I want other men to screw my wife...how common is

[Guest]

This is so totally wrong and will end in tears for one half of the relationship, as is often found in swinger circles due to jealousy and the inevitable emotions people - especially women attach to sex.

Being in love should be about cherishing a person in an intimate way between a couple, not pimping her out as a piece of ass for the weekend. Why bother being in a relationship at all (rhetorical)? All you guys who go for this are being selected out, so it's probably for the best as you're diluting the gene pool.

[david_david]

There is no need to be so dramatic, Guest. Despite the particular language some of chose to use, this is indeed a very common fantasy (among men). I guess the problem is that men find it relatively easy to separate sex (as in physical or visual stimulation and satisfaction) from feelings and relationship. There is nothing wrong with that if there is dialog and openness between the partners and they understand each other ... In order to have good sex, both sides have to to do extra things to satisfy the other...

[MaxtheGaul]

It's not always just the guy who is interested in this. My g/f is definitely interested!

[Guest]

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

This is very common, however, a word of caution for any men who wish to venture down that route, make sure that you ejaculate at the end as it is not a particularly pleasant feeling knowing that you are spent and then have to watch your wife/girlfriend continuing to be aroused by another guy. This started off as a fantasy for us as I used to love watching my wife flirt with other men, I used to tell her what I wanted her to do with this guys while we were having sex and it used to drive us both wild. In the end we agreed to take a guy home and it was fantastic as he finished and then I followed. The sex was magificent, however, on the third or 4th occasion I came to quickly and the other bloke took about 20 minutes to cum and I did not like it one little bit. We now have ground rules which mean she does him while increase her enjoyment and once he is finished the guest watches.

[Guest]

I just stumbled on this site - you are a peculiar bunch!

[Guest1138]

This seems very common to me. My girlfriend was actually dating someone before she and I got together. Now she is cheating on him with me. She still sees him though and when she does, she takes video and pictures for me. I really enjoy watching her amd she loves having sex with him. She is trying to convince him to let her "friend"(me) watch. If you are both open with it and want it, it shouldn't be a problem. All of the people on here who say that the relationship will die are only saying this becuase of their own moral feelings about it. Considering that 50% of all marriages fail, isn't it possible that they would have failed anyway and that this fantasy/indulgence had nothing to do with it? I would actually like to see the statistics of failed relationships in general and failed relationships because of sexual adventures like this. I would bet they are even. 50% is a pretty large number.

[female guest]

It's probably more common than you think. I got married 9 months ago - I'm 33, my husband is 35. We have a great sex life - but suddenly one day, he told me of his fantasy to see me with other men - while he watches or participates. It was kind of a hot idea to me, and we even looked _ for some prospective participants. However, I have not yet had the nerve to actually go through with it. I told him I'd rather do it with someone I know (am familiar with)...but he said that ruins it for him b/c then jealousy/insecurity, etc., become issues for him. For me, I guess I should feel glad that I am possibly free to have sex with whomever, but I also feel a little puzzled as to why it wouldn't make my husband jealous or hurt to see me with another man. We've talked about it, and he says it has nothing to do with not caring about me.....but rather, about him wanting to see me from a distance - the whole picture - rather than just up close, one-on-one. He says it lets him see my sexual side in a different way. Anyway, I hope this helps. Just wanted to share a woman's perspective with you.

[Wife Watcher]

I love the idea of other men screwing my wife and I also like other men looking at her photo's which I have post on the net, lots of men print them off and jack off over them filming them selves doing it and sending us the results which we find a great turn on and has been a large part of our sex life for a while now. I have even written stores and included photos in the stories for other men to enjoy which has also been a big thrill for us both.
you can read our stories on http://www.allme.com/stories/lynn/

Enjoy and please feel free to join our growing number of followers who all have similar fantasies.

[sam4you321]

well i think about my girl getting f*cked by other men but it has been a fantasy of mine she dose not now of this and i dont no if i could even ask her if she would F*** a nother guy if i found someone she thought was good looking and got all three of use togeather had some drinks maybe it could happen im 33 years old brown hair 5' 9" 165lbs average build in shape shes 30 years old 5' 9" 125lbs brown eyes brown hair in shape

[MaxtheGaul]

Are you advertising?

[Mr B]

Are you advertising?

He should advertise! Thats a good idea,anyone wanting others to bang their wife should stick some pics up see how many replies you get. Worst case scenario is that your wives are getting compliments by the number of replies received.

That and we need more pics of women on this board....

[Is your?]

Is your wench Fat (or Ugly or something?
Can't even remotely think of another reason why a man would want another to fk his wwiffe other than to
'get out of it' since she's fat/ugly(same thing almost),
well; - another just came to mind;
-that of having been injured or otherwise castrated(aka prostate surgery) and trueely having Her best interests in mind since you are
Not really a Man anymore.

[Passive]

strange but true. I feel the same way as this guy does. I had ex girlfriends and when I talk to them, i usually ask them about their sex lives with their current boyfriend, I just feel aroused whenever my ex girlfriends talk about their current sex partners. Im not a psychiatrist but my analysys is that, because I got used to watching porn videos since early childhood, I somehow developed this strange behavior that I enjoy watching somebody else have sex. Its like I wanted to have a porn star girlfriend. Im sure the thread starter loves to watch porn movies.

[Wife Watcher]

Funny how some guys can't get their head around men you actually get off on other men F****** their wives. Its a great turn on and you have to be in a very good stable relationship to be able to enjoy this kind of fun, all those who are insecure should stay well away. Your wife just might like the other guy more and leave you.

[marks890]

I've always fantasized about my wife going on a date and having sex with another man, then giving me all the details of the encounter when she got home.
Almost immediately after we were married I told her of my fantasy and suggested that I'd like to make it a reality. She looked absolutely shocked at my suggestion and said that she had no interest in having sex with anyone else and questioned my motives.
Almost one year later my wife asked me if I still fantasized about her being with another guy and asked if I could really handle it.
I told her absolutely!!! With that, she said that she met a really nice guy who recently started working where she works. She said that the guy (Dan) always flirts with her so she started flirting back. Well anyways, Dan eventually asked her to have drinks with him after work so she met him at the lounge across the street and had a few drinks.
That evening when Kim came back home she asked me if if I still fantasized about her being with another guy and asked if I could really handle it. She said that she really likes him and wouldn't turn him down if he wants to sleep with her!
The next day, Dan and my wife went on their first date.

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.