Wanting to dominate GF, advice?

[LuckyTeen]

Hi people,

I'm looking to do some roleplay with my GF, I know she likes being dominated sexually and we have done that before but I'm wanting to put a spin on things a bit here. She told me she wanted to try something we haven't and I said how about we do a roleplay where I make her my sex slave for the day and dominate her around the bedroom.

I have a general idea of what to do but am looking for ideas from submissive women as to what they might like if they were in the situation as I need a lot of variation and don't want her to get bored.

I told her that she must do everything I command her to and call me master when talking to me. I told her she would be punished if she fails in this area by a spanking. However, there is something I am nervous about, she said it’d turn her on if, when dominating her if I were to gently slap her across the face.

I would do it very, very soft and get her to demonstrate on me just how hard is too hard because honestly if she was to get so much as a red mark on her face I wouldn’t forgive myself. She said she would be OK with it if it’s soft but I’m still nervous. I told her I would reward her with my C*** and rub it over her body and make her suck me until I shoot.

Stuff like that, I'll tie her up and lick her out and touch her body all over too, any ideas on what else I could do?

Thanks!
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[solution]

i think you hit the nail on the head. you should spank her for some missdeed you decide she has done. she should accept that she is in the wrong and needs punishment. you send her to her room to dress approprietly- best skirt and blouse, favourite bra and knickers/panties/Thong, stockings and suspenders, high heel shoes. she should then return to you in the lounge and tell you she is sorry and ready to be spanked as you see fit. you start with her over your knee(hand spank) and then progress to various other positions and using different implements- bent over legs apart (plastic ruler), over the back of a chair (strap), over the arm of the couch (paddle), over the back of the couch (riding crop) over dining table(cane). After each spanking she should remove one piece of clothing until she is naked over the table and then you should sh.ag her arse. wish it could be me doing it for you.

[LuckyTeen]

I did it last night , it was very good. It went better than I expected and we had amazing sex afterwards! , really incredible, I think I have just realised a major fantasy for her.

I actually enjoyed it a lot more than what I thought I would, as I was a bit nervous as to doing it, thought I might feel a bit daft but I didn't. She said she could tell I got into it and it made her enjoy it more. And yeah, I did give it to her up the bum as part of the scenario and that was great too. I did everything I wanted to do and as for the slapping to make her listen, it was a swift slap from close range, I didn't put swing into it so it was soft. I did that when I was on top of her ordering her to suck me off, it was very hot for both of us.

Thanks a lot to the Guest who gave their insight into spanking. Appreciate it.

[Guest]

glad to hear that my advice was helpful. did you show her what i wrote and did you carry it out exactly. it would be good to have a detailed message of exactly what she wore and what you did and what was different from the norm to turn her on so well. i hope that you will continue to enlarge on my idea and keep us informed.

[LuckyTeen]

Things I did included talking to her in a way that asserted my power over her, forcing her on all fours and licking cream off her vagina then her ass, ordering her to suck me long and hard and slapping her with my C*** when she hesitated.

Bending her over and banging her doggy style hard and slapping her ass with my rock and spanking her for not listening to me.

Licking yogurt off her nipples and her body and slapping her in face for everytime she failed to call me master and beg for my hard manhood, I made her suck me until I felt like pounding her tight bum hole and did that until I shot up her ass. Then slapped her with my C*** again before making her worship my body and then when I thought she had been a good slave, we had sex hardcore style. It was great fun, she said she would do it again and I'd def' be up for dominating her again!

Thanks again.

[Guest]

keep us posted of next domination adventure. its good to see others can help when you are a little unsure. i think you should certainly keep her arse well redenned to ensure she behaves as you want. a little spanking on a regular basis will be good for her

[LuckyTeen]

Ok, will do. Yeah regular spanking during the scene really helps to keep the mood right.

I think if there are girls who are into being dominated and/or taken advantage of sexually (just as fun) then they should tell their partner's because it is good fun when done properly and nobody gets hurt.

[solution]

Dont leave it too long or she will lose interest -- not only that I want to know what fun you are both having, perhaps she should post details of the next one ( or first one come to that) as part of her training lessons.

[Guest]

A big dick is a useful tool in domination.

[LuckyTeen]

Well of course. Don't bother slapping her or forcing her to suck you if you aren't packing what you know she likes. That's just embarassing I would never discuss my penis size _, it's hers alone but it was all fun.

Well, glad you enjoyed listening, if you don't mind me asking, are you a woman who likes being dominated or a man with experience in dominating women? Either way, the advise was sound so thanks.

[Sharin...]

i also love to be dominated and spanked by my husband, but its ALWAYS more fun for me when he ties me up and do it and when i make too much noise and tell him ive had enough he will put a gag in my mouth and get even rougher, what a turn on !!!!

[LuckyTeen]

I don't know if the ball gag would be too much for her, she is shy but has kinky fantasies so I usually have to feel them out, I wish she would tell me and at least it's on the table, I'd consider anything lol.

[Sharin...]

I don't know if the ball gag would be too much for her, she is shy but has kinky fantasies so I usually have to feel them out, I wish she would tell me and at least it's on the table, I'd consider anything lol.

some times u need to try new stuff with her so long as she is generally interested in the bondage thing. i like it when my hubby comes and does something new with me. last weekend he tied me up, wrist ankles and knees together, placed some ice cubes into my bum and pussy and spanked me whilst making me suck his C***. now that was really fun especially the spanking!!!:spank: (i just love a good spanking from him whether or not i tell him to stop) then he came all over my face.
try something new with your gf, once she's in the mood am sure she'll love it if she's not into ball gags then try a silk scarf. sometimes to shut me up my hubby uses my own panties and stuff it in my mouth then keep it there with a scarf try new stuff step by step, then soon she'll get used to it and u can take full control. i must admit tho, the first time my hubby put my panties into my mouth i was a bit shocked but it was fun seeing how turned on he was by doing it


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Sharin

[Clitty Spanking LUV!]

I don't know why, or even think it 'odd'.
When my guy *Spanks my clitty;
i have Ground-Shaking type Orgasm's!
Strangely? - also like when HE puts Vicious
type "Clamps" on my klitty!
Also "Like it" when HE *Roughly 'back-door's me!
Totally being SUBmisive/DOMinated is my-thing!
Want Pratice? Come to NewMex & look at
Old Ladies with a grin,

- looking at your crotch.

[Sharin...]

I don't know why, or even think it 'odd'.
When my guy *Spanks my clitty;
i have Ground-Shaking type Orgasm's!
Strangely? - also like when HE puts Vicious
type "Clamps" on my klitty!
Also "Like it" when HE *Roughly 'back-door's me!
Totally being SUBmisive/DOMinated is my-thing!
Want Pratice? Come to NewMex & look at
Old Ladies with a grin,

- looking at your crotch.

yes, its always more fun when he gets rougher tho am not into having clamps on my clit well never tried it tho but not sure how it feels. may be i might give it a try