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Postby G Wizard on Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:36 pm

screeby wrote:i've just been circumcised on day 4 now and its not really painful its just annoyin, night time erections r the worst feels like ur dick is gonna explode. and its VERY sensitive when it rubs on ur boxers when u walk etc...not sure what my girlfriends gonna make of it either

but i think it looks better, although i was scared at first (didnt have it done through preferance, more an accident in bed

This is the first I've heard about your surgery. I don't know if you mentioned on the forum beforehand that you were planning this, as I would have shared my own circumcision experience with you.

I spent a few weeks pre-op with my foreskin pulled back, to get used to the sensations (or more accurately, overstimulation/rubbing/chafing of my underwear) prior to getting the snip. Thing is, my foreskin was only too happy to retract into place, so it took some creativity to get it to stay put.

As for those who complain about an uncircumcised penis being 'dirty', yes it's quite possible to wash it. In fact, this was one of my complaints about my own. That is, I could scrub-a-dub-dub in the morning shower till it was squeaky clean, but by evening the smegma would be back. Quite the drag. If I knew I was going to be intimate with a woman on a spur-of-the-moment basis, I would try to find time to go to a washroom and at least use toilet paper to try and clean things up one last time.

The smegma was merely a nuisance. I was rather partial to the aesthetics of being circumcised.

I was a little disappointed with the results, though. My urologist lopped off too much, and so things tended to be quite tight. In fact, during the post-op healing I would get nocturnal erections which were painful from pulling against the stitches; I would bleed a bit from the one side, they were pulling that much.

So if I were to turn back the hands of time and reconsider, would I still do it? Yes. But knowing what I know now, I would shop around and consult with different urologists. From what I've read on|ine since then, it seems the "high and tight" is the way to go. And quite probably done with a Plastibell, and not "freehand" with a scalpel.

It's a personal choice whether to get it done. I'm very glad my parents (who were both medical professionals at the time) left my bits alone, thus leaving the choice up to me.

As for statistics? Anyone can make statistics say what they want. Just remember there are 3 kinds of lies: Lies, damned lies, and statistics.
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Postby Kami on Sun Apr 27, 2008 10:52 am

If a woman wouldn't go out with a guy for such a petty reason they can go to hell.

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Postby The Colonel on Sun Apr 27, 2008 5:27 pm

AussieAdam wrote:Colonel your going senile ok - You can no longer understand topics therfore nothing you write can be taken seriously.

Far from being the ''Rambo'' of the forums you are in fact the ''Dumbo'' of the forum.

And you call me an idiot ??? - Your shot to bits SIR and I am begining to doubt your credentials as an officer.........

Hmmm on second thoughts I came across enough idiots like you when I did my time in the army....Perhaps Sandhurst just takes the thick kids from the upper classes and turns them out as thick kids that THINK they are cleverer than the rest of us.


I am right and you just can't accept that for some reason.

And stop the stupid slurs - I mean, I could infer your point is worthless too, since your ancestors were criminals shipped out from Britain.

Stupid is it not?
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Postby G Wizard on Sun Apr 27, 2008 6:26 pm

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And stop the stupid slurs - I mean, I could infer your point is worthless too, since your ancestors were criminals shipped out from Britain.

So if I relocate to Australia, would you also infer that my ancestors were criminals shipped from Britain?

For that matter, why not infer that AussieAdam is aboriginal? Or given the non-trivial number of Filipinos who live in Australia, how about Filipino?

Stupid is it not?

You took the words right out of my mouth.
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Postby Rebman on Sun Apr 27, 2008 7:09 pm

The Colonel wrote:
AussieAdam wrote:Colonel your going senile ok - You can no longer understand topics therfore nothing you write can be taken seriously.

Far from being the ''Rambo'' of the forums you are in fact the ''Dumbo'' of the forum.

And you call me an idiot ??? - Your shot to bits SIR and I am begining to doubt your credentials as an officer.........

Hmmm on second thoughts I came across enough idiots like you when I did my time in the army....Perhaps Sandhurst just takes the thick kids from the upper classes and turns them out as thick kids that THINK they are cleverer than the rest of us.


I am right and you just can't accept that for some reason.


The thread question is what women think of circumcised men, NOT whether men or boys should be circumcised or not. Please stick to the topic.

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Postby G Wizard on Sun Apr 27, 2008 7:29 pm

Rebman wrote:
The thread question is what women think of circumcised men, NOT whether men or boys should be circumcised or not. Please stick to the topic.

+1

I'll throw in some vaguely relevant material.

My first wife was a virgin when I'd met her (no, that was never a priority with me), and was somewhat naive about sexuality. As such, she was never predisposed one way or the other.

When I told her I wanted to get circumcised, she was still ambivalent, but she was fine with me getting it. That said, she had a girlfriend who was pretty adamant that circumcised was the only way to go.

It was about 5 years later that our son was born. Suddenly she was all gung-ho for circumcision, and pressed that point pretty hard. Since my own parents had been medical professionals and had decided to just let me and my brother remain intact, I was adamant that my son not be given the snip. I figure that when he's old enough, if he's interested, I'll gladly give him any info on the subject that I can.

Let's use tattooing as an analogy. I got a tattoo when I was well into adulthood, but I would never be so presumptuous that I would force my son to get a tattoo days after being born. That said, when he's an adult, I would be only too glad to share with him my knowledge and caveats to make sure that he goes into it as informed as possible, and doesn't do something silly like get a tattoo on his face.

But I digress.

The original point was the question regarding whether my first wife preferred circumcised or not. She had nothing to compare to, other than my 'before' and 'after'.

I think in Canada/USA, my sense is that most women prefer circumcised, although there are of course exceptions. In Europe, my sense is the reverse is true. I say this because I seem to recall reading something along these lines, either on a pro-circumcision or an anti-circumcision site.

I would actually like to see how many women here feel that the circumcised penis is somehow less pleasant to look at than an uncircumcised penis. Once the foreskin is retracted, the two are pretty much indistinguishable, save for perhaps a scar. But with the foreskin in place, I think it looks a bit like a miniature elephant's trunk. ;)
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Postby Andrew Macduff on Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:27 am

G Wizard wrote:I would actually like to see how many women here feel that the circumcised penis is somehow less pleasant to look at than an uncircumcised penis.


If you go to the top of this topic, you will see that only 40% of members prefer the uncircumcised dick. It doesn't say why, but the result is still that only 40% prefer the natural dick. That's pretty conclusive; it's even more remarkable considering that these are UK women voting. I suspect the numbers would be even fewer in favour of the natural dick in America.

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Re: Survey result

Postby Andrew Macduff on Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:30 am

Andrew Macduff wrote:If you go to the top of this topic, you will see that only 40% of members prefer the uncircumcised dick.


Correction: I mis-read: that's only 13% prefer the natural dick!

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Postby G Wizard on Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:34 pm

Ah. Yes. The poll. Kinda forgot about that.

Interesting.
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Postby screeby on Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:04 pm

yea Gwizard man, that pulling on nighttime erections is the WORST thats my biggest problem at the moment and most annoying, cant wait till this is over!!!how long did it take for it to go away?and how long till u were fully fixed and shagging away!?!

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Postby G Wizard on Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:04 pm

Good grief, that was almost 20 years ago. Lessee....

I would have to say I was probably at a reasonable point about 2 weeks post-op. I think. More or less.

And if there was sex at that point, it was probably somewhat tentative.

Basically you want the scar to be healed up to the point where the stitches are no longer present. And given that you're in a monogamous relationship, you're probably already "fluid bonded", so any tiny holes in the skin at the incision site (eg, holes from the sutures) might be a bit weepy but otherwise no big deal. Just be sure to clean things up adequately afterwards, without scrubbing it silly. Raw is just as bad as dirty.

Use a healthy dose of common sense. Maybe slather on some topical antibiotic ointment on a daily basis, at least once the stitches are out, if not sooner. Very definitely follow your surgeon's recommendations in this regard.

I would definitely say that a month post-op you should be in great shape. Just a guess.

Do keep me informed, as I'm interested to see how things progress.
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Postby The Colonel on Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:50 pm

Rebman wrote:
The Colonel wrote:
AussieAdam wrote:Colonel your going senile ok - You can no longer understand topics therfore nothing you write can be taken seriously.

Far from being the ''Rambo'' of the forums you are in fact the ''Dumbo'' of the forum.

And you call me an idiot ??? - Your shot to bits SIR and I am begining to doubt your credentials as an officer.........

Hmmm on second thoughts I came across enough idiots like you when I did my time in the army....Perhaps Sandhurst just takes the thick kids from the upper classes and turns them out as thick kids that THINK they are cleverer than the rest of us.


I am right and you just can't accept that for some reason.


The thread question is what women think of circumcised men, NOT whether men or boys should be circumcised or not. Please stick to the topic.


Back to sleep myron. :roll:
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Re: Survey result

Postby The Colonel on Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:52 pm

Andrew Macduff wrote:
Andrew Macduff wrote:If you go to the top of this topic, you will see that only 40% of members prefer the uncircumcised dick.


Correction: I mis-read: that's only 13% prefer the natural dick!


First, it's a biased sample with mainly US respondents who have never even seen a natural dick,

Second, I suggest you take it up with "god" or mother nature.

Mother nature is not wrong.
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Postby Rebman on Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:26 pm

The Colonel wrote:Back to sleep myron. :roll:

The Colonel seems to be resorting to his old, tried and tested, ploy of claiming that those who criticise him must all be the same person. If he is so insistent on living in his own defensive fantasy land, then why stop at Myron, spectrum and me being the same person? I am sure that AussieAdam and G Wizard would feel offended if they were left out.

The Colonel’s list of members and guests, who he claims are the same person, seems to be endless. He has even claimed in the past that admin has confirmed his contention. However, when challenged about this, he admitted to lying (about the only thing that he seems to be qualified to do).

I am most certainly not Myron or spectrum, or indeed any of the other dozens of supposed aliases on the Colonel’s list.

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Postby The Colonel on Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:37 pm

Rebman wrote:
The Colonel wrote:Back to sleep myron. :roll:

The Colonel seems to be resorting to his old, tried and tested, ploy of claiming that those who criticise him must all be the same person. If he is so insistent on living in his own defensive fantasy land, then why stop at Myron, spectrum and me being the same person? I am sure that AussieAdam and G Wizard would feel offended if they were left out.

The Colonel’s list of members and guests, who he claims are the same person, seems to be endless. He has even claimed in the past that admin has confirmed his contention. However, when challenged about this, he admitted to lying (about the only thing that he seems to be qualified to do).

That was McMum actually.

I am most certainly not Myron or spectrum, or indeed any of the other dozens of supposed aliases on the Colonel’s list.


You don't know me, so you can't pass judgement.

If you do so, it suggests you DO know me, and therefore you are another member.

Someone doesn't just appear and start attacking someone as you did with me.

Get it?
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