Wife watching / sharing

[Mountain]

Why would anyone want to watch?

The best part would seem to be someone else having to entertain her for a while, leaving you free to do something more interesting, like fantasy baseball.

Still, after reading this thread, Im going to consider encouraging my gf to find someone on the side, at least during football season, but not if she insists on my watching in which case Id still be missing the game.

[wickedwill]

hi paul4444,I must say my first time watching my wife kissing and playing with another guy was very hard.I was so mad I left her at the party and she got a taxi home.That was 10 years ago.We talked about it and she asked if I would watch or just be there and listen.Well that hooked me after I sat outside the bedroom and was able to listen to it all. Now I even join in on some of the hot ones we have.We get to do it about about everyother year now and I still can not tell you want makes it so hot of a thing to see or do with her.We will both be 40 this year and she told me would like to try a guy once a month for the entire year if it is ok with me.She tells me it will be her last if I let her.Tell you at the end of the year how things are.

I have read accounts here from men and woman about wife watching or sharing and am interested to know how one can take fantasising about it to actually doing it.
Does the woman in the partnership have a stronger sexual appetite than her partner and the husband accepts another man in the relationship?
Or is it the man who encourages his wife because he wants to see her being pleasured by another man?
I would welcome views from other men and women who have actually participated in wife sharing, how they got started, whether they used a friend, or whether they prefered a discreet stranger from the swinging sites on the internet.
Also, how does one go about suggesting this to ones own wife?

So are you going to let her have a guy a month. I think that would be a real turn on. Who gets to pick the guy you or her, or is it a joint decision.
Yes I've done it and I would not stop at just 12 too much fun.

[Guest]

so wickedwill - how did last friday night go?

[Guest]

I have always wanted to watch my wife with another man but have never gone through with it, we often speak about it while in bed watching porn. I love her to bits but when she's on top with her boobs in front of me and speaking about another guy doing her, it makes me feel so turned on.
Also have fantasies together about another girl joining us, which turns us both on, my wife says her ultimate fantasy would be with Carmen Luvana, adult star.

[Mr B]

I wouldnt mind Carmen joining me either

[explorative]

I have always wanted my wife of nearly 20 years to sleep with another man. The last time I asked her to do it she said "I love you too much to do that to you." I told her don't do it to me, do it for us. She shifted in her seat and said "Listen, if I were to do this, you must understand, I would be exclusive to my lover, not to be mean, but to protect you. I looked at her quizzically. She said "I love you so much, I would do this for you, but I would not want to risk passing an STD to you. Is that what you want?" I replied no because at the time I still wanted to experience being inside of her with another man's semen filling her. But now I wonder if she would settle for me having a creampie? Still hoping.

[explorative]

[color=#40BF80][list]I have been married to my wonderful wife for nearly 20 years. For at least 17 of those years I have asked her to sleep with other men. She never has. I have been away from her for up to a year and still she says "no" The last time I asked her she told me she could never do that to me. I told her don't do it to me do it for us. Her attitude changed somewhat and she stated "If I ever do, you must understand I love you so much, I would be exclusive to the lover, because I would not want to risk infecting you with an STD." She asked me if that were what a wanted, to never touch her again? WOW I was careful in my approach and told her no. But there was a slight glimmer of hope of her doing it. I was so excited. But alas, she still has never strayed. But I am still wanting her to do it.

[jasonlondon]

ive got to say its the best thing ever....we have done it for the last 4 years and we both love it...

[jasonlondon]

although i dont know healthy its is in the long run seeing your hot young wife regulary with other guys...it turns me on and she has taken to it big time...it was my idea and now she wants to do it all the time...the guys we do it with cant believe their fricking luck!!