What do I do?

[MissJackie23]

I need some advice about my friend she is married but very unhappy she is just about to tell her husband its over between them...

Anyway last week she had a fling with a guy old enough to be her father she is 35 and he is 53 she wont see this guy very often as he is on the road alot he is a roadie so she will only see him when we go to the shows of the singer he works for.

My friend is a very attractive 35 yr old and I think she could have any guy she wanted she has never cheated on her husband before this is the 1st time since she went on her holiday last week where she got off with this guy she went away with her mother hubby stayed at home.

she has totally changed and I do not like the new her one little bit I want to be here for her just like I have always been in the past but I cant see how this relationship is going to work with this 53 yr old I am the only one who knows about this fling I am an honest person and want to be honest with her but I dont want to hurt her feelings??

I think she should sort things out with her husband 1st and then have some time on her own before she starts a new relationship I am just worried she is going to get hurt and I care about her a great deal so I do not want this to happen...

I am on shakey ground I know but any advice on this would be wonderful thanks!

Jackie

[Harry]

This should be interesting. If it was the husband who had a one night stand behind his missus' back, there would be outright condemnation, talk of telling his missus and having him thrown out of his house. Then of course there's the kids who would never see him again.