Why do women like big men

[Guest]

Alas, it seems males like us should have vanished from planet earth-yes, I honestly admit I have a small penis, below average, 4.7" long and 4.1" thick; and I know I am not sexually attractive, (maybe that's why I'm a nerd?)
Well, but whose fault is it that some of us do have small penis? NOT OUR FAULT! It's all the genetics, and Mama Mia, I never even had a say regarding my own birth! I wish I had never been born, I even asked my mom why she had not aborted me--I'm serious. (I was born within marriage)
The current culture is to make others feel bad; and can I blame it? I don't know. Well, at least, it is true that my size can't bring any partner even moderate sexual pleasure, and I admit this fact, but C'est la vie, sometimes I even ask myself why I hadn't ended my own life.
Curse be the day I became an embryo.

[Gimme Candy]

a big, wide penis is more filling, simple as.....

[Guest]

Most of it is psychological, like 95%. Physiologically it doesn't make much of a difference. Why is sex better when a women has big breasts? The more you trick yourself into believing these things matter, the less pleasure you'll get from someone who doesn't live up to that standard. You only hurt yourself in the end.

[The Unknown]

Hmm... I don't know anymore. People say it's not the size. Some people say it's the size. I don't know anymore what to believe.

Frankly, this topic is a mood spoiler. Being large, and being small, it gets me down somehow, though that also means, as you all are very smart I am not hung, though for the females, I like those who doesn't got breasts at the size of, well.. I like them A - B cups, I like them sporty and nice. Something that doesn't looks like they are hard to carry that means also.. The visual is disturbed if they are too big... Don't take me offensive to the big breasted females, I have been with those two and they can be the nicest thing in the world, I love their persona's some of them, though those who are... Rather... Well... Men like visuals of firm breasts hidden under the clothing and some females tend to like being viewed and does, various things to be seen, sometimes they can't control it and it goes over her head, resulting into cheating. Then it's the pleasing part.
^^ I remember once I gave a man/friend as a gift to my girlfriend's birthday. She began to cry and it tooks days before she would talk to me we nearly broke up. I asked her to do it with him because I want her to be happy. I want to know and see when she's happy. Because... That's just me, so she have no regrets in life she and that she knows she could still get out of it before it was too late. And if she's happy then I'm happy. That doesn't mean though I'm much for Bigami and my girlfriend can go do whoever she likes. That would be devastating for me. I just want to know if she's happy with what she got and I don't understand what I do wrong. She doesn't moan, she pants softly and sometimes she shivers and squeezes my shoulders while doing so, though when I ask her if she came, she didn't and then she tells me she's sore. I wonder what I do wrong? Am I not long enough? I admitted before, I'm not big, I'm not long though I'm thick. I wish I was longer, being 2 - 3 inches around and having a stupid member that can only stretch alittle more than 10 percentage of her must be unpleasing for her. As I could hear from all of you females who seemingly tells us males that men with small penises should literally be tossed into a trashcan for useless junk, because we don't have long and thick like how it should be. Am I right?
I wish I could please her and I tried to use toys, but she doesn't want to use toys either, telling me they are disgusting and she just wants me. BUT if I can't make her come without using my mouth then what should I do?

Sometimes I don't understand females. They are confusing and I wish I could understand why she wants me. Instead of having sex with some old friends of mine with hung members at the size of I think.. 8 - 12 inches and looks like poles or something in thickness. I don't get it. Can you help me explain this odd phenomenom? I would really appriciate it from those who talks about big penises that's best and such, because they must know why!

I'm reaching out for your knowledge, it would be nice of you to answer.
/The Unknown

[The Unknown]

I just read that girth has to be 5 - 6 inches... So I guess... I'm slender... Small and slender... Hmm.. Well.. I guess I have only a bigger reason to understand why she stays with me. She's hot and I know there's alot of men just waiting for her to say "Well... It's time for us to part and find our own way." And... I don't know.. Because of all these posts, I seemingly somehow wishes she would do that. So she could be pleased to the maximum. It's not fair for anyone to never experience what sex can do for you, sex is the greatest thing I know... I unfortunately have a large stamina and a tremendously sex drive...
Thank for listening. ^^
/The Unknown

[Guest]

You are over analyising! Just enjoy what you have. Obviously your girlfriend loves you very much and doesn't feel the need to try a larger/wider C*** for size! Don't push her away when it is you who needs to deal with your issues, not her.

[The Unknown]

You are over analyising! Just enjoy what you have. Obviously your girlfriend loves you very much and doesn't feel the need to try a larger/wider C*** for size! Don't push her away when it is you who needs to deal with your issues, not her.

But it's odd.. Isn't it? People say on this forum all the cliche's are bogus and it's all about the size. I don't get it.. Sometimes I even wonder what would happen if she did it with another person with an enormous member. Would she love it so much it would end what ever we had together ^^''' It worries me alot because, look at it in my perspective. There's alot of "Hunk" males with the perfect size all just waiting for her and as I read these, then it would be a waste of time to bother with me? It's also alot about the way I see, and hear and the knowledge I obtain from these forums. ^^'' I just can't help myself thinking, Maybe she would be happier. It's odd isn't it? Trying to give ultimate happiness when you can't give it. Ever felt like that.. It's just.. Sad.. Man.. I sound like a pathetic fool.. ^^''''

/The Unknown

[Guest]

some people call me maurice

[Guest]

It doesn't really matter if the majority of "women" on here say they prefer a larger size c0ck, what matters most is the opinion of your partner. You have to take what you read on here with a pinch of salt. I mean, granted, some people may be 100% honest in their responses on here, but some are just writing things to make people feel inadequate or to provoke an argument.

There is only one person who you need to seek advice from and that is your partner. If you don't think you are satisfying her (which isn't necessarily down to your size) then why don't you spend some time talking/experimenting/having fun with her to see what you can both do to make things better.

good luck

[Guest]

some people call me maurice

some people call me the space cowboy!

[RonMoore9]

I have been with a few women in my time. Some with small, tight vagina's. Some with larger, looser vagina's. I am probably a little above average in size at 7.75" and 5" of girth, but some women still feel like a cup of warm water.

There is a penis out there for every size and shape of vagina, I can assure you of that. If you have a problem with a guy being too small for you, that's your problem. Maybe it isn't that he's too small for you, but that your too big for him. Why is it put solely on us to please? It should be as much on the woman as the man.

If someone says they can only be with someone if they are 8" or more, they are setting themselves up for a lot of lonely nights. According to the Kinsey report, the average size of an American man is 6.21". That is bad news for women trolling the bars for giant penis's. Save yourself the time and trouble and look no further than your local sex shop.

[Guest]

I'm a lady and I don't.

Firstly because I am petite and secondly, men with big cocks usually are..big cocks. Big no no for me.

A lot of women are baggy and need bigger in order to enjoy it, either that are a slapper, they have had a couple of kids or they are just generally bigger, it isn't just men who vary in size.

Hope that helps!

women dont need big cocks because they are "baggy". They need them even if they are tight. Its a friction thing and this myth that havgin sex with a big C*** makes a woman large inside is aload of S***.

[Hahaa]

I'm male and I've had smaller and bigger vaginas to treat with. Also not every woman is fond of big penises, it depends on woman. And you are high-educated and smart when you assume that every woman likes a big one? I bet you have afetish!

[Hahaa]

Indeed, I think Asian women are "tighter" but this doesn't take away from the desire and preference for a larger penis. Physically, the vagina is a very accommodating organ, capable of stretching some five times its relaxed state, hence easily accommodating any size penis. I think many women who have difficulty in dealing with a larger sized penis are ones that are not lubricating or sexually relaxing enough to enjoy it. Before I became sexually active, I had great difficulty accommodating even a small penis. I was just psychologically not able to relax and feel free with my body to lubricate and enjoy sex that way. Now I can and if I want I can really tighten up and keep even the smallest man out. I have to be genuinely excited and relax to take a largely endowed man but I can and have and honestly the sex is hotter with a larger endowed man.

Wrong. I get very wet and am not fond of big cocks. Vaginas come in different sizes and smaller, tighter ones will generally prefer a smaller size to women with big vaginas. Sorry to burst your bubble

You are such a dumb, stupid racist. You cannot even think of a real Asian name to lie with, micro-dick. "Yong Nong"... You come from Egg Nog, right? Dumb little male.

Look, why make up some stupid story about a phony woman like this? It doesn't do anything to alter reality.

Is that why you are on here, so easily perturbed? Well little one, stay on the internet, because if this gets you perturbed, I would hate to see you at a bar getting turned down or a woman laughing at you when you dropped your pants and her pulling out a magnifying glass.

Take care there "Yong Nong" and while you are at it, lay off the bong.

I'm male and I've had smaller and bigger vaginas to treat with. Also not every woman is fond of big penises, it depends on woman. And you are high-educated and smart when you assume that every woman likes a big one? I bet you have a fetish!

[Hahaa]

I have been with a few women in my time. Some with small, tight vagina's. Some with larger, looser vagina's. I am probably a little above average in size at 7.75" and 5" of girth, but some women still feel like a cup of warm water.

There is a penis out there for every size and shape of vagina, I can assure you of that. If you have a problem with a guy being too small for you, that's your problem. Maybe it isn't that he's too small for you, but that your too big for him. Why is it put solely on us to please? It should be as much on the woman as the man.

If someone says they can only be with someone if they are 8" or more, they are setting themselves up for a lot of lonely nights. According to the Kinsey report, the average size of an American man is 6.21". That is bad news for women trolling the bars for giant penis's. Save yourself the time and trouble and look no further than your local sex shop.

Yes, u are right! Why men should always be the object in this matter? And ofcourse there are also different sized vaginas. If someone has a big ''bag'' then she should have a big penis, that's ok with me. I have had women who would have had much bigger inside but also women who were very tight. I have around 7'' penis and someone of my women said it feels big. And they who don't say anything might be they want a bigger one.