can't get enough of watching my beautiful wife being taken by other guys, I sometimes join in, but more often than not I just watch as they pleasure her hour after hour. we are both into her having more than one guy at a time, and sometimes even having another woman join in, I suppose you could say we are the ultimate liberated couple, but I just get real turned on by sharing her wonderful body.

[wvwildeyed]

i to have often wondered how many men liked their wife or girlfriend to have sex with someone other than their hubby. i love the idea myself and my wife has f*cked 22 or 23 other guys during our marriage...i hope it never ends

[Guest]

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

you need to respect your wife man.

[Guest]

This is so true. My wife told me I would always have to be the last one to cum in her, - she wanted that little bit of dominant control, so we stumbled into the best possible scenario as a result. Watching her enjoy her lovers always kept me hard and hot and I came to love sloppy seconds and eating her afterwards. She also liked being able to give her full concentration to her lover, and sometimes asked me to wait downstairs until called.

We had one male friend that she really liked, and we all agreed he could stop by and take her whenever he wanted. It was such a rush to hear that unexpected knock on the door!

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This is very common, however, a word of caution for any men who wish to venture down that route, make sure that you ejaculate at the end as it is not a particularly pleasant feeling knowing that you are spent and then have to watch your wife/girlfriend continuing to be aroused by another guy. This started off as a fantasy for us as I used to love watching my wife flirt with other men, I used to tell her what I wanted her to do with this guys while we were having sex and it used to drive us both wild. In the end we agreed to take a guy home and it was fantastic as he finished and then I followed. The sex was magificent, however, on the third or 4th occasion I came to quickly and the other bloke took about 20 minutes to cum and I did not like it one little bit. We now have ground rules which mean she does him while increase her enjoyment and once he is finished the guest watches.

[scotlad1985]

Hey folks, im realy curious about this too, im 22 and my gf is 18 i wanna try it but dont want it to ruin our relationship, were both good looking and dont have any problem meeting ppl,

Ive been reading through the storys and ive gotta say there aint many ppl saying they tried it and it was bad,

I fantisize mostly about her with another guy but shes more into other women which i wouldnt complain about by any means just want to get some views from men/women thats tried it and would i be better with ppl i know or strangers?

thanks.

[Mr B]

Hey folks, im realy curious about this too, im 22 and my gf is 18 i wanna try it but dont want it to ruin our relationship, were both good looking and dont have any problem meeting ppl,

Ive been reading through the storys and ive gotta say there aint many ppl saying they tried it and it was bad,

I fantisize mostly about her with another guy but shes more into other women which i wouldnt complain about by any means just want to get some views from men/women thats tried it and would i be better with ppl i know or strangers?

thanks.

Personally i would say strangers. That way its a one off and you'll never see them again. Thats important because if your gf enjoys it, you will be happy knowing she won't be able to get a repeat unless its properly arranged, and if its a disaster, well you'll never see them again will you? The problem with doing it with someone you know means that your gf might see nothing wrong with shagging that bloke again without you knowing. She could be drunk one night and just think "well Ive shagged him before, my bf won't mind" Could lead to trouble.