why do men like wearing womens panties

[mareng2]

At 50, I have been secretly dressing up in womans clothes for years (since I was about 4 years old). I once wore a nightie, to bed but my ex-wife laughed and told me she would tell our friends. After I split with her I had a relationship for about 1o years with a lady who sometimes liked to dress me, but it was always on her terms and she eventually went off the idea. A friend who had separated from her husband and needed somewhere to stay, looked after my house when I was working in Australia for a few months. After I got back she stayed for a while longer because she was in the process of buying a house. One evening, when we had probably had a few glasses of wine to much she came over and ran her hand up my thigh and was clearly feeling the tops of my hold-ups we kissed and haven't looked back. (She had done the washing and found them in my laundry basket)! We got engaged this year, I wear stockings, panties a short slip and camisole under my day clothes, she washes them and gives me advice on what to buy and where. Sometimes if we are going out somewhere special she likes us both to wear the same underwear (different sizes) and we enjoy the intimacy of knowing what we both have on underneath. I have a high pressure job and lifestyle, and find I am more relaxed in lingerie. My partner had an abusive partner and a difficult father and she says that she feels safer and happier with a man who can let a bit of his feminine side show through and enjoys being able to talk to me about girly things. Me, I am at last truly happy and comfortable, and we both (for those who think I must be gay) have a wonderful sex life!

[Aurythong]

Hi! I´m 19 years old and all I can say is that I love wearing female lingerie, more specifically, thongs, they drive me crazy, it really turns me on having that little piece of string deep inside my buttcheeks only to leave a sexy triangle on my ass. I like to wear lingerie because I see that girls really enjoy wearing lingerie, and I think that young men like me are also entitled to such pleasure, because male underwear is nothing exciting at all. Besides, I think that doing something "forbidden" makes it more exciting and fun. I live with my parents and when they are not at home, I get naked and put on my wig and makeup and start trying on my bras, thongs, thong-teddys, garter belts and stockings for as long as I´m home alone, sometimes even for several days. I buy my own female underwear at supermarkets and lingerie stores very normally and without any fear or shame. I also find very arousing to wear maxi pads specially designed for strings, such as Kotex-Thong or Carefree-Thong. When I have the opportunity to enjoy myself in lingerie, I call some friends my age or even younger who share my interests (we are growing in numbers) and have great times wearing thongs and giving ourselves handjobs, blowjobs, rimjobs, and even F****** our brains out.

[seabass]

I just want to say that your very brave for doing that.
I must say that im straight and i only like to sleep in girl pajamas like spaghetti strap tanktops and comfortable pants mainly the tops. Mygirlfriend is the one that started it. lol.

[Bob_D]

I don't see why you can't find colorful sexy boxers and briefs for men? Men's clothing has really taken off, and I mean sexy wise. Men have g~strings to choose from, custom made thongs for them, silk boxers, different patterns and the list goes on. What are you not finding in the men's department that you are in the women's?

The mens department has no womens clothing, which I prefer. I think that probably makes me a crossdresser, but since I'm not gay and have no urges to be with men, I try not to get too alarmed over it. I also don't wear anything that is obviously femme, so it's very rare that anyone even notices.

Not only that, all the "sexy" underwear made for men has a pouch-like front, which supposedly is designed to hold my package. The problem is that it does a lousy job, and lets my package flop around and get twisted in knots the same way Y-front tighty whiteys do. I'm above average in size, so I haven't a clue who these were designed for. Tried them for a while when I was living with a girlfriend, but it wasn't long before I ditched them and went back to wearing girly undies.

Same thing with girls jeans, they fit and look better on me. As I've said in other threads here, most mens clothing these days is baggy and seems to be made for guys who can't stay in shape, and I don't like wearing jeans that make it look like I crapped my pants. I've gotten more compliments from women while wearing ladies jeans than I ever could've hoped to get while wearing the baggy jeans made for men these days.

Me in girly jeans

[Guest]

I think that just to mess with girls heads would have to rank in the top 10 somewhere. Equal rights means women no longer get to wear their bf's boxers and be "unique." Let her bf slip into one of her gstrings, and the novelty wears off to the point she starts freaking out at his "uniqueness."

[texy]

I love to wear thongs and gstrings all the time. My sister knows I wear mini skirts and thongs all the time as well. Its so funny sometimes because I have to go pick her up with some of her friends from her friends house and im in my little 8 inch denim mini skirt with 6 inch stellito's and a cuite gstrings with a heart with rine stones on the back. they know i wear these and wear them daily. my dad was way against it for awhile and so were all of my friends except a few. now all the (popular) girls sit with me at the table and we all talk about stuff and keep asking me to show my Thong strap or something. im not gay nor will be but i do like to wear these clothes, my sister wont admitt that she likes it but i actually last night just caught her in my room taking some of MY THONGS!!! it was halarious because she was speechless and i asked her again and she said because mine are cutie and look sexier than hers. i was also in some slip on blue vans with capre's and a tight polo with a g string. i showed her the one i had on and she was like wow, your really into them arnt you. i was like, ' ya and everyone loves it". she was just in awe hahaha, i told her she can borrow some and she also took a mini skirt that she wore out that night. her friends came in when i was on the computer in the same outfit and my g string was hanging out accidently and they gave me the biggest wedgy hahaha, i thought it was funny. before my sister came in they asked if she was wearing my skirt because they saw me in it plenty of times and i told them yes. they instantly wanted to go see all my panties so i had to show them and model them. they all got horny it was great and then my sister walked in and we all hung out it was so much fun.

[seabass]

The thing i hate is that people get called gay for crossdressing. I see it every day and dont mind it. I just dont want my family to find out i like wearing girl pajamas to bed not cause i get sexually aroused but simply a little tanktop and silky pants are comfortable.

[38/40]

Yeah, one half of a girl's brain says "wow, that's cute", and the other half says "aagh!, he's gay!". So it varies from day to day and mood to mood, so you never know just how it's going to go down wen you put on some girly things. Like Bob D, I get lots of compliments when I wear girl's jeans and I can't bear 'anti-fit' men's jeans. I wear lingerie most nights, which the GF usually likes, just occasionally she undoes my bra for sex. Are't girls wonderful?

[Mac]

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Not only that, all the "sexy" underwear made for men has a pouch-like front, which supposedly is designed to hold my package. The problem is that it does a lousy job, and lets my package flop around and get twisted in knots the same way Y-front tighty whiteys do. I'm above average in size, so I haven't a clue who these were designed for. Tried them for a while when I was living with a girlfriend, but it wasn't long before I ditched them and went back to wearing girly undies.

Same thing with girls jeans, they fit and look better on me. ........... I've gotten more compliments from women while wearing ladies jeans than I ever could've hoped to get while wearing the baggy jeans made for men these days.

I agree with you that the pouch in men's underwear looks disgusting. I have noticed that many men's p@nties today have even eliminated the pouch and the y-front as you call it. Is that because men prefer a smoother look and are finding it better to pull them down and to sit? Also, I agree with you as to the look of women's jeans vs men's baggy jeans.

[seabass]

Ive worn girls jeans and still wear them on occasion depends on if they match my shirt. They only match my shirt if im wearing a band shirt for example foreigner, journey, the who, and boston. They dont seem to match judas priest or marilyn manson. But yeah both girls and mens jeans dont bother me when wearing.

[animallover15]

I also find very arousing to wear maxi pads specially designed for strings, such as Kotex-Thong or Carefree-Thong.

Can I ask what it is that you find arousing about wearing pads??

[seabass]

ever use them for you Anal pleasure?

[Bob_D]

I also find very arousing to wear maxi pads specially designed for strings, such as Kotex-Thong or Carefree-Thong.

Can I ask what it is that you find arousing about wearing pads??

Yeah, I've never understood that.

Or guys using tampons, what's up with THAT???

[G3]

Well, I have to say, I'm one of those guys, not gay (not that anything is wrong with that) and am married but I love to wear women's panties. I have for a very long time. Lately, I see a trend that there are more and more men who enjoy it as well. Look at ebay and the amount of "sissy panties" that are available.

In answer to "why do men like to wear women's panties" I have to say that, are women the only ones that should feel sexy? As I mentioned, I'm not gay but I am in touch with what some say is the feminine side. I love to stay in shape and part of that is because I like to shave my pubic area. I love to wear sexy thongs and gstrings because it increases my sex drive and my need for sex. The wife isn't really keen on it which makes it awkward and frustrating, but she enjoys the benefits:-)

By the way, I am so glad you all are here. It has given me some new insight.

[fitnessnutt]

I’ve been a crossdresser since I was 8. I love the feel of women’s lingerie. I don’t go out in public. But I did go out this last Halloween. I wore a flared miniskirt and a silk tanktop. This was a singles party. I swear I’ve never had so many women hit on me. I had a blast. Of course it didn’t hurt that I stay in great shape and had better looking legs than most of the girls. One of the ladies took me out to the balcony, we started kissing and she started to feel me up through my panties. I was in heaven. Not only the feeling of being stroked in those wonderful silky panties, but the role reversal was quite the trip. I would very much like to do that again.