Why am I not jealous?

[david_david]

My wife is a beautful, professional woman and I love her to bits. We've been married for almost 20 years and our relationship and sex life are getting better and better. I know that other men (and women) find her very attractive. I recently caught another man looking at her legs and ass and to my surprise got excited rather than jealous. Is there something wrong with me?

[Mr B]

No. You have her, no one else does, why would you be jealous?

[david_david]

OK, you are actually right ...I feel I am kind of proud and I want to brag and show off...but I want to show off by showing her to other guys...in more revealing ways...and that's probably rather sick??

[MaxtheGaul]

It's down to trust. My g/f is always reporting back on guys who are hitting on her, and because I trust her we can both enjoy it.

[Mr B]

OK, you are actually right ...I feel I am kind of proud and I want to brag and show off...but I want to show off by showing her to other guys...in more revealing ways...and that's probably rather sick??

Not really, post some pics, im more than willing to give an opinion

[david_david]

I am quite happy to show you the pics, Mr B, but have promised not to post anything. I was going to suggest that we have a beer or two together, but the River Tay is too far from where I am (just North of London)

[RainbowGurl]

My wife is a beautful, professional woman and I love her to bits. We've been married for almost 20 years and our relationship and sex life are getting better and better. I know that other men (and women) find her very attractive. I recently caught another man looking at her legs and ass and to my surprise got excited rather than jealous. Is there something wrong with me?

Nothing wrong with you, it all comes down the trust which it sounds like you have. Sounds like a very well balanced healthy relationship.

[david_david]

Thanks RainbowCurl, that's how it feels to me too. I guess I feel a bit awkward because I (we) now want to explore some unknown territories...Have you experienced anything similar? How would you feel if your partner rather then becoming possessive and defensive, actually enjoys it when the eyes (and/or hands) of others are all over you?

[Mr B]

I am quite happy to show you the pics, Mr B, but have promised not to post anything. I was going to suggest that we have a beer or two together, but the River Tay is too far from where I am (just North of London)

Damn geography Although i am now curious as to how hot she is!!

[eltel]

My wife is a beautful, professional woman and I love her to bits. We've been married for almost 20 years and our relationship and sex life are getting better and better. I know that other men (and women) find her very attractive. I recently caught another man looking at her legs and ass and to my surprise got excited rather than jealous. Is there something wrong with me?

I feel the same my wife is going for a boudoir photo shoot in the near future and i am actually rather turned on by the fact it is going to be a male rather than a female photographer.

[MaxtheGaul]

I think the difference maybe that david_david is really hoping that someone will take things a bit further.

[david_david]

I think the difference maybe that david_david is really hoping that someone will take things a bit further.

See, I am not sure if I really want things to go any further...What I think I want to do is to find a similar-minded buddy (a nice, married chap with an attractive wife) and for the two of us to chat over drinks about our wives and show each other erotic pictures of them... Is that weird?

[sally wey]

I think the difference maybe that david_david is really hoping that someone will take things a bit further.

See, I am not sure if I really want things to go any further...What I think I want to do is to find a similar-minded buddy (a nice, married chap with an attractive wife) and for the two of us to chat over drinks about our wives and show each other erotic pictures of them... Is that weird?

it seems that you want to take this much further, just what do you want,
I used to love it when men would wtch me in mini/split skirts, and my husband loved it as well, (he never got jealous) we progressed to extra sex persuits, IE MFMs etc, we loved it and my husband always wanted me to enjoy myself,
go to www.wifelovers.com/discus/sexstory4u for a lot of folks like you and me, love Sally

[Mr B]

Have you taken this any further David?

[FFFCaroline]

When you love someone and another looks at them with envy.....pride stands out....My husband has had two women openly state their wishes.....Now, if you don't think that makes me feel hot, you are very wrong.....Recently he was in the hospital.....I just loved it the way he flirted with the younger nurses not even knowing what he was doing and when we left how they called him honey......Makes me feel more erotic and just can't wait until he is well.....