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Scoop wrote:I am in a similar situation right now. I have been living with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. Well, when we met I was just getting out of a previous relationship. During our first few months he was so earger to marry me. He even asked my mom already! I then wasnt sure if I was ready for all that then. Time has passed and now I am wanting to know where this is going. We went out to eat with my mother on Mother's Day and she asked him after dinner. So what's going on with you two? I thought you guys were going to get married? All he could say is I DONT KNOW! He doesnt want to right now...okay so I am happy where we stand in our relationship. I have a 7 year old from a previous relationship that lives with me as well and treats him like a dad. Basically we have the family but just without the ring. I know we dont have to rush it but I am afraid to waist my life on something that may not even happen! I dont want to be pushy about it but I have recently brought it up and I just get brushed off. I guess I am making myself miserable by trying to get an answer only I want to here. Why is he not pushing the M word right now? If not then when? What is considered to long to wait for that other person? I am just tired of being just a girlfriend...I get the oh wheres your husband...well I dont have one.
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