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Postby Grape » Sun May 21, 2006 12:11 pm

It doesnt really matter..makes no difference to us girls. However a foreskin can be nasty if its dirty..so be nice and be clean!
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Postby Mr.Thick » Sun May 21, 2006 4:48 pm

where are you from?

If you're in Europe, they're gonna be angry that you took off something so incredibly important. :roll: :wink:

In the US, you'll get a thank you card and a complimentary blowjob. :wink: :D

I was cut later on and all I have to say is read up on it (do a search on "circlist", that's a good site despite being run by a queen)

and be prepared. It's not a fun experience, but worth it in the end.

Good luck.
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Postby dixiehoney » Sun May 21, 2006 7:12 pm

I don't have a preference as long as he's clean.
I would say the advantage of being circumcised is just the cleanliness.
What do I know? I'm a woman . LOL
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Postby Lou1se » Sun May 21, 2006 9:31 pm

I prefer it. All the relationships I have had, except one, the guy has been circumcised. Of course I didn't ask before dating :lol: I don't know if I have just got used to it, but I really prefer it now :D It's just more clean and the feel is great!
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Postby VimFuego » Sun May 21, 2006 10:36 pm

dixiehoney wrote:I don't have a preference as long as he's clean.
I would say the advantage of being circumcised is just the cleanliness.

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
Circumcision doesn't make people's cocks clean!!
It depends on the individual using soap and water regularly!!
I'm a chuffing bloke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby animallover15 » Sun May 21, 2006 11:00 pm

I do not agree with circumcising babies. I believe it is barbaric. I have witnessed about 7 circumcisions and they made me feel quite ill.
The only reason I believe circumcision is right is when a medical condition is present that requires the foreskin to be removed.
No child of mine would be circumcised.

As for sex with cut or uncut I have found no difference whatsoever.
And as the for the cleanliness thing . is correct....that is what soap and water is there for.
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Postby Mr.Thick » Mon May 22, 2006 12:32 am

Ezra_Pound wrote:

1.But I'd really like to know how old you were when you got cut?

2.What was it like?

3.How did it affect sensitivity?

4. Tell me everything


1.This year. I'm 24.

2. The operation/recovery? Very sucky. To much detail to go into. Put me down for a couple weeks. Even worse, not being able to beat off for 6 weeks. I cheated though and did on week 5.

3. It didn't. It's just something different and you get used to it, and I wouldn't do the foreskin restoration nonsense for anything. Bye bye elephant trunk!!!

4. Too much to tell. I'll sum it up. Cut is better.<---that's not a full life cut only or uncut only guy, or a hippy angry mom against everything type, it's a man who has lived both. But I WISHED it had happened at birth. The whole "doing it to babies is barbaric" is nonsense. You know what else is painful to children? CHILD BIRTH! Getting spanked on the ass so it will breathe. On top of that, who remembers any of that crap?

Only thing is jerking off is easier with foreskin. I jerked off too much anyway. And I use a technique that doesn't require lube and I cum the fastest anyway with this technique. (I'll only get into describing that if anyone wants me too.)
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 12:53 am

4. Too much to tell. I'll sum it up. Cut is better.<---that's not a full life cut only or uncut only guy, or a hippy angry mom against everything type, it's a man who has lived both. But I WISHED it had happened at birth. The whole "doing it to babies is barbaric" is nonsense. You know what else is painful to children? CHILD BIRTH! Getting spanked on the ass so it will breathe. On top of that, who remembers any of that crap?


You really do make me quite ill!!!!!!

Whether they remember is irrelevant...the pain was caused uneccesarily.

Please dont bother with the rest of your spout I'm not interested. Just because you are happy with the results does not mean that everyone else would be!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 2:06 am

Hi Ezra

I was an RN in a maternity unit at the time, therefore circumcisions were performed a couple of days after delivery. I would have liked to drag the parents into the room to watch while it was being performed. I don't remember anyone ever giving their reason for having their child circumcised other than 'they should look like thier father' :shock:

It is a procedure that is becoming less and less common here and is frowned upon by many in the medical profession. However we are a society of mixed cultures and some will never be disuaded to leave their babies penises well alone.

As for the sex thing I can honestly say I have never noticed the slightest bit of difference between them being cut/uncut. Nor have they seemed to enjoy the sex more/or less....so from my perspective it doesn't really matter.
If men want to be circumcised then fine but I think it should be left till they can make the decision for themselves.
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 3:31 am

No truly, I'm not trying to be kind. It is not something that has ever made a difference in any aspect of sex. Others may tell you different but I can only speak for myself.

I checked the statistics for babies who were being cut in Australia it seems to be averaging around 16000 per year (babies under 6 months) which is much higher than I thought it would be...the current yearly birth rate is a bit over 250,000 I believe!


As for the excuse of cicumcision for the cleanliness I really find that a bit silly...I mean womens genitals are all folds and tucks but we dont lop the labia off so we are cleaner (ok some places do but it is being slowly eradicated)

Some cultures like the Jewish one do witness the circumcision of their babies...I can't say I know much about it except that it is a pretty big thing and a celebration is held...if you see vino around she is jewish and will be happy to fill you in on the ins and outs of her culture.
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 3:50 am

Look I do believe they have their reasons...what they are I dont know but vino is very happy to talk about her culture and would gladly fill you in....still nothing could force me to have my child circumcised (except for medical reasons)
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 4:52 am

Oh Are you jewish? You seem to know what you are talking about there :D
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Postby animallover15 » Mon May 22, 2006 7:22 am

what country are you in???

Things seem to busy up according to UK time!!

Why are you considering being circumcised?

You know how I feel about the whole thing...but there are a couple of men that have posted before who have had adult circumcision and they are very happy with the results...but from my point of view, sexually, it makes no difference whatsoever!
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Postby krazi » Mon May 22, 2006 11:25 am

im circumcised women have said the contact from a circumcised penis gives them more pleasure
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Postby Mr.Thick » Mon May 22, 2006 3:58 pm

Bah, I wouldn't be f*cked to read all that nonsense.

First off, every guy who ends up getting cut in adulthood says "DAMN! Screw my stupid parents. This should've been done at birth!"

Secondly. 70% of the US here is cut. Oh they're just a bunch of psychos walking around with hatred towards their mothers. Because circumcision didn't allow them to bond with their mothers in early infancy. What a LOAD of crap.

There are nonsense books written about everything. Just because someone wrote a book means nothing. Ever heard of the bible?

Lastly, to Ezra. I did have it done for physical reasons. Phimosis and a short thick frenulum. There's something that screwed up the bonding experience in my life. My parents not having me cut. Seriously. I hated them for years for that in the back of my head.

The whole "only grown men should be able to choose this for themselves." That's so funny. No grown man wants to have to choose that and go through something you will most definetly feel and remember. I had to quit my job to get it done, because of the recovery time.

But whatever. If you're in Europe, whatever. In the US, it's selfish to have these ideas about OH I'm not doing that to my child, cuz I'm a hippy! Your kid is going to grow up feeling different from everyone else and is going to hate his parents for being silly hippies.

It's cultural here in the US, not because routine circumcision is nesscary. A lot of things in life aren't nesscary. It's just a good idea. And I've lived through both experiences, including getting the surgery done in adulthood, my opinions and people's like me are more valid than those of others. Not trying to sound conceited. It's just the simple truth. It's like me not liking it when big boob ladies get breast reductions. No! Precious boobs! I have no say in that. I wouldn't understand.
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