youthteen15 wrote:as my punishment for getting the car seats wet i had to stay in my wet & smelly clothes all day.
Not everyone would regard that as a punishment...
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youthteen15 wrote:as my punishment for getting the car seats wet i had to stay in my wet & smelly clothes all day.
youthteen15 wrote:I'm 15 and we were going to visit family in scotland so my mum told me to use the toilet before we went, but i forgot.
After a while i was needing the toilet but i thought i could hold it.. the pain got worse and i begged to stop but she said it would be my punishment for no litening.
I was pleading because i was soo desperate!
I crossed my legs and tryed to hold it but it just flowed out
as my punishment for getting the car seats wet i had to stay in my wet & smelly clothes all day.
Voluntary control is only possible up to a certain point beyond which it becomes an impossibility. The body's ability to override people's wills and their sphincter muscles is a necessary safeguard to ensure their wellbeing.

catonia wrote:youthteen15 wrote:I'm 15 and we were going to visit family in scotland so my mum told me to use the toilet before we went, but i forgot.
After a while i was needing the toilet but i thought i could hold it.. the pain got worse and i begged to stop but she said it would be my punishment for no litening.
I was pleading because i was soo desperate!
I crossed my legs and tryed to hold it but it just flowed out
as my punishment for getting the car seats wet i had to stay in my wet & smelly clothes all day.
She was out of order!!!!
Can sombody explain things to me because i'm confused about all this? A lot of "Snobbish" people say that perfectly healthy adults are supposed to be able to hold forever if needs be,but i know people who can't.It all depends on how much they drink (esp alcohol)![]()
A posh woman on Paul O'Grady said she held for 9 hours because she didn't want to pee over a cliff (I think she didn't want to sound common).
I don't get why people say you're supposed to be able to hold forever e.g. if u pee anywhere that's not a toilet,you're immoral and if you pee yourself you have a medical condition![]()
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Voluntary control is only possible up to a certain point beyond which it becomes an impossibility. The body's ability to override people's wills and their sphincter muscles is a necessary safeguard to ensure their wellbeing.
It confuses me that Ady says this^ and other people say the opposite.
I'm worried and confused

catonia wrote:Thanks
I read that the adult bladder is supposed to comfortably hold 500mls for 2 to 5 hours,but that is so not me (even though i'm 16...but still,i'm the same size a lot of adults).
Mines crap it only holds almost a pint for 90 mins and i haven't even had any kids![]()
I wonder why Sammi said it's supposed to be 3 hours,as i once held for 3 hours when i was eight because i could at that age (but not anymore) and i did myself an injury.It took two days to stop hurting and i couldn't pee for 24 hours
I took onboard what you said UKG.
It's a kerfuffle when i go on medical sites saying different things and going on about "normal and abnormal and you have to be spot on or there's something wrong with you"
Gilly2 wrote:That certainly rings a bell with me Anthea. I can empathise with you. It happened to me in a horrendous motorway tail-back and I ended up sitting in a puddle of my own making. A friend told me that it happened to her and her mother. If a woman has the misfortune to find herself in a situation where she is absolutely desperate to wee, with no means of relief and she has struggled her best to hold on she should not feel ashamed if she can't help wetting her <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'>knickers</A>. It happens. That's life!
Maggie G wrote:Just been checking the recent posts and found this. Thank you Anthea and all others who wrote. No, we would not normally have talked about it and shame is part of the reason even if it ought not to be. It happened to me, not in a traffic jam but walking home, utterly desperate and too far to go. Fortunately, though people were around they were not close enough to see and I was wearing a skirt. But at 36 years old I was terribly ashamed and as soon as I reached home burst into tears. My husband was very sympathetic and caring, which helped a lot.
Fabiana wrote:I cannot believe what I'm reading. You people seriously prefer sitting in a puddle of your own urine over pulling over in a jam and risking the 'embarassment' of peeing by the side of th
e road? Remind me never to buy a second hand car from any of you lot! Seriously, I find it troubling that you would rather wet yourselves than 'expose' yourselves. It's not like you're laying in the street with your legs in the air women, you're just squatting down. I've done it. And I can say with certainty that the thought of just wetting myself in the car did not enter my mind as an option in the slightest! Not to mention the one person here who said they wear an adult diaper 'just in case'. What is wrong with you????? If it's a medical condition fair enough, but what kind of person leaves the house wearing a diaper in case of emergencies?
I also think that there's a significant number of people who enjoy talking about it, and that's just something else again. Have I stumbled upon such a forum? Do enlighten me!
I don't know if I should be laughing or feeling horrified and I sincerely wonder if anyone will have the balls (or ovaries) to agree with me.
kerryee wrote:
I am in a lesbian relationship and my partner likes to put me in nappies as much as possible, disposable nappies for incontinence sufferes is what they are, but at home she prefers me to wear terry nappies and plastic pantsand totally baby me which we both enjoy.
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