Why do women like big penises?

[Guest]

You are over analyising! Just enjoy what you have. Obviously your girlfriend loves you very much and doesn't feel the need to try a larger/wider C*** for size! Don't push her away when it is you who needs to deal with your issues, not her.

[The Unknown]

You are over analyising! Just enjoy what you have. Obviously your girlfriend loves you very much and doesn't feel the need to try a larger/wider C*** for size! Don't push her away when it is you who needs to deal with your issues, not her.

But it's odd.. Isn't it? People say on this forum all the cliche's are bogus and it's all about the size. I don't get it.. Sometimes I even wonder what would happen if she did it with another person with an enormous member. Would she love it so much it would end what ever we had together ^^''' It worries me alot because, look at it in my perspective. There's alot of "Hunk" males with the perfect size all just waiting for her and as I read these, then it would be a waste of time to bother with me? It's also alot about the way I see, and hear and the knowledge I obtain from these forums. ^^'' I just can't help myself thinking, Maybe she would be happier. It's odd isn't it? Trying to give ultimate happiness when you can't give it. Ever felt like that.. It's just.. Sad.. Man.. I sound like a pathetic fool.. ^^''''

/The Unknown

[Guest]

some people call me maurice

[Guest]

It doesn't really matter if the majority of "women" on here say they prefer a larger size c0ck, what matters most is the opinion of your partner. You have to take what you read on here with a pinch of salt. I mean, granted, some people may be 100% honest in their responses on here, but some are just writing things to make people feel inadequate or to provoke an argument.

There is only one person who you need to seek advice from and that is your partner. If you don't think you are satisfying her (which isn't necessarily down to your size) then why don't you spend some time talking/experimenting/having fun with her to see what you can both do to make things better.

good luck

[Guest]

some people call me maurice

some people call me the space cowboy!

[RonMoore9]

I have been with a few women in my time. Some with small, tight vagina's. Some with larger, looser vagina's. I am probably a little above average in size at 7.75" and 5" of girth, but some women still feel like a cup of warm water.

There is a penis out there for every size and shape of vagina, I can assure you of that. If you have a problem with a guy being too small for you, that's your problem. Maybe it isn't that he's too small for you, but that your too big for him. Why is it put solely on us to please? It should be as much on the woman as the man.

If someone says they can only be with someone if they are 8" or more, they are setting themselves up for a lot of lonely nights. According to the Kinsey report, the average size of an American man is 6.21". That is bad news for women trolling the bars for giant penis's. Save yourself the time and trouble and look no further than your local sex shop.

[Guest]

I'm a lady and I don't.

Firstly because I am petite and secondly, men with big cocks usually are..big cocks. Big no no for me.

A lot of women are baggy and need bigger in order to enjoy it, either that are a slapper, they have had a couple of kids or they are just generally bigger, it isn't just men who vary in size.

Hope that helps!

women dont need big cocks because they are "baggy". They need them even if they are tight. Its a friction thing and this myth that havgin sex with a big C*** makes a woman large inside is aload of S***.

[Hahaa]

I'm male and I've had smaller and bigger vaginas to treat with. Also not every woman is fond of big penises, it depends on woman. And you are high-educated and smart when you assume that every woman likes a big one? I bet you have afetish!

[Hahaa]

Indeed, I think Asian women are "tighter" but this doesn't take away from the desire and preference for a larger penis. Physically, the vagina is a very accommodating organ, capable of stretching some five times its relaxed state, hence easily accommodating any size penis. I think many women who have difficulty in dealing with a larger sized penis are ones that are not lubricating or sexually relaxing enough to enjoy it. Before I became sexually active, I had great difficulty accommodating even a small penis. I was just psychologically not able to relax and feel free with my body to lubricate and enjoy sex that way. Now I can and if I want I can really tighten up and keep even the smallest man out. I have to be genuinely excited and relax to take a largely endowed man but I can and have and honestly the sex is hotter with a larger endowed man.

Wrong. I get very wet and am not fond of big cocks. Vaginas come in different sizes and smaller, tighter ones will generally prefer a smaller size to women with big vaginas. Sorry to burst your bubble

You are such a dumb, stupid racist. You cannot even think of a real Asian name to lie with, micro-dick. "Yong Nong"... You come from Egg Nog, right? Dumb little male.

Look, why make up some stupid story about a phony woman like this? It doesn't do anything to alter reality.

Is that why you are on here, so easily perturbed? Well little one, stay on the internet, because if this gets you perturbed, I would hate to see you at a bar getting turned down or a woman laughing at you when you dropped your pants and her pulling out a magnifying glass.

Take care there "Yong Nong" and while you are at it, lay off the bong.

I'm male and I've had smaller and bigger vaginas to treat with. Also not every woman is fond of big penises, it depends on woman. And you are high-educated and smart when you assume that every woman likes a big one? I bet you have a fetish!

[Hahaa]

I have been with a few women in my time. Some with small, tight vagina's. Some with larger, looser vagina's. I am probably a little above average in size at 7.75" and 5" of girth, but some women still feel like a cup of warm water.

There is a penis out there for every size and shape of vagina, I can assure you of that. If you have a problem with a guy being too small for you, that's your problem. Maybe it isn't that he's too small for you, but that your too big for him. Why is it put solely on us to please? It should be as much on the woman as the man.

If someone says they can only be with someone if they are 8" or more, they are setting themselves up for a lot of lonely nights. According to the Kinsey report, the average size of an American man is 6.21". That is bad news for women trolling the bars for giant penis's. Save yourself the time and trouble and look no further than your local sex shop.

Yes, u are right! Why men should always be the object in this matter? And ofcourse there are also different sized vaginas. If someone has a big ''bag'' then she should have a big penis, that's ok with me. I have had women who would have had much bigger inside but also women who were very tight. I have around 7'' penis and someone of my women said it feels big. And they who don't say anything might be they want a bigger one.

[Hahaa]

I'm a lady and I don't.

Firstly because I am petite and secondly, men with big cocks usually are..big cocks. Big no no for me.

A lot of women are baggy and need bigger in order to enjoy it, either that are a slapper, they have had a couple of kids or they are just generally bigger, it isn't just men who vary in size.

Hope that helps!

women dont need big cocks because they are "baggy". They need them even if they are tight. Its a friction thing and this myth that havgin sex with a big C*** makes a woman large inside is aload of S***.

Some need, some not...

[Hahaa]

Many women likes it big many not. Some of my women said they don't like big ones because it's really a big one. But no-one has said they like small ones either.

Here's some links:

http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/5407/results

http://www.altpenis.com/penis_news/women_penis_size.shtml

But as I said before, there are women who like big ones and women who don't, and some don't care (still they are saying it )

[Guest]

That poll just made it clear that woman love big tools. I guess it's off to the sex store and see if the girlfriend likes that.

[scratcher]

Of course they do. Reading the trend of most texts on this site outside the thread, most women don't care if you look like Quasimodo and have breath like London's sewers in the 18th century, so long as you've got a big todger (12 inches plus and at least 4 inches diameter - does that need planning permission?) you are a gift from God. You are the chosen one.

Sorry, dear readers, I can't match up to that myself, pathetic specimen that I am.

And they call me misogynous........

[NowImAvg]

Numerous sites show that girth is more important than length. Infact, too much length can be a hurtful thing. The average vagina is from 5-6 inches deep but able to accomdate a wide range of girths. If the women is fit, the walls of the vagina will be much more responsive to stimulation. The clit however is where most women produce an orgasm from, but reports of g-spot orgasms being the most intense are completely true. Most women don't know where their g-spot is so any man in their life is at disadvantage to helping them find it. That spot is why size matters. Although most women will say "you're just fine hun", they would be saying "oh my god, I think I saw heaven" if their man was large enough to hit the g-spot by accident, as well as stimulate their clitoris better, due to larger girth.

In my quest to please my woman, I have read many forums, took up jelqing to increase the size of my member, bought sex toys and more recently, told her that if she has someone larger in mind, just let me know, and I'll due my best to not be jealous, just keep it safe, discreet and never let him near my son. That's one thing I couldn't forgive. If my wife were to take a lover and see him while with my son, I would go postal.

Ok so some background, I am a 35 year old male, married to a hot, large breasted, 37 year old female. We have been together 11 years and married for 8 of them. I have had 3 sexual partners, includeing my wife in my life. My wife has had 7, excludeing me and includeing her exhusband, and that is only the ones I have found out about due to early in the relationship fights(yeah, they were painful) and other slips of the tongue. Could be 7 could be 27, not keeping score anymore.

When I first met her, she was 135lbs, 36DDs(yeah I am shallow when it comes to breast size) and smokeing hot in a "girl next door" way. Way out of my league, thank god for thoughtful cousins and blind dates. She was still in the midst of a divorce when we got set up on a blind date. She put out that night(that's why I wouldn't be surprised if a bunch of skeletons fell out of the sexual past closet), I was pathetic at best haveing only had one breif sexual encounter before her(the other was during a "break" time, before marriage). At that time, I really hadn't thought about penis size but I can say I was on the small size of average in both length and girth.

For some reason, she found me witty and charming and put aside my inadequate member. We had sex usually 2-3 times a week, and for the majority(like 99%) she was able to orgasm while on top, but almost never any other way. So that happened a lot, it was easier for her to rub her clitoris on my pad is the conclusion of that. At the time I suspected because of the infrequency of sex, that she had someone on the side that got her off and came to me for emotional gratification. I stopped careing after we had our son, it just became less important to me.

I have posed the "are you ok with the size of my penis" question to her at numerous intervals in our life, which is pretty much the same as handing her a loaded and cocked gun. And the answer has changed from "I have had bigger men and I felt it way more" to "well it definetly wouldn't hurt if you bigger" to "I love you and your penis no matter what size". But now it seems to be swinging back to the "well it definetly wouldn't hurt" stage. Not that she loves me less, just that she wants more sexual gratification from me personally and not to have to rely on toys and tons of foreplay.

Maybe she hit her peak a little later then most women, don't know, just know that the bigger the vibe is, the more intense her orgasms. I even went so far as to increase my member with exercises to where it is upper-middle part of the average scale. I'll put it this way, she has me, an avg size rabbit vibe and a huge realistic vibe(no rabbit peice and no way I could ever reach those proportions even with surgery). She now only orgasms while on top, the rabbit does the job adequately, moreso if I lend a hand, mouth or penis, but the huge vibe gives her an "oh my god, I can't feel my legs, Im just gonna lie here" orgasm. She doesn't like using Big Red often cause it makes her feel dirty and out of shape and worries that it might make me feel even more inadequate than I already do, even though I assure her on a regular basis that what matters is we both get enjoyment out of it.

Now, haveing said all that and haveing some readers ponder "what's his freakin point", here is my point. Early on I was a fat nerd with a smaller than average penis and somehow, I still managed to win her heart and keep it. Even though this bombshell had way more masculine and handsome suitors trying to pry her away from me(her ex and the man she cheated on him with, to name a couple), my penis was the least of her concerns.

Would she have loved it if I had a rock-hard 8" long, 6" thick penis? Heck yeah, she told me flat out really early in the relationship that the best orgasm she had was with a man with those proportions, how it looked more manly, and how it felt great in her hand and other places(yeah that was the fight that put us on a "break", I was still way to immature at that point). And she would still love it if I was bigger, but some women learn to look past the basic primitive urges and see the bigger picture. We have a beautiful son and loveing relationship.

As a side note, just after we got married, things started going downhill. Sex was almost completely absent, the internet was my only stimulation for weeks at a time. She was getting back in to shape, haveing gained 50lbs in the time leading up to this. They hit rock bottom when she regained her 135lb weight, now with 38DDs(yeah, I know, the breast obsession again, Im a guy, do the math), I on the other hand, had gained 60lbs and kept it and was away for up 12 hours a day, depending on how busy the traffic was on my long commute to work. This is when I started noticeing that guys would more actively stare at her and became jealous and started accusing her of cheating. The only thing that saved our marriage was on one of the rare occasions we had sex, she got pregnant. A feat she had been trying to accomplish since she was 19. She felt it was a sign from god that we were meant to be together and I thank my lucky stars she is cookey like that.

Any guy that finds himself in a similar situation, don't be a schmuck like I was. Realize something isn't right and talk about it. And don't just talk, make a plan, set goals together. Don't let her get to that point where she feels like she might as well be single and alone again since she feels that way anyways. Getting upset, throwing temper tantrums and playing the blame game is not the way to winning back her heart. If I have one pearl of wisdom, this would be it.

humbley,
NowImAvg