Heres the story.... A few weeks ago i randomly met a girl that i knew from school (who i had a crush on) at a bar and found out that she moved to the same town im living in, and was single. I hadn't seen her for about 3 years and we knew eachother but not that well. She didnt stay at the bar for long but we exchanged numbers and said that we would meet up soon. Last thursday i got a message from her saying that she and a friend were going to a club and would i like to come. We met up and went to the club. I was dancing with her all night and when we left we were both drunk and we went back to mine. We stayed up for a bit talking and then went to bed together. One thing led to another and we slept together. In the morning we both had to leave early for work so we hugged and kissed eachother and said our goodbyes.
That was the last time i saw her. on the Friday night she posted on her myspace page that she "feels heartbroken" which really concerned me. On the Sunday she said that she was feeling upset on her status. I then sent her a message inviting her to watch a film with a few people on thursday. She said that she couldnt because she was getting back from london late, but thanked me. On the monday she posted on her myspace that she was having a S*** week so i messaged her asking if it was anything to do with me, she replied almost instantly and said that it wasnt and there was "alot of other cap happening" followed with "dont worry! xx"
I was ill on tuesday and posted this to my myspace, she then started chatting with me on messenger asking why i was ill and if i was ok. We were chatting for about an hour before we both went to bed. Everything went quiet then until tonight where i started to chat with her on messenger. we talked about what we had both been doing and the conversation eventually led to me asking if she wanted to go out for a drink on sunday night. she replied saying "i would say yes, but im going through a hard time at the mo. i had fun last week, so i"l say no for now, but we'll see in the future.xx"
Now im not sure what do do or what to think. The thing is i think i really like this girl and have done since school. I know that we both had a great time when we went out together, but im scared that i have blown it now. I would love to know what she is thinking. If anyone has any insights into this or any advice about what my next move should be then i would be very greatful
yours sincerely
a very confused hopeless romantic
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