why is BAG so shallow

[Amnesia]

I never said I wouldn't discuss sex with you. I said I try not to get involved in your political and c0ck size debates.

[Mr A]

Like i said Mr A, most of porn is disgusting or boring. Just because porn is boring and nasty doesn't mean that sex is boring and nasty.

In the same way, just because I find white-women-black-men pornography to be disgusting doesn't mean that I'm against an actual relationship between a black man and a white woman-or vice versa.

But you've never stated you find white women white men porn to be disgusting. Yet you specifically singled out black men white women porn to be disgusting. Aparently YOU are the only one who cant see how skiewed your views are.

Well then I'll say it right now: alot of white-women-white-man porn is disgusting!

Exactly... when pressed, you say A LOT of white women white man porn is disgusting... but ALL black men white woman porn is disgusting. You would've been better off had you said from the jump that ALL porn was disgusting regardless of race involved (but then you'd be lying) .

I'll admit that I find black-men-white-women porn to be more disgusting then white-women-white-men porn, hence my use of the words "all" and "alot of."

And if you think that this makes me a racist...nevermind!

BTW, you have gotten into an argument that you didn't want to get into with me: an argument about politics or sex, in this case, sex.

Good job.

erm kinda long post coming up ...so if you don't like reading be warned. : P

i'm begining to see what amnesia means about the logic to your statements being some what out of place or just missing altogether

you often willl say some highly questionable stuff, rarely you will into more detail over your opinions unless pushed ...and when you do go into detail about it ...it is still very hard to see your views as being justified without you sounding like a bigot/racist

maybe you are racist and just don't realise it ...maybe you are just plain lying about how you are not racist ...or maybe you are not racist but mind works differently to other people's and you make statements that seem fine to you but cannot see how or why people might form a negative opinion of you.



on the offchance you are the latter i will attempt to break it down for you. now even though i am fairly articulate i don't even know if i can explain this properly to you but i will have a go.

when you make a statement like this

I HAVE said that white wome black men porn is disgusting. Maybe your confusing what i said?

and just leave it is that. the majority of people with normal thought proccesses and reasoning will come to the conclusion you are a racist. surprised? they will do this based on assumptions, logic and also based on what was said. let me break it down a bit more

Everyone here reading this thread knows what race you are which is white .when someone see's something like that written by a white person that are thinking to themselves why is she saying black men porn with white women are disgusting. she is white, it is not the white person she has issues with ..she dosen't find a white women disgusting, it is the black man she dosen't like. she finds the act of a white women engaging in sexual activity with a black man disgusting. she finds black men disgusting. she is repulsed by the thought of a black man ingaging in sexual activty with a white women.

is that what you mean't when you made that statment? who knows ... but that how it came accross to people reading the thread

people take what you say at face value and make assumptions based on logic. yeah you might say it is wrong for people to just assume that about me ...but it is fact of life people will make assumptions and use logic ...we do it all the time without even realising.

If for example i said to everybody here. i went to the supermarket yesterday to buy some food. picture it in your head and draw me a picture of me going to the supermarket. ..yeah the drawings of what i actually look like may vary greatly but i can guarantee to you that when people draw that picture the guy in the picture will have clothes on. did i say to you i was wearing clothes that day? no ...then why did people draw a person with clothes on ..they assumed i had clothes using basic logic without me mentioning it.




I HAVE said that white wome black men porn is disgusting. Maybe your confusing what i said?

when you make a statement like this and just leave it as that. the majority of people are going to take that statement at face value and using logic and resoning come to the conclusion you are racist and have issues with black people.


only when pushed by amnesia did you try and offer and logic/resoning to try and explain your statement ...and to be honest it still sounds like you find a black man disgusting. again let me break it down

I'll admit that I find black-men-white-women porn to be more disgusting then white-women-white-men porn, hence my use of the words "all" and "alot of."

when people look at that they think to themselves this person is claiming not to be racist but why does she find not all white man white women porn disgusting but all black man white women porn disgusting.

if the white man and white women are doing exactly the same sort of porn as the black man and white women why can in some cases is she not be disgusted by the white man and white woman?

now here comes the logic part

It is because it is black man instead of a white man. thats the only difference. she is finding it disgusting because he is black. she does have issues with black men ...bag is not a nice person, she is a racist

thats the way it is coming accross to me and probably most people who are reading it

you seem to lack alot of judgement and how and what you say is percieved by other people. quite frankly you should have enough judgement by now to know that saying something like what you said in your first quote is going to make people think you are possibly racist therefore you need to try and explain yourself as much as possible there and then to avoid people thinking this way.

you seem to be somewhat lacking in these skills ...and unless you learn to better convey your thoughts and opinions i think you will make quite a few enemies in life and have people think more badly of you and have a lower opinion of you that is warrented

here's a little story of a girl back when i was at school. the girl was a white girl. she was very unpopular and had no friends. why? she had major hygene problems ...and the smell that radiated from her was just incrediable.

one day in class some of the other people there started talking to her, just out of bordem with the intent to piss take probably. most of the group of people were black who started talking to her ..i'd say about 70%. then one black girl asked the white girl in a joking mannor that ryan (a black person who was there) wanted to go out with her and would she go out with him. it was quite obvious he didn't want to go out with her and that they were just fooling around by asking that. the white girl then replied with "no, I don't go out with black people"

..yep you can imagine how well that went down. first the group were kind of a little shocked ..but soon that shock turned to anger and manifested itself especially with ryan. by the end of that lesson the white girl who had made that comment ran out of the room in a flood of tears over what the group said said to her and the amount of verbal abuse they threw at her throughtout the remainder of the class.

did i think the girl was racist?
well i did not know her very well at all ...but up until that point if i had to of put money on iti would have said no

if when asked the question the girl had said something like "no, ...i don't think he's my type"

..or "no, i tend to go for the rock star look" ..(or whatever)
then she would not have caused any offence to anyone or appeared to be racist

but because she said " no, i don't go out with black people" people took that comment at face value and it didn't go down to well with them at all


my point being is THINK before you type or say things. think to yourself how are other people going to percieve it. how does it sound? read what you have written and imagine you have just read that for the first time, using that information and that information only how does it sound? what would i assume? how does it come accross with me a white woman saying i find black men and white men doing porn disgusting? what are people going to assume?

If you can do this then you will get along with people much better in life ..you will avoid people forming a low opinion of you if don't deserve it

that being said in this case im not sure if the opinion people have of you that you are shallow and racist is true or not. so far too much lack of resoning and logic in your explinations for me to know with any real certainty.

the comment about how find ALL black men and white women porn disgusting but not all white men and white women pron disgusting still shouts racist white women to be honest.
reasons why that post sreams racist white women is explained futher up in this post.

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[Amnesia]

Wow, thanks Mr A . I was hoping someone articulate could come and handle this thread for me. Honestly, I just dont have the patience anymore with BAG. We've all tried to explain things to her, but it's like talking to a brick wall.

"my point being is THINK before you type or say things".
Well, that would be great. But BAG doesn't think before she post anything. Wishfull thinking, but you can forget about that idea

[Blond Adult Girl]

when people look at that they think to themselves this person is claiming not to be racist but why does she find not all white man white women porn disgusting but all black man black women porn disgusting.

thats the way it is coming accross to me and probably most people who are reading it

you seem to be somewhat lacking in these skills ...and unless you learn to better convey your thoughts and opinions i think you will make quite a few enemies in life and have people think more badly of you and have a lower opinion of you that is warrented

my point being is THINK before you type or say things.

If you can do this then you will get along with people much better in life ..you will avoid people forming a low opinion of you if don't deserve it

that being said in this case im not sure if the opinion people have of you that you are shallow and racist is true or not. so far too much lack of resoning and logic in your explinations for me to know with any real certainty.

the comment about how find ALL black men and white women porn disgusting but not all white men and white women pron disgusting still shouts racist white women to be honest.

Mr A, I'm not changing my way of thinking just to please you or anybody else on this site. I don't know you guys in person, and you don't know me. This isn't school, this is a chat site. Chat sites are just supposed to be about fun discussions and debates, not trying to get people to change their ways.

Now, I would like to adress a few of the things mentioned above:

-if some people think that me disliking black-man-white woman porn more then i dislike white-woman-white-men porn is "racist," then they are in a politically correct world that they cannot escape from. No offense, but I'm not going to change my opinion on that just because it may come across as "racist."

-I don't care if some people dislike me for what i say. I'm not trying to be popular, and I'm going to be radically honest about my opinion. I'm sorry that you think I'm coming across as a racist-thats to bad. I'm not going to make a thousand page post "explaining" my views just to save face.

The bottom line: I have my morals and values set, and nobody-and I mean nobody-is going to change them. You guys aren't my parents, afterall.

[Mr A]

i never once told you that you should change your views and opinions or that you should enjoy black man white women porn.

i said you should change the way you put your views accross if you don't want to appear racist. those statements you made i broke down and showed exactly how most people percieve them and the likely thought processes going on in thier head.

If it dosen't matter to you what people will think of you when you make those statements, then that fine by me .by all means continue, just don't be surprised if people do think you are racist .. i won't loose any sleep over it. that last post i made was for your benefit
in the long last post i explained it in detail just incase you didn't realise how you were coming accross

[Blond Adult Girl]

i never once told you that you should change your views and opinions or that you should enjoy black man white women porn.

i said you should change the way you put your views accross if you don't want to appear racist. those statements you made i broke down and showed exactly how most people percieve them and the likely thought processes going on in thier head.

If it dosen't matter to you what people will think of you when you make those statements, then that fine by me .by all means continue, just don't be surprised if people do think you are racist .. i won't loose any sleep over it. that last post i made was for your benefit
in the long last post i explained it in detail just incase you didn't realise how you were coming accross

Right, and I'm saying that I don't care how people perceivve comments like that.

[Mr A]

i never once told you that you should change your views and opinions or that you should enjoy black man white women porn.

i said you should change the way you put your views accross if you don't want to appear racist. those statements you made i broke down and showed exactly how most people percieve them and the likely thought processes going on in thier head.

If it dosen't matter to you what people will think of you when you make those statements, then that fine by me .by all means continue, just don't be surprised if people do think you are racist .. i won't loose any sleep over it. that last post i made was for your benefit
in the long last post i explained it in detail just incase you didn't realise how you were coming accross

Right, and I'm saying that I don't care how people perceivve comments like that.

well if you don't care then you don't care. i'm not gonna try and tell you you should care as you don't want to.

[Amnesia]

i never once told you that you should change your views and opinions or that you should enjoy black man white women porn.

i said you should change the way you put your views accross if you don't want to appear racist. those statements you made i broke down and showed exactly how most people percieve them and the likely thought processes going on in thier head.

If it dosen't matter to you what people will think of you when you make those statements, then that fine by me .by all means continue, just don't be surprised if people do think you are racist .. i won't loose any sleep over it. that last post i made was for your benefit
in the long last post i explained it in detail just incase you didn't realise how you were coming accross

Right, and I'm saying that I don't care how people perceivve comments like that.

well if you don't care then you don't care. i'm not gonna try and tell you you should care as you don't want to.

And to think, you've only been dealing with her for 2 days... we've been dealing with her for months

[Mr A]

lol i don't know how you get it through it man

[mogadishu]

BAG we have yet to have an encounter characterised by animosity. Why is this?


Yours disappointed xx

[Blond Adult Girl]

BAG we have yet to have an encounter characterised by animosity. Why is this?


Yours disappointed xx

I'll tell you why: because you're not trying to change my viewpoints.

Me and you just try to prove that our viewpoints are right, but some people on this forum are trying to change my way of thinking altogether.

[Amnesia]

BAG we have yet to have an encounter characterised by animosity. Why is this?


Yours disappointed xx

I'll tell you why: because you're not trying to change my viewpoints.

Me and you just try to prove that our viewpoints are right, but some people on this forum are trying to change my way of thinking altogether.

You can never be wrong BAG... yet you always have to prove your viewpoints are right. And when people try to prove you wrong (and more often than not do), you see them as trying to "change" you way of thinking.

Gotta love that thought process.

[Blond Adult Girl]

BAG we have yet to have an encounter characterised by animosity. Why is this?


Yours disappointed xx

I'll tell you why: because you're not trying to change my viewpoints.

Me and you just try to prove that our viewpoints are right, but some people on this forum are trying to change my way of thinking altogether.

You can never be wrong BAG... yet you always have to prove your viewpoints are right. And when people try to prove you wrong (and more often than not do), you see them as trying to "change" you way of thinking.

Gotta love that thought process.

Elliot has tried to prove me wrong. Mogadishu has tried to prove me wrong. Drinker has tried to prove me wrong. Many people on this site have debated me in an effort to prove me wrong-or prove themselves right. Thats fine and dandy.

But you, Amnesia, want me to admit that I'm a "racist," or at the very least, that I'm being "discriminitory." You want me to admit that my thinking is skewed and morally wrong, instead of proving your own viewpoints right.

You've proven nothing. I countered your hitler analogy, and you dropped it altogether. I shot down your "BAG doesn't sleep with black man because BAG doesn't like black man" theory by making the job analogy, and yet you still tried to say that the only reason why i wouldn't sleep with a black man is because I "don't like them."

I just don't understand why you are so deadset on making me want to be willing to have sex with a small dicked man or a blackman. Drop it already.

[Amnesia]

Elliot has tried to prove me wrong. Mogadishu has tried to prove me wrong. Drinker has tried to prove me wrong. Many people on this site have debated me in an effort to prove me wrong-or prove themselves right. Thats fine and dandy.

But you, Amnesia, want me to admit that I'm a "racist," or at the very least, that I'm being "discriminitory."

You ARE being discriminatory. I could give a damn whether you want to admit it or not. The proof is in your posts. Everyone can see it for themselves.

You've proven nothing. I countered your hitler analogy, and you dropped it altogether. I shot down your "BAG doesn't sleep with black man because BAG doesn't like black man" theory by making the job analogy, and yet you still tried to say that the only reason why i wouldn't sleep with a black man is because I "don't like them."

Now you're just being dillusional . You've done nothing of the sort, nor do you have the capacity to be articulate enough to even begin to "shoot down" or disprove any stance I have on anything. I could purposely defend a stance that I KNOW to be wrong, and you still wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of disproving me because I would pick apart your jumble of senseless, inarticulate babble and make you look even dumber than you're coming across right now.

You want me to admit that my thinking is skewed and morally wrong, instead of proving your own viewpoints right.

No, you would never admit that your thinking is skewed or wrong, even if you know it to be so. So why would I have any interest in trying to accomplish such a feat???

I just don't understand why you are so deadset on making me want to be willing to have sex with a small dicked man or a blackman. Drop it already.

I never said that and that has never been my goal. You just illogically assume things, but I know how you operate now... so it's no surprise to me anymore.

And what the hell are you trying to say with that sinister smilie?

[Blond Adult Girl]

Elliot has tried to prove me wrong. Mogadishu has tried to prove me wrong. Drinker has tried to prove me wrong. Many people on this site have debated me in an effort to prove me wrong-or prove themselves right. Thats fine and dandy.

But you, Amnesia, want me to admit that I'm a "racist," or at the very least, that I'm being "discriminitory."

You ARE being discriminatory. I could give a damn whether you want to admit it or not. The proof is in your posts. Everyone can see it for themselves.

You've proven nothing. I countered your hitler analogy, and you dropped it altogether. I shot down your "BAG doesn't sleep with black man because BAG doesn't like black man" theory by making the job analogy, and yet you still tried to say that the only reason why i wouldn't sleep with a black man is because I "don't like them."

Now you're just being dillusional . You've done nothing of the sort, nor do you have the capacity to be articulate enough to even begin to "shoot down" or disprove any stance I have on anything. I could purposely defend a stance that I KNOW to be wrong, and you still wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of disproving me because I would pick apart your jumble of senseless, inarticulate babble and make you look even dumber than you're coming across right now.

You want me to admit that my thinking is skewed and morally wrong, instead of proving your own viewpoints right.

No, you would never admit that your thinking is skewed or wrong, even if you know it to be so. So why would I have any interest in trying to accomplish such a feat???

I just don't understand why you are so deadset on making me want to be willing to have sex with a small dicked man or a blackman. Drop it already.

I never said that and that has never been my goal. You just illogically assume things, but I know how you operate now... so it's no surprise to me anymore.

And what the hell are you trying to say with that sinister smilie?

Let me borrow a line from a certain FF member:

"I get a S*** load of laughs at the expense of S*** heads like you."

I believe someone has that in her avatar.